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  • Saturday, November 1, 2008

    Sex Change Surgery Before and After

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    Beginnings of Sex Reassignment Surgery in Japan

    By Takamatsu Ako, M.D., Harashina Takao, M.D., Inoue Yoshiharu, M.D., Kinoshita Katsuyuki, M.D.**, Ishihara Osamu, M.D.**, Uchijima Yutaka, M.D.* **Department of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, Gynecology*, Urology**, Saitama Medical Center, Saitama Medical School, Japan

    Abstract

    The first sex reassignment surgery (SRS) performed officially in Japan - for a female-to-male (FtM) person in 1998 and for a male-to-female (MtF) person in 1999 - are reported. For the FtM, two-stage conversion was applied. In the first operation, salpingo-oophorectomy, hysterectomy, colpectomy, metoidioplasty, and mastectomy were performed. A free flap phalloplasty with the deltoid flap is planned as the second stage. For the MtF, one-stage neovaginoplasty was performed by penile skin inversion technique with sensate pedicled neoclitoplasty.


    Introduction

    Japan, which is considered to be one of the world's most advanced countries in terms of its economy, technology, industry, and medicine, has long been in the dark ages regarding people who suffer from gender dysphoria. In July 1996, the Ethics Committee of Saitama Medical School submitted a report, at our request, on surgical treatment for transsexual patients. The report acknowledges that transsexualism exists and that treating transsexual patients can be regarded as a justifiable medical activity. The report was made public by mass media. In 1997, the medical guidelines for transgender persons were issued by the Japanese Society of Psychiatry and Neurology, with some modifications of the Standards of Care of the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association. We organized a medical team composed of psychiatrists, a sexologist, endocrinologists, gynecologists, urologists, and plastic surgeons.

    This is a report of the first sex reassignment surgeries (SRSs) officially performed in Japan: one for a FtM person in 1998 and one for a MtF person in 1999. Diagnosis, preparatory psychotherapy, and hormonal therapy were carried out according to the above-mentioned guidelines.


    Methods

    SRS for a Female-to-Male Transsexual

    In the first operation, regarded as the first stage in the two-stage conversion, bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy, hysterectomy, colpectomy, metoidioplasty, and mastectomy were performed.

    First, the gynecologists performed a transabdominal oophoro-hysterectomy. Then they began to elevate the anterior vaginal flap through the abdominal approach. The elevation was completed transvaginally, just to the dorsal part of the urethral orifice, by plastic surgeons. The vaginal mucosa was resected, and colpocleisis was accomplished. After the abdominal wall was closed, we performed a metoidioplasty, as advocated by Hage (1996). By resection of the chordee, the clitoral shaft was released and abdominally advanced. The neourethra was constructed by suturing the vestibular skin, the vaginal mucosal flap and the labial flap around the urethral catheter in a watertight fashion (Figures 1, 2). A suprapubic cystostomy was performed and the urethral catheter was removed.

    Figure 1 Figure 2
    vaginal pipe insertion


    For the bilateral mastectomy, we used a modification of the concentric-circle periareoral de-epithelization technique reported by Davidson (1979). Resection of the breast gland and reduction of the nipple were performed by the transareolar approach described by Pitanguy (1966) and Hage and Bloem (1995) (Figures 3, 4).

    Figure 3 Figure 4
    breast reconstruction

    The estimated blood loss was 740 ml, and the total operating time was 6 hours. The postoperative course was completely uneventful. The suprapubic catheter was left in place for 7 days. The total hospital stay was 14 days.

    We are planning a free-flap phalloplasty as the second stage of the conversion. The patient desires the phalloplasty but at this time cannot afford the necessary fee which will amount to 2,500,000 yen (US$25,000).

    SRS for a Male-to-Female Transsexual

    A one-stage operation was performed in June 1999. The operative technique involved the following procedures: bilateral orchiectomy and penectomy followed by vaginoplasty, clitoroplasty, and vulvoplasty.

    For the vaginoplasty, we employed a modification of the abdominally pedicled penile-skin-inversion technique added by a triangular perineal skin flap (Karim, Hage and Mulder, 1996). A dorsally based triangular perineal flap measuring about 10 cm long and 4 cm wide was used to line the posterior wall of the neovagina and widen the introitus (Figure 5). The testes were isolated and then removed with a double ligation of the spermatic cord at the level of the external inguinal rings. The skin of the penile shaft was mobilized from the corpora up to the level of the corona. A circumcising skin incision was made at the corona, completely denuding the penis of its skin and leaving the glans penis attached to the corpora (Figure 6).

    Figure 5 Figure 6
    shaping the vagina sex change surgery picture


    The dorsal part of the glans penis was used as a clitoris. Sensate pedicled neoclitoplasty using the reduced glans, which remained attached to its dorsal penile neurovascular pedicle, was performed (Brown, 1976). The corpora cavernosa were resected to prevent postoperative pain due to erection of the remaining corpora tissues.

    A neovaginal cavity was created by dissection between the two layers of Denonvillier's fascia using a laparoscope placed in the abdomen as a guide. The created neovaginal depth was approximately 10 cm.

    The lower abdominal skin flap was dissected to about the level of the umbilicus, and this advancement of the flap in the inferior and posterior direction made it possible for the base of the penile skin tube to overlie the introitus of the neovagina. The perineal triangular flap was sutured to the posterior wall of the penile skin tube and the widened tube was then inverted to line the neovaginal cavity. The skin flap was incised in the middle and the urethra was brought out through the buttonhole and amputated at the urogenital diaphragm level. The urethral stump and neurovascular pedicled neoclitoris were sutured to the skin with interrupted sutures. A soft, individually selected urethane mold, placed in a condom, was inserted into the neovagina, and the mold was securely sutured to the perineum to prevent prolapse (Figure 7).

    Figure 7 Figure 8
    SRS surgery M to F result of penis to vagina


    The estimated blood loss was 760 ml and no transfusion was necessary. The postoperative course was uneventful and the patient was discharged on the eighth postoperative day. She wore the dilating stent every day for 3 months postoperatively; nevertheless, the neovagina decreased in depth to 6 cm and in diameter to two fingers' width. The neoclitoris was found to have returned to a normal level of sensation (Figure 8). The patient has returned to her previous occupation.


    Discussion

    We believe that most FtM transsexuals desire closure of the vagina. However, we recognize the different view of some surgeons who consider the risk benefit to be rather high. Their reasoning is that most patients are not necessarily aware of the presence of the vagina because of decreased discharge after hysterectomy and atrophied mucosa due to long-term hormone therapy. We have found vaginectomy to be technically difficult and bloody and autotransfusion has a valuable place here. We have also found the vaginas of the Japanese FtM transsexuals we have examined to be very narrow compared with those we have observed elsewhere, so we have chosen to do transabdominal hysterectomies. The other advantage of the transabdominal approach is that the partial elevation of a sufficient size of the anterior vaginal flap and vaginectomy can be carried out from above, under direct vision (Figure 9).

    Figure 9 Figure 10

    sex change surgery image
    vagina turned to penis Figure 11

    In SRS for MtF transsexuals, we employed a laparoscope to assist in dissecting the vaginal cavity. Its light can help avoid injury to the prostate and rectum and can provide a direct view of the vaginal cavity up to the peritoneum.

    We are planning a free-flap phalloplasty as the second stage of the FtM SRS (Figure 10). We have experienced 13 cases of deltoid flap and 5 cases of forearm-flap phalloplasties in non- transsexual patients during the past 15 years (Figure 11). These techniques always result in extensive scarring of the donor area. Our first choice of donor site for phallic construction is the deltoid flap (Harashina et al.,1990) because it results in less morbidity in the donor site, is a true sensory flap, has hairless skin, and is less likely to result in atrophy of the neophallus. However, this technique may be technically more difficult than that with the forearm flap, and it may be impossible to make a roll on obese patients. We think the deltoid flap is especially suitable for Japanese FtM patients because they generally are not obese. In fact, they usually try to reduce their weight so that they will not be regarded as females.

    At the time of writing this paper, we have performed six SRSs: one for MtF and five for FtM. Four of the five FtM patients had already undergone mastectomies elsewhere. The SRSs were performed at the Gender Clinic of Saitama Medical Center, which was the only provider of transgender-specific health services in Japan as of March 2000. In total, over 400 clients have visited our clinic since the first patient arrived in 1992, and about 100 new gender dysphoric clients have been seen each year. Sixty percent of them seek SRS. While there are many candidates, we take our time before performing surgery because there are very few psychiatric specialists in this field in Japan and we must apply for permission from our ethics committee in each case.


    Conclusion

    The first SRS operation in Japan was affirmatively reported all over the country and there was actually no public criticism. The operation was an historic turning point for the proper understanding of Gender Identity Disorder in our country.

    We are just on the starting line. Many issues remain to be resolved in promoting the welfare of our patients. Whereas public interest is steadily increasing and some acknowledgement of SRS seems to have become established, there is still no policy regarding health insurance and legislation for those who have undergone the procedure. SRS is not covered by National Health Insurance, and postoperative persons cannot yet change any of their documents. Our team is still the only practising gender surgery team in Japan, although two other teams are now being organized. Despite these difficulties, the role of SRS, performed justifiably, is becoming more prominent in the treatment of transsexualism in Japan.


    References

    Brown, J. (1976) Creation of a functional clitoris and aesthetically pleasing introitus in sex conversion. In Marchac, D. (Ed.), Transactions of the 6th International Congress of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery. Paris: Masson, pp. 654-655.

    Davidson, B. A. (1979) Concentric circle operation for massive gynecomastia to excise the redundant skin. Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, 63: 350-354.

    Hage, J.J. (1996) Metoidioplasty: An alternative phalloplasty technique in transsexuals. Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, 97: 161-167.

    Hage, J. J., Bloem J.J.A.M. (1995) Chest wall contouring for female-to-male transsexuals: Amsterdam experience. Annals of Plastic Surgery, 34: 59-66.

    Harashina T., Inoue T., et al. (1990) Reconstruction of penis with free deltoid flap. British Journal of Plastic Surgery, 43: 217-222.

    Karim, R.B., Hage J. J., and Mulder J. W. (1996) Neovaginoplasty in male transsexuals: Review of surgical techniques and recommendations regarding their eligibility. Annals of Plastic Surgery, 37: 669-675.

    Pitanguy, I. (1966) Transareolar incision for gynecomastia. Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, 38: 414-419.


    Acknowledgement

    We are grateful to Doctor Joris J. Hage in the Netherlands for his valuable help in accomplishing this task.

    863 comments:

    1. I think who are we to jugde anyone wants to do something to their self. I am a woman by birth and a woman I stay but I do not see how it is anyones concern what someone else may want to do to their body because that is who they are.

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    2. ok, it's not "sick" or "twisted" or some "mental illness". even scientists are studying it. and it's called gender identity dysphoria. transgendered people are some of the most understanding, nice, sweet people in the world. unlike everyone on here saying this is wrong. it is possible to be born into the wrong body. when female to male transgendered people were in their mother's womb, they received enough testosterone to get to their brain, but not to their genitalia. and when male to female transgendered people were in their mother's womb, they received enough testosterone to get to the genitalia, but not the mind.
      and "God" is non existant. he didn't create men and women. people and animals and earth EVOLVED over millions of years. not because of God.

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    3. it is wrong to pass judgement on others and i agree that this is all wrong it does say in the bible that the body is a temple of god and the world is bad today because of people like this who try to challenge what god gave us and listen to the demons who speak to them but i hope they know that when they die they will have to answer to GOD!!! and he also says that if you turn your back on him when you ask for forgiveness he will turn his back on you! i hope you are ready whith what face will you anwer to him and to all of you who came from monkeys how sad you think so little of yourselves i know where i came from and where i will go when i die what about you??? are you planning to come back as a tree so i can chop you down make paper and print the bible on you!!!!!!!

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    4. if your all into sex change surgery you took the pain and/or planning on taking the pain take all the harsh punnishment and bad words you should know wat comes with the pakage because we have to put up wit you mentally ill people so just grab life by the testicles or get some

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    5. I do believe in god and also believe in free will. These people are out there preaching to know gods ideas and ways but isn't that fallible due to the nature of humanity writing the bible. I say if you feel like you need to be the opposite sex its your choice and no one can say otherwise

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    6. owww i feel sorry for them but anyway there still brave

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    7. I'm a christian BUT im not judgemental of anyone ppl should be "loved' no matter wat they are.........nd all the other christians who are speaking for God SHUT THE FUCK UP youre NOT god and this isnt a matter were the bibble or God should be brought up......yes ppl who get this surgery i think in MY OWN OPINION are very brave and once again IN MY OWN OPINION ppl who dont feel right in their bodies now nd undergo the probably very painful surgery are doing what is right by them....life is short live it to the fullest and be happy.

      i wish them the very best of luck and i hope everything works out - u rock!!!!!

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    8. to the person way up there that told everyone to live our own lives and stop worrying about transsexuals, it's easier said than done in my case and other cases like mine.
      I am the wife of a man who just recently heard about transsexuals and now thinks he is one. i am trying to understand it and accept it, but i'm having a hard time. but anyways, i was just kinda thrown into all of this. Before my hubby briught it up i never gave it a second thought. i mean i support them in general, but i'm not interested in girls let alone being married to one! i have enough estrogen in this relationship, we don't need anymore, natural or un natural! i just don't get it yet... but i do think that they are all very brave for going through with that surgery... just the sight of those pics made me want to pass out...

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    9. i think its pretty wierd. but i am not confused about my gender, so that is why i cannot understand. i think if that's what they really want, then good for them. you only have one life to live...you should not waste it on trying to be something you are not. As long as they are honest with their partners before getting into a relationship, i dont see a problem

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    10. I am a 22 year old Transgendered Man, but to be quite HOnest I am All Woman on the Inside, I have never Taken Hormones and I am Sensitive Caring Nurturing and Bitchy sometimes, I believe I am Normal and I know God Loves me!
      I am also Native Canadian and in my Traditional Culture People like me were Well Respected and Considered Very Important members of our Nations.. We were Spirit Guides and Translators for Men and WOmen Living and Deceased, so whatever anyones opinion on all this is free, but I know who I am and I love myself!!! Jaime

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    11. Transexuals are my idols...Although I am not one myself, I am a bi female, who sometimes feels male and yes I am comfortable in my body, but I am dating a guy who told me he feels trapped in his own body and is a prisioner in life. They give me hope to tell him things will change one day, and no one will give him hassel...for all of us who have posted comments about it, we should also help to do something about it, because the procedures you have to go through to do this seems more than hell on earth! I just think we should all take a stand so people will know this is not a bad thing =) just people being different!!!

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    12. I am all for the sex change surgery and those who wish to have it. I personally think that people who go through it are the strongest men/women of this earth. The surgery looks and from a few personal contacts, it's very painful, but well worth the pain.

      For the people who like to say it's not right, and that because you are born with it you should keep it, it's not right. You're just very single minded and not open to anything new, and you probably don't have a life thats worth while to be honest. Life is about exploring new things.

      For those bible viewers you're nothing but hypocrites! You say 'God made you that way' or it's not in God's image...but what is God's image? Have you asked him? Have you been to heaven and physically asked him? I'll bet none of you have. You see, God puts everyone on this earth as an equal, no matter the gender, skin color, race, mentalities, personalities, religious groups. We're all equal, and to deprive someone of pride by telling them they can't feel a certain way, when let me remind you, no one can help the way they feel. It's like someone taking someone/something you love away from you, and telling you to get over it, and forget it because theres nothing for you after that. It's not right. God loves everyone equally. And he tells you to love each and every person on this earth the same way, as his son did. If your constantly criticizing someone because they are different then what you want them to be...I can garuntee you won't have a spot in heaven. God gives you life, but he also gives you choice, it's only the wrong choice if you reqret it, which I'm weilling to say no transexual I've ever met has!

      Anyway, why can the world not see how much pain they put people like this, people like us, through by telling them they are wrong for wanting to feel comfortable? They're wrong for wanting to at least live life happily in the right body? If that's so, how about you make a deal to live in the body of the opposite sex, and still like/love the things you do? Lets put you in their position, and take the one thing that sepperates you from everyone else, which is just being comfortable in your own skin!

      This really isn't hard, just stop being so ignorant, and open your mind, life is not forever, so live it to the fullest, some of those people your hurting, by saying being a transexual is wrong, you never know, they could've been your mr/mrs right, or your best friend that never lets you down. But you're too busy being a jerk to see it or ever experience it.

      I searched this site because someone who I deeply care about and love with all my heart is hurt by this everyday. Seeing her in pain drives me crazy every single day, and I'm tired of everyone telling her she's wrong and making her feel like she can't be herself. I'm her protector because jerks and a**h***s like some of you constantly tear her down. I just want her to feel safe and comfortable in her own skin, not like she has to watch her back 24/7. I would personally see that anyone who tried to hurt her would be hurt in a way they wouldn't think about doing something like this ever again, and trust me it can be done. She was born male yes, but she has the most amazing personality you would ever imagine. I never thought I would date someone who would usually seem strange to me, but theres nothing strange she's just different, and I Love how different she is!!! Her difference makes me love and cherish her more everyday!! I'm a female, only 18 years old, and I can see how this is affecting our world, but why can't some of you? Because your afraid of a little change, or it doesnt seem right. You're pathetic! My hope for the people who are against it is that someone makes you feel like this. Then maybe you can finally see how bad you hurt and take away the lives of some people. This is my personal opinion on transexuals. They are the bravest people of our nations, and for that I am thankful to have them in my life!

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    13. Ok.


      I'm a transgendered.. uhh... person. Biologically male, mentally female. I have a few things to say to everyone here. ^^

      1) Transgendered people usually (almost always) suffer from an incredibly rare condition called Gender Dysphoria. Basically, it means that the transgendered person is born with the wrong chromozones. This results in them eventually finding out (I found out when I was 7), deep inside them, that they were MEANT to be the opposite gender.
      I quote http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_Dysphoria :

      "Gender identity disorder (GID) is the formal diagnosis used by psychologists and physicians to describe persons who experience significant gender dysphoria (discontent with the biological sex they were born with). It is a psychiatric classification and describes the attributes related to transsexuality, transgender identity, and transvestism. It is the diagnostic classification most commonly applied to transsexuals."

      2)I'm warmed and touched by all the people calling people like me brave and strong. Really, it means the WORLD to me. People like you are a blessing and I want to hold your hand <3

      3) People who say that I'm SATAN or A DEMON are just being retards. Sorry, guys, I really don't want to get into a Bible Fight with you, but here's my rebuttal:
      -If God existed, he wouldn't have inflicted this terrible pain on transgendered people.
      -So, you argue that God does exist regardless? Well, then, surely God WANTED to inflict this upon me! Which makes God a sadist. Then why call him God?
      -Please, please, please try to understand how WE feel. I'd just like to add that those religious people who ACCEPT me should not take note of my above argument, I love you guys. I wish I had a faith.


      That's all ^^

      And again, thankyou so much to people who give me hope. You're all amazing people.

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    14. You know where to find the gay men they belong & preach in the CHURCH & are very secretive then pray on the children & if you was born to be in the wrong body that person is the only one that knows that so all transgendered people are brave in there quest for what they want in life

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    15. As being a member of “one of those people” I find the comments posted here disturbing. Not because I am offended by people’s opinions, but rather their ignorance and fear of something that has no affect on them what so ever. We do not choose this life, and I promise you that most transgendered people wish they could be normal.

      While it is true that no one knows exactly why people are born this way there is no cure. I tend to believe that if the body could have traits of both male and female or you can have a female body with male chromosomes, or even both m/f sex organs it stands to reason that the mind could also suffer a similar fate. Simply put, the mind developed opposite of the body.

      The argument that transgender people are doing this to be straight is simply ludicrous. Gender, orientation, and sex do not go together. That is where we get metrosexuals (men who act feminine/gay and are straight) or tomboys (masculine acting females who are straight). There are transsexuals who identify as gay, straight and bi. On top of that there is a wide range of masculine or feminine transsexuals in both male to females and female to males. The general rule of a man acting like a man and being attracted to a woman is only one aspect of a vast spectrum human sexuality, and gender.

      On a final note the religious and moral argument has its faults as well. If science found a cure for autism or an number of genetic birth defects any parent would jump at the opportunity to correct this “error of God”. You would be stupid not to, nor would it be fair to the child to make him/her not to live a fulfilling life. I don’t see a difference here. And before anyone says that the bible says it is wrong you have failed miserably there to. There is only one single reference to wearing clothes opposite of your sex.

      Deuteronomy 22:5 (New King James Version)
      A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman’s garment, for all who do so are an abomination to the LORD your God.

      But, if you read Deut. 22 you must also take into context the rest of the passage. As all sin is seen as equal in the eyes of the lord, unless you also adhere to these rules you are just as bad as the transsexual.

      -Wear cloth of mixed fibers.
      -You shall make tassels on the four corners of the clothing with which you cover yourself
      - Death to those involved in adultery.
      -Rails must be constructed around the roof of your house.

      The list goes on and on, some of it still relevant while many others are not. However, if you also take into account that Deuteronomy is located in the Old Testament and no one gives sacrifices to God or any other number of commandments anymore, you must look to the New Testament. This half of the bible has no mention of any aspect of transgenderisim, and preaches forgiveness.

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    16. I AM A STRAIGHT, MARRIED 24 YEAR OLD WOMAN, AND I BELIVE IN GOD AND I DONT THINK THAT ANY ONE HAS THAT RIGHT TO TELL...OR EVEN HAVE A SAY IN WHAT ANYONE ELSE DOES IN THEIR LIFE...I WOULDNT WANT ANYONE TELLING ME THAT ITS NOT RIGHT THAT I HAVE RED HAIR OR THAT ITS NOT OK FOR ME TO KISS MY HUSBAND IN PUBLIC OR THAT I SHOULDNT HAVE KIDS WITH HIM BECAUSE I HAVE BLUE EYES AND HE HAS BROWN ...THIS IS HOW CRAZY IT IS TO ME TO TELL SOME ONE THAT THEY CANT BE HAPPY...

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    17. To all those who discriminate transgenders...i cursed that you will have your own children who have the same gender issues!

      And make sure that you will REALLY disown him/her or might even want to kill him/her since you r so NORMAL & STRAIGHT compared to transgenders!

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    18. I work in the medical field and was hoping to broaden my knowledge on the subject of transgender surgery. I was reading a lot of the posts and in reading the ignorant and obviously un-educated responses i was seriously hoping they were dated at least from the 70's or maybe even the 80's. Much to my surprise they are current posting. I cannot believe there are people in this country, in this day and age, that are still so uninformed and so ignorant in their ways of thinking that they actually belive the things they are saying. Being transgendered is not an act against God. God loves all of his children even the loving Christians on here suggesting these people will go to hell or should die. What part of the concept of a birth defect do you people not understand. How many of you posting to this site and saying such hateful and negative things towards these people know someone who had a birth defect and had it surgically repaired? How many of you color you hair or wear make-up or work out in the gym 5 days a week so that you can feed your vanity and change what God gave you. I am a very spiritual man and i am thankful that God gave us the intelligence to be able to develop such procedures as to help these people with this life changing and life saving procedure. To all of you out there casting stones, take one minute, right now, and think about your own self and your own life and honestly tell me you have any right to judge another person. All i can say is shame on all of you. Hopefully God will be understaning of your hateful hearts.

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    19. ok..
      after reading this..

      i would now like to,
      put a double barrel shotgun
      within my mouth
      and blow away the back of my head.
      leaving myself dead.

      yeaa... it was that bad.
      THESE PEOPLE ARE SICK FUCKED UP IN THE HEAD STATUS!

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    20. For the people who are saying anyone who goes through SRS is crazy, please let's set the record straight here. These people are not crazy, by any means. In the U.S, individuals must be psychologically evaluated before they are permitted to start hormone therapy and before they can undergo sex reassignment surgery. Simply put, they are evaluated by medical professionals and found to have a condition which would be helped by hormone therapy or surgery.

      For the record, I am a transman. That is, I am an individual who was born into a female body, but who identifies as male. I have taken steps toward surgery, and am currently on hormone therapy. Let me give those of you who call this need to change one's body insanity an insight into my life;

      At age 8, when other little girls were playing with dolls and dressing up in frilly clothing for fun, I was out riding bikes, climbing trees, and getting into trouble with other boys. I spent a lot of time in the hospital with bone breaks and other injuries because I wanted to play just as hard as 'normal' boys could.

      By age 10, when I began to develop breasts, I'd already been hospitalized once for a suicide attempt, after a particularly vicious beating from the neighborhood boys after I'd disclosed more about my own mindset than I should have. Dealing with my changing body made it much worse and I grew more and more depressed and suicidal. The kind of distress and frustration trans individuals go through is not something to be taken lightly.

      Now, at age 23, I have finally made peace with who and what I am. I've struggled with depression, suicidal tendencies, self harm tendencies including cutting and drug use, and serious social issues because of my perceived flaws. I want everyone to realize this is a very hard thing to live with. It's not that I BELIEVE myself to be male. It is that I simply KNOW I am. I am not a woman who wants to be a man, but I am instead a man who was simply born into the wrong body.

      Please, think before you judge anyone so very harshly. Think on how hard it must be to look in the mirror and not recognize the person there. Or worse yet, to look in the mirror and hate the person you see, because that person looks nothing like the person you know you are in your own heart and mind. This is no joke, and these people are not freaks. We just want to live happy, fulfilling, successful, and moral lives. Don't bring religion into this, please. By the logic of "God would not want this..." can we not say that it wouldn't be possible (that is, we wouldn't have the knowledge and skill to do this) if God did not want it to be possible?

      Religion is not part of this. These are good people with good hearts. Religion notwithstanding, trans individuals just want to live. Just to live. I know I won't change many minds with this comment. But, if I can reach even one person and encourage them to open their mind to these people, who so deserve respect and support, than I've achieved what I hoped to by writing this. Thank you for reading.

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    21. I see a lot of people asking the question: why don't people mind their own business? I believe people are concerned about our children being exposed to behavior that is not natural. I grew up on old fashioned morals and I live by those same morals today. I believe people make their own decisions and god will be judge. I don't like people flaunting their homosexuality for children to view. If you want to be gay keep it to yourself. I don't go around telling everyone hey I'm straight!

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    22. Talking about strength, and weakness, and education and open mindedness, I can safely say that the strong is that who fights the urges of his/her desires to do something. Just like stealing, I can bet my life that if the same people who are doing these surgeries knowing that there is no HUMAN law prohibits it will also steal or even kill another person in response to a desire or a reaction if they know they would get away with it and not be imprisoned.

      If we keep altering with life the way we do now we will end up destroying our own selves. And all that is for what? just because I felt like doing it, and just because I can!

      We need to start using our brains in a more productive, positive way than we do now. Talking about intellect from a person that is trying to physically change who they are is a funny subject. It gets to a point where its a blessing that those same people are not in power, or otherwise, we will end up 10 miles under.

      The reason as I understand it, is that these human beings are altering their physical appearance for two reasons. 1. they feel like being what they want to become. and 2. they are able to do it. Let us for a moment imagine that everyone who supports this behavior agrees that we are to be who we want to be, and its just freedom of choice, and an intelegient way of expressing ourselves. What would you say if you know that the damage inflected on a child's mentality by seeing and hearing all about these things is more than killing the child. What would you say if you know that HIV was a result of homosexuality, and that its an idnication that we are doing something wrong, and HIV is the result of it. What would you say if you know in few decades we will have greater #s of elder people than children just because we chose not to partner with the opposite sex? and in a century or more we will have no new generations to continue our race.

      Let us not wipe our own race just like we've done with so many species and animals. We try to be be protective of animals, and the continuity of their race, but we forget our own selves, and just like those who fight in the name of their religion, YOU the supporters are just as extreme, only you are fighting for something in the name of (whatever name you may choose for it, pick one) freedom, open mindedness, civilization, or even individualism.

      Think about the impact you leave on the new generations, think about morality, and being an ideal person to those children. Think about life, and what we did to it with all the damages that we have created in the name of greed? or maybe building a civilization? think about your parents, and how if they have mad a choice like the one you just did, you would not exist right now to read this comment.

      The choice of course is yours, and yours alone, and its up to you to think about how your existence will be of benefit this life and the people in it while you live it, or just think about how you want to be, regardless of the consequences. If you think the rules of life do not apply to you, then you might as well go live in a forest, where only the rules of animals exist, but rules do exist. Making the choice of tampering with nature's laws is the most destructible decision a human being can make.

      Yours truly,

      MK

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    23. MK we all have a right to our own opinions, however that does not make us correct.

      If what was shared was true, then it also means people born with no legs or no arms should not be able to get robotic arms and or legs.

      It is not a want for transgenders,it is a need.

      I wake up sure I am a woman. They wake up sure what their gender is too.

      I know if I had a penis I would feel awful and would gladly do my best to fix this challenge.

      So if a person is born with out a face they should not strive to make one with the best technology we have?

      The human race is a mess already from greed, polution, imperfection and more.

      I would never try to blame a person who does their best to deal with their challenge, for the down fall of the human race.

      Geez give me a break.

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    24. You know its interesting to me the amount of people that claim that this is morally wrong and that GOD does not want this. I want someone to explain morally wrong... because morality itself is based on who? There is a big difference when killing people is morally wrong, than hating someone and claiming that its morally wrong... 100 or more years ago electing a black president would have been morally wrong, because of the idea that blacks were not humans to begin with. Same amount of time it would have been morally wrong to give a women a position of power. To have whites and blacks attending the same schools... but now that is normal. So it was not a morality issue to begin with because it would have never changed. I think that religion or religious bigots have to have a group of people to hate. Once gays finally get the right to marry, the right to have peace as any other, will be the days when another group of people are segregated, discriminated and slaughtered in the name of GOD... I seriously doubt that GOD is such a hateful murderous bastard that many of you claim that he is. If he is, you in the closet, self righteous religious bigots then you are surely going to burn with us... and that being said I will see you in HELL!!!

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    25. It is really sad to read all of these posts. Such hate and ignorance. This is not a choice that people just make like chosing a flavor of ice cream.

      The decision to change your appearance to reflect the person "inside" is a big one. These people (yes, they are people) are tormented by others and themselves. They hate to see themselves in the mirror and long for the day that they will finally be free. THEY ARE NOT HOMOS TRYING TO CHANGE SO THEY CAN HAVE THEIR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. Homosexuality is a choice or a life style, THIS IS NOT. This is something that they are born with...a typo of nature that they had no control over.

      For those of you that hide behind the bible...you are not showing the love and compassion of God and I pray for your forgiveness. It is people like YOU that turn people away from God. I love God and I know that he loves me...and I am one of them.

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    26. i can't believe some of the shit that bible thumpers and close-minded people are putting up here.

      you don't know what it's like being trapped in a body that is not yours. feeling pressured to be someone that you aren't. i'm a soon-to-be Female to Male transexual, and you saying "God made you the way he wants you, blah blah blah,", well, you know what? fuck you, and your "God". i am GOING to make myself whole, i am GOING to finally, after years of suffering in silence, make my body the way it should have been.

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    27. More ignorance, being a homosexual is not a CHOICE. There is solid evidence of dna prepondorance to be a homosexual.Also ambiguous genitalia happens more often than you realize.

      When you are born with both female and male genitals, then are you saying they chose that???

      How do you know that a person who has female features in truth has a penis and a vagina, but still she has the hormones or chemicals that make her attracted to another woman??

      Yes some people do choose homosexual behavior for kicks and deviance. But that does not make them a homosexual.

      Some women, after being abused and more by men turn to women for comfort that goes further. But again this would be from deep mental and emotional pain.

      There are soo many variables.

      Just like there are so many different kinds of people.

      Someone posted how they wished homosexuals would just keep quiet. Being concerned about the children.

      I worked with teens as a tutor, believe me there are many gay and lesbian children that need good role models that can guide them through this tough life.

      Another fact is there are very few homosexual child molesters, that is done by heterosexuals.

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    28. To the poster talking about his soon to be made into the man he knows he is.

      Please gather all the love that is on this board and ignore the others.

      You would not want them as friends anyway.

      As far as God, the one who is the creator, he is not who has made a mess of this world.

      He gave us choice and the first two humans chose badly. From then on humans were no longer perfect.

      So now we have handicapped people, people born in the wrong bodies for their innate gender, people born with both genders, people born with out faces, arms, conjoined and on and on.

      The creator made us perfect, and if you know what the creator has said, believe me, you will be again.

      I never will understand why others are so insecure they have to have such hate for someone else.

      They never asked you for anything!All I care about is if they are a good person, and treat others as they want to be treated.

      I don't know exactly what makes me feel so strongly about this. Being just a country lady who loves animals. All I do know is love is the only thing I have ever known that can make things better.

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    29. is there anyway to get paid for a sex change? email me at zesty_boy19@yahoo.com

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    30. Immoral ? Lets start with the dishonesty. can you realy convince yourself that transgender people who pursue their same sex will be honest with their unknowing other halves or girlfriend/boyfriend ? You realy do have the blinders on if you can somehow justify this type of behavior. The doctors who perfrom such operations should be banned forever from practicing any type of medicine again. I wonder how many babies these same doctors have murdered before they started this type of insanity.

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    31. Some of these comments make me feel horribly sad, like I already am. Everytime I think about it I'm always on the verge of tears. I do not belong in the body I have, I've known this since I could remember. Something about me just wasn't right. I am not happy being female in the slightest.

      Those of you who may accuse me of being a lesbian who is just too afraid to admit it so I want a sex change instead are wrong. I have always been attracted to guys and that will probably never change. In every dream I've ever had, not once was a female. Never since I was young.

      This topic frequently pops up in my mind, and I hate speaking about it though it's all I want to do, to let people know how miserable I am in the body I was born in. Everytime I even come close to mentioning it, everyone gets on my case, calling me a freak, a demon, and that I should just crawl under a rock and die.

      I have had many issues in my life, but this is the biggest one. Day after day my hatred for what I am grows and grows. Sometimes I accidently take it out on something living, which afterwards makes me feel horrible. I can't tell anyone how I feel, my own parents began shunning be because I "came out of the closet". Just because I hate what I am and wish I were something else doesn't mean I'm going to blindly walk into something just for that change. They said I could be straight, lesbian, bi, whatever and they wouldn't care, but the moment I said transgender they can't even make eye contact with me.

      I would have hoped at the least they'd talk to me about it, make me feel better about myself, but I was wrong.

      Because of that I'm not allowed to cut my hair or even hang out with my friends. My parents are so paranoid I'm going to do something stupid, which getting the surgery wouldn't give me any regrets, but my mom said she'd regret giving birth to me if I do. It's practically impossible to imagine my pain, both physically and emotionally. Everyday I'm picked on and hated for being who I am. Everyone's trying to make me into something I KNOW I'm not.

      I even had a therapist, and simply saying, "I wish I was born male" caused her to start off on a tangent how people who think this are crazy and should be locked up, and how I'm an embarrassment to mankind. It's horrible, not having anyone to talk to except people online. The internet's not meant to be serious business, but it's the only place I can speak my mind without being physically attacked. My best friend online doesn't even know I'm female, he just knows that I'm gay and love playing games and learning new things!

      How horrible is that?

      I've even thought of suicide a few times, but then that makes me even more messed up appearantly. It's practically impossible for to live as myself, because being transgender, I'm despised by millions. Taking my own life is against God appearantly, so I can't just end my misery and everyone's hatred for me because for committing suicide not only will I be condemned for hell but no one will remember or want to remember I existed and everyone who did remember would still hate me.

      I'm desperate for help, I'm desperate for change... Horribly desperate.

      I will definately wait before I even try for a sex change. I'd have to wait anyways because of my age (15). I wouldn't try until maybe my 20's, and hopefully by then it will maybe be possible to make a functional penis, somethings that's actually a part of me, and not just a flap of meat hanging off me that practically has no use other than to make me "appear" male.

      I hope with everything I have that becomes possible, I would literally do anything to be male and not female. No exagguration, LITERALLY anything, no matter the cost. Whatever gets me out of this body and gives me a future worth looking for.

      Please don't judge me until you've been through this, I beg of you. I'm an emotionally unstable 15 year old who will consider doing anything just to be the slightest bit happy. Is it really worth it to hate me?

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    32. 15 year old female.

      I have shared I had the gay and lesbian kids in the high school comfortable with me. They just were.

      I took it as a blessing. I am a very hetero mom/gma/farm lady.

      Teens have such a very,very,hard time with all kinds of issues and this one has got to be one of the hardest.

      Please ignore the negative ones here.

      Please ask your parents if you need to, I am here if you want to email me. I have a site of my animal sanctuary too and would provide anything else so you know you are safe.

      Here is one of my emails. dickenspollyarnie@Yahoo.com. Names of three of my pot bellies pigs.....(o:

      People are afraid of what they cannot understand. Some judge. Some just love to have something to be evil about.Gives them attention.

      Some people are like this about older people, little kids, retarded kids and people,and more.

      For now I hope you will email me. I can then give you my regular email addy.

      My students asked me to be their moderator at their support group. Made me feel very special.

      You need support!Hon everyone has something they don't like about themself or hate about themselves. With love and confidence in yourself,you will do better.

      Glad you responded here. Hopefully some nice trans G people will contact you also.

      (o:

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    33. If a person has 3 legs or their nose is where their mouth should be, then we would all agree that surgery was necessary to fix the genetic defect.
      Then why is it a huge leap to think that if a person's gender identity does not match their gender, it is not a genetic defect?

      For those who are making the gay comments. Gender identity has little to do with sexual preference.

      If you are a family member of someone who has a gender identity issue and you do not support them with the unconditional love of Christ, shame on you. Encourage these deperate souls. If you can barely stand the thoughts of confusion about gender identity, think about how they must feel. Most want to kill themselves. Love them.

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    34. Guys, I talked to God this morning and I have to say, when he gives you a body it's like a new car. It's fine the way it is, but if you want to re-paint it lime green and have a giraffe skin interior then hey, it's your car. People might look at you funny, but who cares as long as you are happy in your giraffe skin lime-green car. Although this makes ME cringe (and god too, remember I have magic space-talk powers) it's really not up to god.

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    35. I think it's your choice, if god didn't want people to do things like this he wouldn't allow it would he? all u bible freaks need to stop looking into it too much, go save a life in need instead of pestering trans and gays and lesbians and stuff. I think some people are just better as the opposite sex they were born.

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    36. Is very obvious We Humans are made from the Same "Elements", Same "Source" and Same "Spirit", to keep squabbling and segregating over creation or evolution is irrelevant, and probably the most degenerating (or sinful) deed against any Divine or Moral Virtue,

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    37. I was reading on here after talking with several of my transgendered friends and my family and I felt that I needed to say my piece, even though I know many people won’t even read this and truly hear what I have to say. To every person on the planet that says that this is unnatural and wrong in the eyes of God can I just say that you are not God. The only person that is allowed to speak for God is himself and I know that not every person saying those things has an in depth conversation every day with God. I am a 26 year old transgendered woman who is very much a believer in God. Thanks to many years of idiots hypocrites telling me I was wrong and a sinner and God wanted nothing to do with me, and God have mercy on you, and you need to beg for forgiveness, I took a break from my religion (Roman Catholic) but I am now getting back into my religion and realized that you aren't right, you are just ignorant. No one in a religious community has the right to tell me that they speak for God and know exactly what he does and does not like about us human beings. And for those of you who want to live whole heartedly by what the bible says: for every person who has had pre martial sex with or without condoms, who has ever masturbated, who has cheated on a spouse, who has lied to their parents at one point or another, who has looked at married man’s wife or a married woman’s husband in lust. I invite to ask your neighbor to take you out back and stone you to death. All of those are a sin and punishable by death in the bible. Does that make it right in today’s world? And we can’t forget about all the prostitutes in Nevada and the homeless person that steals a candy bar in the dead of winter so he can eat and sleep in jail where it’s warm, we need to stone them too. Just because someone or someone’s government says that something is right or wrong doesn’t always mean that it is.
      And if anyone says that this is a choice, you are sadly mistaken. No one in their right mind would choose this road that myself and several others I know are traveling down, it is a very long and painful road. Every day I have to wake up and look in the mirror and hate what I see because my genitalia are backwards. In my heart and my mind I know I am a woman, however, because of what my genitals say, I am not. I have to worry about my parents calling me he around my friends who have no idea and know me as a woman I am now and not the man that I was. I didn’t ask for this and I do believe that I was put on this earth and this road for a reason. And to me that reason is to educate the ignorant people who don’t know any better. If you feel you need to respond what I have said then you are more than welcome to do so, freedom of speech is one of our rights as a citizen of the USA, however, I just ask that you take a minute to really think about what I have said and realize that what you are going to say might cause someone pain and that it could be you in pain from what someone says.

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    38. And to everyone who is sending love to those they don't even know, my heart goes out to you, you all are truly special people!!!

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    39. It was really strange but for me, this is the benefit of living the life you wanted to be. We are all free to meet our own satisfaction in our life. Even the richest man in this world still doesn't have satisfaction. For those who have undergo with this process of sexual transplant, i am proud for all of you. Lets enjoy the moderness of science.

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    40. I believe its there choice. Theres no right or wrong answer, its all about oppinion and choice. Im not religious personally but i have great respect for people who are. I dont think its right for religious people to force there views but at the same time i dont think its right that some people are critising them.

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    41. i would like to undergone these surgery, so kindly help me on this, what would be the expenditure, and what are the procedures, am a crossgender from india. to whom i should contact for this. kindly mail me at aarthii@rediffmail.com

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    42. hay i'm an athiest so i don't belive in god or the bible.

      this stuff is shit. people shouldn't be changing themselvs just cuz theyre sad. (sad as in crybaby.)

      its like, youre sobbing all your life cuz your a guy and not a gal, then you spend a zillion dollars on this stuff, then after months of surgery, you finnaly come through. WHAT Changes? - the way you go to the bathroom.

      as i said before, im an aithiest so im nt gonna say that god comes into this.

      also, they might be brave to go through this, but its still crap.

      on that happy note, i'll just say that all supporters of this cause are shitheads and can kiss my ass.(people will probaly be changing their butts into dicks anyway, though)

      i repeat, i don't care how "brave" these people think they are, theyre still sick.

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    43. All of you haters make me feel sick to the bottom of my stomach, even more so than looking at those photos (and not because it's wrong, but because it's gory.)
      You're all pathetic.
      If you aren't happy with yourself, you change, yes?
      For instance, I bet you bible bearers have dyed your hair. If God wanted you to have that hair colour, he'd have given you that colour.
      The bible is all for loving your neighbours, and treating others as you would like to be trated. Would you really like it if someone came up to you and told you it's wrong to be unhappy and want to change? I don't bloody think you would.
      "If any of you are without sin, let him be the first to throw a rock at her."
      I bet you've all sinned, everyone has, and yet you're judging these people for going against God and sinning?
      Shut up. You're hypocrites. Stupid, ignorant idiots.
      Let people be who they want to be.
      Don't say that it's not brave, to come out and do such a thing is VERY brave.
      And whilst you're at it, GROW THE HELL UP.

      Kudos to those who support these people and the ones who go through this,and may a dog lay feaces on the faces of the haters.

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    44. Well I think that it is a mans or a womans right to be happy. and that they should be happy no matter the cost i myself wish to be a woman not because i cant find one because my whole life i have thought and moved as a woman trapped in a mans body. who are you peaple who bash on us and tell us we are wrong. we are not hurting you. we just want to be who we are. whats wrong with that.

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    45. Why do the bible bashers bring their hate to those on this site. Wake up all of you, even the trans. God made us in gods image to make this a better world for everyone. To make this a better world, we all must work together. And to all those who think you can come on this site to bash others, well is this no different than persecution in the bible? Y'all better be ready because this earth is about to shift and the ancient powers will rise to rule once more. America is fallen and now it will take the whole world to overcome!

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    46. ok anyone who says having a sex change is an "abomination upon god" i have to ask you this: Ok people are born transgendered well some people are also born with non-canceruous growths-not harmful but not pretty, so you get it removed...your changing your body so I ask you is that an abomination upon god? What about boob implants? Nose Jobs? Tattoos? Are they also abominations? think before you speak.

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    47. I looked at this website to see what post surgery pics looked liked. As I started to read the comments I realized how hateful of a society we live in. I am a Christian and believe in GOD...but I do not believe you should make hurtful comments to anyone for their choices. No one should blame a WHOLE religion for some peoples thoughts. People need to STOP playing judge and jury...only GOD can do that, not any human on this earth. So instead of being mean and rude..be loving and supportive.

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    48. how dare you say god made you a man or a woman and that you just have to deal with it even if you don't like your being true to yourself and i have a relationship with god and im a lesbian i was born this way and my family try this crap about god didn't make you this way just be not happy with myself what the hell you have to be true to you and my parents also kicked me out of my house and i moved in with my fiance and we are doing well and plus some of those people were born with both parts and there parents had to make a decision on what sex there baby would be and what if they were being selfish and wanting a girl instead of a boy but she was ment to be a he so dont judge people and sont put god's name into your judgmental way because god is the only one that can judge us not you

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    49. I searched for this site because I am interested in changing my own body. I am a female that has the mentality and desire of being male- ever since I was a small child. So, those asking what it is like to want to be opposite of what you are: it is like reliving a nightmare every day. When I was a young girl, I had told my mother that I wanted to be a boy, that it was who I was inside and I was tired that it was not reflecting in my appearance; she told me that God had made me to be a girl because it was his plan. And since then, God has not been in my life.

      I do not believe in a God that has the power to see what will happen and not change anything to benefite the hearts of his own creations. He knew I that I would loathe myself and yet he did not change my gender before I was born! If we're talking about an almight God, I hate him. And may I go to hell for it. Because then I'll know that I lived my life the way it was meant to- that I wanted it to be. God does not live the lives of man, he just watches us suffer. So I say, make a difference, change who you are to become better, because you have to live with yourself, it is you that has to look at yourself in the mirror. Not God.

      To any religious extremist who says that I am selfish to ignore the 'way' of God. I am. All humans are selfish beings, but at least I can be happy and fufilled with my desicion when that day comes. I like to believe that God does not determine my fate, that it is mine to decide since he had his own change to make things right. I can only dream of the day when I can proudly and truthfully say "I am a man, and I am attracted to men." But until that day comes, I will strive for it, grasp it no matter the obsticle in my path, and I will only hold the opinions of those I deem worthy highest. No one can touch me because any negative comments or naysayers about God only are low to judge me or any homosexual or transgender and do not deserve a breath of our time.

      To those in the process of the surgery or had fufilled it already, congratulations for taking the steps to the real you. And I wish you all the best and a safe recovery!

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    50. THAT'S JUST PLAIN DISGUSTING..... EWWWWWW.....................

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    51. god make me a girl and i'm damn proud of being a girl!

      (i'm 100% girl)

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    52. I'm gay. Even I know this is wrong. Wake up! You have mental illness!

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    53. I don't get it. If you don't like transgender or transexual people...why are you looking up sites about them on the internet? I'm not transgender. Im a married Christian female, but I think life is precious, and no one should be FORCED to live in a way they arent happy. Please, to those who try to preach in the name of god, please realize that a REAL Christian leaves judging to God. Be kind to any/everyone. If not, you may find it is YOU who is judged as evil in the eyes of the lord! God Bless TO ALL!!!

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    54. To all the people out there who DO belive in God....
      Why judge people who don't??

      And for all the people out there that DON'T belive in God.
      Why judge the people that do??

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    55. Dude I so tripped over this site by accident but this is hilarious. For starters most of the douches leaving hateful messages are just trying to get a rise out of everyone else. I wont lie it is funny. Get over it if you want to do it, then do it. If your looking for the approval of others then join a cult or religion, and in the words of the great Homer Simpson God is my second favorite fictional character. Peace Out Suckas

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    56. im going to get this done soon i dont think its bad to do this cuz then u could change ur life n startover

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    57. I must say as a Christian I am ashamed of all the "God's plan this, and learn to accept yourself" talk going on, personally when I read God's words saying "do not judge" it tells me to be open minded and accepting of others. Would I ever have this operation done? No. But everybody is different; who am I to say that people shouldn’t have this procedure done. If changing your sex makes you feel complete then more power to you; but I am not going to go around spewing hateful words. The fact of the matter is that God loves everyone all the time no matter what they do. Now I know there are people who don’t believe in God, who will read this and think "Bible Thumper" but hey I can’t change who I am and what I believe, so to whomever they might be I wish you the very best in your lives; I would also like to wish the best to all who decide to go through this procedure, take care and God bless

      Sincerely, Jason

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    58. a very close friend of mine is on his way to becoming who she really is and i really want to be supportive of her and help her through this. what can i do to help her and are there any good websites that will help me be there for her?

      btw im straight and married but she has been a close friend for years and i would love to help her.

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    59. Ok for those of you out there who think us transsexuals are "Freaks" listen to this. Being a transsexual is an atcual medical disorder called "Gender Identity disorder." How bout u look that up and THEN post a comment. You have no right to blast us for who we are. The most beautiful woman in the world is a transsexual. So go and educate urselves before you go off and say stuff. Just because you dont understand it, does not mean that we are "Freaks" Thanx. JJ

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    60. oooooooooooh MY GOOOOOOOOOD O___O
      OMFG
      this article has terrified me like you WOULD NOT BELIEVE.
      i am a transexual, i am a male born in a female's body, and i have been thinking about getting a sex change, but this actually made me scream and shudder at the site of the pictures. i am SO terrified to go through with it >_< i think i will just remain with a female's body, i am too, too afraid. but i am grateful for the article for making me realise this before i actually went through with it...

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    61. Notice the grammar of these 'bashers'? Very telling. For example 'y'all, 'you be goin to hell', etc. Uneducated white trash and uneducated niggers. Why don't YOU jump off a cliff?

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    62. I think this is all Stupid, i mean comeon.. All these people are saying "How would they know" its simple.. How Do you know what you are?.. Thier answer "i have a penis" But yeah the thing is imagine you were bodyless... and you were asked that question.. You would still say your a man. Or if you had and accident and your penis was cut off and had half a penis you would still know you were a man and still call your self that were as you would have toerh people that would call you a freak.. and to be honest i would love that to happen to most of the people in this room..

      Like the mother that said she would accept her children... the thing is if your one sick creul individual.. your thier MOTHER Your the one that couldnt keep you damn legs closed.. Its partly YOUR fault they were born trapped in the first place and yet you would still bring them into this world to live a horrid life and leave them on thier own.

      And then that retarded Person that saying about trying to hide being gay?.. what the hell are you on about?... thats the most retarded thing ive ever heard... i have many friends like this and the thing is some odf which are Bi!!!. And Sexuality is different from gender... Just cause your a girl trapped doesnt mean you like men and vise versa.. people that arnt trapped have thier own Gender ( example ) Boy. Your body is a Man = right... then you have your sexuality.

      I have friends like this that like girls... boys.. and both and are completely open about what they like and one of wich likes men and was open about that before.. She was quite open that she was a girl too even those people that didnt know she was a girl still knew she liked guys..

      The thing is in the womb the fetus has a X chromosome... but then it will get the other one wich will be a X or a Y that determines what is between the leg but the whole thing is VERY complex and the thing is the body may form one way but the brain goes in a different direction..

      A girl thats trapped is just anyother girl..
      Just imagine a girl putting a costume of a guy on and getting stuck.. you still know inside there she is a girl and its as simple as that..
      You cant possibly believe in god and believe in 1 being basically with the click of thier fingers creating the EVER EXPANDING UNIVERSE and not believe that the TINY little thing of a birth defect causeing someone to be born trapped cant happen..

      And the thing is IF god is real, god make NATURE to control things god doesnt oversee EVERY single birth cause we arnt the only ones in the universe there is INFINATE amounts of people.. And even if your Supposid god cant make mistakes gods creations can and god made nature...

      But the thing is i would love for all those bible bashing people to fin that when they die there isnt anything or either that or they go to hell cause i would laugh lmao..

      The BIBLE is just a overrated story book NOT gods word ( if there is a god )

      Im not meaning to affend anyone and thier beliefs in god in the bible if you want to believe ok but dont try preaching to other people.

      Cause at the end of the day if god is real then god didnt come down and right a damn book..
      and jesus may have existed but he was probably a man that just wanted attention and to be remembered.. just think people believed magicians did real magic in the damn 1800's think about a magician back in those times then.. they would believe he WAS a god.

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    63. Romans 1:21-32
      1Corinthians 6:9-10
      John 3:16-17

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    64. MK it appears that you have given much thought and rationalization to your mindset, so it is doubtful whatever I have to say will sway you to any extent. Instead I will give you my own history, and how my history leads me to my conclusions. I grew up in downtown Bible Belt where the Baptists and Pentecostals ruled supreme. I was a member of each denomination at various points of my life. I also deal with transsexuality, which puts me in 1%, maybe less of the general population. Definately not a great enough number to endanger the world's population. I have given great thought to the "how's","why's", etc. of my transsexuality, the ultimate answer is, that it just simply "is".We have many differences that make up not only nature, but of mankind as well. It is contended that being homosexual, transsexual, etc. is not natural, yet there are many instances in nature where there is same sex partnering of animals, transvestism buy some species, while some species actually have the ability to change gender.I do with all of my heart believe in something greater than myself, I call him God. There are times, especially on those bad "poor pitiful me" days, that I'm not too happy with him. Since I didn't choose to have my gender issue, it had to be God, right...? I don't know..., maybe I am part of a grander plan..., one thing about it, I am not demonically possessed or an abomination. I am simply a person that tries on a daily basis to come to grips with a very complex, not to mention controversial, uniqueness. I have given up trying to figure it out, instead I try to live my life the best I can. This uniqueness has taught me to be mindful of my own views of others. I pray that you and the others that are so quick to pass judgement, not find yourself in circumstances in your life where you are forced to be as mindful of your views of people, as I have been forced to be in mine.

      Jennifer

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    65. I do understand people being concerned for family members and friend going through such drastic changes such as this but really...it's their choice and not ours. Religion has nothing to do with it. It's not my ideal choice but I do respect the people who change themselves for the better. Meaning...they feel free and can continue with their life in peace. It's not our business and they're not harming other people because they became a different gender. This site is to educate others and not for abusing others. Sad!!

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    66. To Jason... who posted a comment on July 30th, 2009.

      Thank you and WELL SAID! My thoughts on the subject EXACTLY!

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    67. Hello, I'm a 14 yr old Bisexual girl. I looked this up, because I'm confused, ever since I was real little I liked little boy toys, not barbie, and at one point I yelled at my mom when I was 5, asking her why I am a girl. And I want 2 know if I'd be making a smart decision thinking about getting a change, I didn't decide yet, and my mom wouldn't be happy about it, but its my body right? if anyone has tips, heres my
      email:johnson.karissa3@yahoo.com

      Thanks :)

      btw uhh to those who want 2 trash talk emails 2 me instead, u'd be wasting time anyway, because I'll just block you. surely everyone that looked this up is confused, and theres nothing wrong with that. And theres that whole god thing going around, huhhh, I'f I had 2 break gods rules 2 enjoy my 1 life I live, I would and lets face it, no one has real live proof as of if he exists, and what about that saying "Every man has equal rights"? the problem with society is that they look at gays as a abomination, they think they aren't normal but if not then what is? people alone are not, everyone showers and wears deodorant and make up and drives, litters outside, etc. when people were supposed to be wild. what humans do know aside from nature is definitley not normal so what makes gays so weird?

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    68. ADVICE FOR PEOPLE THINKING ABOUT GETTING THIS OPERATION:
      This is so different from an eye operation or a heart transplant. (as someone mentioned before)
      This operation is done because the person hates themselves and wants to become someone else. There are some issues within yourself that needs to be resolved. And again, as someone mentioned before, "the grass isn't always greener on the other side".
      Maybe it's not just the sex you hate about yourself. It could be much bigger than that. Maybe if you get some kind of counseling, you can figure it out and fix what is bothering you within.
      What if you go and get that sex change and after time, you find out you're still not happy?
      Please, if you are thinking about this operation, get REAL help first. Give that a chance. And if you still want this operation, then go for it. But remember, this operation changes your body, it doesn't change who you are inside.
      I believe all people are good. I am not trying to be rude or mean to anyone that has done or is thinking about this operation. I am just trying to help.
      For all of you who got this operation, I wish you all the best of luck. Stay happy...please..I don't want to see you get an operation to turn into a bird or something!!

      jessica

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    69. I'm 12 years old and I'm a girl i really want to have a sex change, since the age of 10. i told my parents and they think I'm young and confused. I went to a counselor and nothing is happening. what should i do?

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    70. I'm agree with the one who says that they just can't feel what it's like to be the opposite sex. They not sure they will be happier after these surgeries. I think they could accept themselves just AS they are, since their birdth and until their death.They have to find out what is the real problem, why they couldn't accept themselves, why they're not happy as they are. And if they're gay, they just have to admit it and not changes sex to feel better about it. This operation is really complexe and irreversible. It's a hard time decision.I just hate that some surgeons convicts people to endure these surgeries just to make their name and "hands" respected in the surgeons microcosm. But of course, some surgeons fight for people who really really wants to change sex. I think too that God may love all of us, even after changing sex, but I think too that it's not our decision to choose our sex. It's just the life, short life, and we have to accept us as we are for the worse and the better (I just even now the right expression, I'm just a french lady who try to say her deepest opinion through your language, sorry I make mistakes)
      I will enjoy if someone react my comment (even if someone says the same before me, I had obviously not the courage to read all 447 comments!) I was in medicine so I enjoy this article, restrictly in the sense of the surgerie science.
      I wish the brave people concerned by these operation the best, and hope for them they make the right decision. They're no place for regrets. It's the worse to endure...regrets. Julie

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    71. seriously if you think sex change is an abomination why are you googling the topic first of all and why is it any of your business what a consenting adult does with their own genitalia. personally i cant imagine what it would feel like to be utterly at odds with my gender i think it would suck to be judge and treated badly. i also cant imagine what it would be like to be so narrow minded and judgemental with a life so unfulfilling that another person sexuality or identity would so greatly interest me it must suck to be so empty....

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    72. You up there, the one that's been married for 16 years - I know what you mean. I mean actually I don't. I've barely reached my 20s now and I already wish I would've been born a boy. All these folks who talk about God and how he didn't want us to be the opposite sex should shut up. I believe in God and I also believe he knows how I suffer and he feels for me and hopes that I'll find my happy end one day.
      If you don't know what it's like you don't, why is it so hard to accept that? Just because you haven't ever had any trouble in your oh-so-great little lives you think you can tell right from wrong and that you own the key to perfect happiness? All I can say is that I feel sorry for you. Because I'd rather be gender confused than blind, mean, stupid and boring.

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    73. Well I dont think it is something to be done just because you are gay. There are some cases in which people are born male/female and have the makeup of male/female,witch means that their d.n.a is that of a male but female on the outside or the other way around,so know one has the right to judge people they have a mind and a voice of their own just be supportive,and everyone is intitled to their own opinion

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    74. where do i start,
      okay im 41 yrs old,and had surgery when i was 20,i had been living this way since i was 16,shit i didnt even know people like this,i just kept saying to mum and dad,that.i dont feel right ,and got help.and now am living in a great relashionship for over 13 yrs and have raised
      my partners children ,thats all i wanted to say and hope i never come across people like mr rockstar,,anyway thanks to other's that try and understand ,and yes my family still love me,and my partner know;s about me,,,,,

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    75. It is their bodies and they should be able to have the freedome to do with it whatever they wish, we live in 2009 now not the middle ages. Who are they harming?
      Leave them alone dont you think this experience is traumatic enough without some bible basher throwing abuse at them, people in glass house's shouldnt throw stones and all that!!
      There are much worse things going on inside the church than here.

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    76. This surgery does not change you from male to female or visa versa. It just changes the shape of your genitals. When we are born we are judged on the shape of our genitals and designated male or female. It is no wonder that transgender individuals seek out this surgery. The idea is put into our minds from the very beginning. I did not think that I would ever have plastic surgery. I have been a girl with a penis nearly all my life. I am glad this surgery is available in our modern society. It's not the most important thing in the world. And it certainly does not turn a man into a woman, or a woman into a man. Your life has to call for it. It was right for me. No matter what I look like, no matter what choices I make, I am still the same in God's eyes. I believe that in matters of the flesh, we will all be forgiven for our human weaknesses.

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    77. OK, there is a portion of the brain, right in the center, that is larger for a man and smaller for a woman, this can only be seen post mortem, this same part of the brain, that God/Goddess designed in a true transgender is not the same, for the MtF TG, it is smaller than that of a man, and the opposite for a FtM TG. I have a good friend that is pre-op, she even served on a submarine before admitting that she was NOT in her heart and mind, male. She is more feminine than I or most of my biologically female friends are. Wake up America, and world, GOD/GODDESS did NOT make junk, the Transgenders are here for a purpose to which only our creator knows, these people are humans with human feelings and faults! This is NOT just about sexual urges, this is who they are and how they feel. My pre-op friend isn't even interested in sex, she just wants to be and feel whole. Lay off! It seems that all the bible thumpers out there forget several things that are in the bible! 1) Thou shalt not kill and also that the bible teaches us that judgement shall be the Lord's. It is NOT up to us to judge, but God's job! SO QUIT PLAYING GOD!

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    78. Who's to say who is wrong here and who is right?
      That these so called "bible freaks" are ignorant and are nothing but hypocrits with deep emotional feelings of guilt or possibly denial.
      Why does anyone judge?
      Why must we feel that something needs to be said? Or changed?
      If we are who we are then what's left? Could we possibly be happier as another person?
      We all have voids that we desperately want filled.
      To help cope with issues we have to make us happy and better, to give us some purpose.
      How far does it go?
      When does it ever stop? Will we ever reach perfect peace?
      Probably not.
      Total acception is not a realistic idea. There will always be something but when has it gone to far?
      When will we truly be happy?

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    79. I'm a happy transman!!
      I say, God bless all even those who hate me.

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    80. My name is Kristen, I am a transgender mtf, I cant believe all the people who are negative about someone they dont even know, it doesn't make sence to me,
      Why are they even on this site looking at sex change pictures.
      1. maybe they too are closet cases

      2. maybe their just perverts who are looking to see penis/vagina's.

      3.they preach the bible, use Gods name, and dont even go to church or read the bible, that there is called a hypocrite.

      People Please take a look at yourself in the mirror before you cast judgment on someone.

      Love all of you, even the ones who dont like who we are.

      Love Kristen

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    81. man..i love vaginas..i like being a guy but I think having a vagina would be awesome...i'll never get this surgery or anything ever done to my best friend....

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    82. I can't say I'm for it..but I do know that I am not God, so even if you have these beliefs that sex changes are against Gods will...you have no right to comment, why? BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT GOD. That's for Him to decide when these people go up there..I think all of you bashing these people should invest your time and ranting into something much more disgusting...like people who rape women and children, mass genocide...I mean really you don't like it don't partake in it..
      Get over yourselves and live your own life, I'm sure God is going to be 10 times more pissed at you for telling someone to jump off a cliff, then someone who decided they wanted to change their gender, or who have different sexual preferences..people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones!!!!

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    83. My goodness, isn't it strange how the most vicious, bigoted and ill-educated individuals always turn out to be the most religious. Who in this day and age believes in a supernatural being who lives in the sky, please get real. Also, those who speak out so loudly against homosexuality, transgender issues etc are displaying a well known psychological defense relating to their own sexual orientation and gender insecurities i.e. those who shout loudest have the most to hide! Oh that thought makes me giggle.

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    84. I have read all of that but i want to say something that i can't say to anybody face to face. I think i am transgendered i keep on thinking that my life would be better as a woman and also i think that the sex would be better as a woman but that doesnt matter what I want to know is weather you think i AM transgendered or you think i am just curious.

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    85. Get over yourselves! Gender reassignment surgery has NOTHING to do with God, the Bible or indeed homosexuality. If you really think it does then can I kindly suggest you take up some form of education!

      As a 28 year old post-op MtF I am constantly bewildered at these inhumane remarks. They are actually quite funny to read though as it just makes me feel sooooooooo much better about myself.

      Also what makes me laugh is that if I passed you in the street you wouldn't give a second glance- only to check my booty though! Trust me- you guys had better know what you're looking for, but then I don't think you are educated enough!! Probably couldn't find a clitoris even if it was labelled.

      Anyway, can the 'God Squad' put any light on the fact that in England we have Gay and Lesbian Vicars and Priests?

      As a practising Christian (yes, I do go to my local church) it sickens me that half the world appear to live in the dark ages. I for one do not go around critising and condemming people for living a different life to me. That just wouldn't be Christian nature now would it?

      And what about the kid who was blind from birth knew they were in the wrong body? After the op they were still blind- but comfortable in the right body (without ever seeing either sex) Now explain that one! (oh- and don't mention God or the Bible or homosexuality)

      As for me not being able to have children- so what! I never wanted them in the 1st place, and there are genetic women who can't have children too you know- go look it up if you don't believe me. (you'll learn how to look things up in EDUCATION)

      And according to my birth certificate I am officially female- so deal with that you ignorrant no-bodies.

      Some people need to get a life and just butt out of other's.

      And jeeeez, why type in 'sex change operation before and after pictures' if you know you are gonna be offended. D'oh. Just showing you own true (lack of) mentality. I pity you.

      As for people who want the operation- all I'll say is just be 100% sure. If you question anything then maybe it's not for you. There is an unfortunate number of individuals who think this is their goal- trust me it aint. For me it wasn't an operation but more of a correction. But it has made my life a whole lot better- yay!

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    86. The pain that is endured from a sex change operation ,is no worse than the pain one goes through with a gender disorder ! Ignorant people need to stop stereotyping transgenders as homosexuals !When a male at the age of five starts developing feminine traits ,are you going to say he is a homosexual ? Suicide is high for many different reasons .Some contemplate suicide because they don't have the money for the sex change ,some cannot take the ridicule ,and others are just afraid of what family members will think of them !None of these are good reasons for taking ones life !I can comment on this topic because I happen to be transgendered. !I couldn't nor would have ever put my problem above the rest of my families needs. Besides ,we were lucky ,we had clothes on our backs ,and we had 3 meals !It wasn't until I got a good job that I could start my journey !

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    87. OOh, so beautifully put 'Anonymous September 4, 2009 10:57 AM'!

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    88. you have some narrow minded uneducated and ignorant people posting on this forum who obviously don't have a clue or even a life of their own. being a man or a woman is more what kind of plumbing you were born with. Men for the most part of testosterone laced assholes. I may be a man but I an glad that I am not a ball chasing game watching freak.
      if I was a woman, I would be a lesbian.

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    89. so what if a women or a man want to get a sex change it not hurting you or any body else.. you dont know what they might have been thourgh in there life so who are you to judge only GOD can and not you or any one for that matter ..you never know what the future my hold and thats why we have choices ...RJ

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    90. i want a vagina and i would trade my penis for it any day i would love to be a girl i love dressing up and my girl friend loves dressing me up also and she would still love me if i had a vagina i wish i could trade my penis for a vagina

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    91. Christians or the like need to learn to shut their f'n mouths... self righteous bullshiat. Because you have read a few pages of the bible makes you the authority on what God wants? I think maybe you need to actually find God and develop a relationship with HIM, if you had any idea of what God wants you'd know to keep your mouth shut. If it's not about you IT DOES NOT CONCERN YOU! Check out the passages in the bible about judgment and condemning your fellow man. That does concern you!

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    92. ok obviously ANYONE who does this has issues in their brain. period. no questions.

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    93. Being bigender myself (look it up if you're confused), i just want to say, thank you God. Thank you ever so much for giving people the opportunity to be who YOU made them to be. I only wish I could be one or the other instead of both.

      To the ones who say the body is a temple and shoudn't be altered, how's your appendix these days? or your tonsils? Got any pretty earrings or nose rings? what about tattoos? Think about those before you judge something you honestly can NOT understand. And, I pray to God in Heaven that you never have to understand it.

      If you're standing on the roof of your house because of a flood, you pray to God to save you, you don't ignore the boat that passes by after because God will save you. You take the ride, and thank God he answered your prayer.

      THIS IS NO DIFFERENT.

      Much love to all those going through this, and much love to all those not.

      Not Anonymous, Sarah David Sheridan

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    94. I need to post another comment here, this one addressing the ones who site 'dishonesty' as a reason against this. you know who you are, the big fear of finding out someone you've been with is actually a transgender.

      I can gaurantee you with 100% accuracy that anyone who's had this procedure is going to tell you long before you get naked. i'm not exactly transgender, but bigender, and i tell people that before hand, even though in my particular case, realistically it shouldn't make any difference. Not only is it just right, but it's SAFER that way. People tend to get a lot more violent after a shared experience than before, and there's plenty of possibilities of violence even without a sexual encounter taking place. So think before you basically call someone a liar.

      To those saying God doesn't make mistakes, I agree. I am not a mistake and neither are any of those who go through this. Sure, it flat out sucks, but for whatever reason, He wants us to experience this. Maybe it's a lesson of one kind or another, maybe it's to make us stronger, maybe (and oh how you're not going to believe this, but maybe) it's to make the world a better place, one step at a time. But for whatever reason, we exist. we're here, and by all that is holy...WE ARE NOT A MISTAKE.

      we are not abominations.
      we are not sickos
      we are not perverts
      we are not heathens

      we are simply people. living life as good as we can. for some, that means SRS. for some that means crossdressing. for some that means accepting it. for some that means confusion. for me, that means being who i am, when i am.

      but for all of us, it means doing what is necessary to just simply live. you who don't go through it simply cannot understand, just as those who do cannot truly understand always being in the right, true body. Some of you have ideas, can empathise even without truly knowing, and bless you, sweethearts. bless you for even trying to understand. bless you for seeing what it's like to be someone you're not.

      And bless you too, those who can't or won't see it. bless you for your own flawed life, that we see as so perfect. bless you for being born to the right body. I wish everyone was.

      you are all lovely, transgendered, cysgendered, bigendered, intersexed, and any degree between, or beyond. let no one, ever, convince you otherwise.

      Love to you all

      Sarah David Sheridan

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    95. All of you people are blind. Some of you argue that it is OK, some of you argue that it's not OK. Regardless of whether these people feel "like a man or like a woman" they are born the way they are for a reason. Now science has proven that transgendered people are born with the Y or X chromosomes in their brains which in turn makes them the way they are. Should we criticize what they are doing? no. It is none of your business. Now to argue with that user who said that these "bible thumpers" are the same as "terrorists" and "suicide bombers", I argue this. What one person says does not kill someone. If the people who are transgendered are strong minded, they aren't going to care what someone says. They are who they are for a reason.

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    96. Well, where to start. I love seeing all ranting and hatred being thrown around. The people standing by "My God says this is wrong" can use all the words they want to describe Transgenders. You're speaking for God, let him speak for himself.
      For those who say it isn't natural, you'll never be a real woman/man. That isn't the point. This surgery can't correct everything, it just corrects on thing. That thing is physical appearence. Now shut the fuck up.
      For the Transgendered people saying that they "just know." You can't "just know." You can't create a logical argument based off of emotions. Yes, there is a lot of scientific proof to back up Gender Identity Disorder, it's a real thing, yes yes I know. Just don't make an argument based on emotions. It doesn't help.
      For those who can't listen to logic: Get off the internet. You fell in love with the idea that you're anonymous, you can't type whatever you want. I can do that too. I could bash Transgendered people all I want. But I don't. I'm a 14 year old boy that has been feeling I am not a boy, I've always known. You can't change me.
      For a few people that said they're gay, and that transsexualism is wrong and disgusting, shut the fuck up.
      For the random comments spewed from the mouths of those not involved in this, the people supporting the fighting, the people that are just ignorant assholes, seriously. Grow up, get off the internet, go help somebody who really needs help. I'm transgendered and completely sane. I'm not mentally ill, you're just so full of your ego that you think you know what and who I am. Now crawl back into your worthless existence of a life, retreat from the internet because you found a logical argument that you can't counter with your preaching. I'm religious, God loves me. He loves me more than I can imagine. I feel like this is just one of those mountains I have to climb. God would not give me more than I can bear.
      Now for those of you who want to swear at me, call me names, tell me I'm going to hell, telling me I'm disgusting, telling me I'm sick, telling me I need mental help because I have a deep emotional problem caused by being dropped on my head as a child: I will pray for you. I'm not on the road to Hell, you are. Yes, I said it. Those words you typed, you know what they can do? People have commited suicide because of the things you said. You have blood on your hands, even if you didn't shove a knife through someone's heart. Your words did that for you. Now get off the Internet, go do some real good in the world. You aren't of any help here.
      May God bless every single one of you. I will pray for him to help each of you.

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    97. After looking at these pictures, you've got to have some "balls" (whether literal or not) to go through with these surgeries. If you want something bad enough to do this...then you have my vote of support.

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    98. I read an article, and Transexuals, are able to reproduce !! They are given female organs and vagina, and the eggs start to form, and then a Transexual Female , can have babies !!
      You guys must be brave doing stuff like this, good luck to you and your family, and future !
      and to the guy who said they dont belong and should jump off a cliff ! First off its not they , Theyre human beings, if u say they it sounds like your judging ! and being rude ! and 2nd, Why dont you jump off a cliff, you dont understand the pain, the Transexuals feel and the struggles they go through with their lives, you really don't so grow up !

      Congrats to everyone who has gotten a sex change, and is extremely happy about it ! Good luck and i wish you guys all the best !

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    99. Pretty amazing stuff here. Looks kind of messy though. But if she is happy with the results I guess that it is worth the effort. Must be sort of disconcerting believing that you are a woman and having a penis. As a matter of fact it must really suck. Hope that she is happy with the homemade Vagina.

      Still glad I can pee standing up without getting my feet wet so I think that I’ll keep what God gave me.

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    100. I'm catholic and I believe in God and I also believe that a person has the right to do what they need too to be happy in this world. I mean come on people why with all the hate..
      I think it's just plain sad that someone is criticized for trying to become happy. I've seen those children on TV that SINCE BIRTH have felt they were made wrong you know what I did instead of thinking that was a sin against God and saying "they should be happy with what they got"
      NO I CRIED! HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU HAD IF YOU KNEW NOTHING WAS RIGHT ABOUT YOU AT ALL D:< THOSE PEOPLE FEEL AS IF THEY WERE BORN IN THE WRONG BODY. That feeling itself would just make you break down in tears and ask why T^T
      The world is changing people need to see that and except it, I applaud those that go through these procedures to become their
      "True Selves" all they had/have to go through to become who they really are is astounding.

      Oh and those that say " you can't have children if you get that done" WHOOPDE FREAKING DO the world is overpopulated anyway and adoption is a very noble thing to do.
      My friend sent me this page because they are considering having the procedures done. I just want them to be happy and do what ever they need to do so.

      I wish all those that are thinking of having this done all the love and God's blessing. I pray for a new happy world hopefully my future children won't have to grow up in a world full of judgmental bigots like those that I've seen commenting on here... D:<

      btw I'm a girl I was born a girl I'm going to stay a girl that is my choice. I like who and what I am
      I just want others to feel the same.....Happy!

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    101. yOU KNOW FROM SOMEONE WHO ALREADY WAS QUESTIONING THEIR FAITH THIS HAS REALLY ENLIGHTENED ME AND MADE ME REALIZE WHY EXActly I DO NOT GO TO CHURCH. iN THE BIBLE IT CLEARLY SAYS THOU SHALT NOT JUDGE!!!! AND WHAT THE HELL HAS EVERY ONE OF YOU RELIGIOUS BASTARDS DONE??? YOUR JUDGING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THEIR PERSONAL CHOICE IN LIFE, WHAT MAKES THEM HAPPY. KUDOS FOR THOSE WHO TAKE A CHARGE IN THEIR LIFE AND DOES THINGS TO MAKE THEM FILL COMPLETE AND HAPPY, IT IS SOMETHING ALL THESE RELIGOUS BASTARDS ARE JEALOUS OF THEY CANNOT BREAK AWAY FROM THE SO-CALLED RELIGION THEY WANT TO FOLLOW. THE FUNNY THING IS THEY CANNOT FOLLOW IT PROPERLY WHO THE FUCK DIED AND MADE THEM GOD, GOD IS THE ONLY THING THAT HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE IT SAYS SO IN YOUR SO CALLED BIBLE SO WHY DONT YOU RELIGIOUS BASTARDS LEAVE THE PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD WHO HAVE/ OR HAD THE BALLS ENOUGH TO STAND UP FOR WHAT MAKES THEM HAPPY. GO BE A COWARD AND HIDE BEHIND YOUR RELIGION AND CAST YOUR JUDGEMENTS BECAUSE IT WILL JUST BACKFIRE WAIT TIL YOU MAY NEED A HELPING HAND AND THE ONLY ONE WILLING TO HELP YOU IS A TRANSGENDER THAN WHAT WILL YOU HAVE TO SAY.... MMMMM THINK ABOUT THAT ONE FOR ONCE.

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    102. this is not a perfect world. i dont think people choose to be gay. they r born that way. I ABSOLUTELY THINK THERE ARE WORSE THINGS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD THAN TO BE SO BOTHERED BY THE FACT THAT SOMEONE IS GAY. i am a female and am VERY STRAIGHT, HOWEVER if someone else is NOT thats their business. only god can judge.

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    103. all of yal are stupid and the doctors need to stop trying to play god.

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    104. I totally feel that someone who feels that they need to do these surgaries, should, if and only if they are in the proper place in their life. I however as a natural born woman body and mind, feel it is unfair that having a surgery can change the laws they have to follow. Such as nudity. That is the only issue that comes to mind other then that I say whatever makes a specific person feel better go for it as long as its not physically harming someone else.

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    105. These transexual men want to be a woman so bad!! u would never know howit feels to be us and vice versa!!! Change your sex but that still dont make u that sex.. All i have to say is may God bless yall souls cuz u people are so mentally ill that it hurts my heart. Peace

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    106. Jesus guys. god made us the way we are. but he also loves us no matter what. its not going against god to get a sex change. so if your considering this remember that God loves you man or woman and the "Bible Thumpers" are just trying to discourage you from being who you really are. It didnt stop me. and now im happily a girl. so watever.

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    107. Ok Samantha. Thanks for not being a hater about it but still... transexuals are not mentally ill. we are just different. you dont know wat it feels like to be "trapped" in a different genders body. I HATED the feeling. you feel like you dont belong. and being gay is a nightmare. theres a big difference between choosing to be gay or becoming a transwoman or transman. transsexuals feel uncomfortable in their bodies. gays, i think, are comfortable as men or women but dont have an attraction to the opposite sex. so even if i became a gay man id still feel out of place. so i became a woman and i feel perfect. so lay off on the mental illness thing.

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    108. i think that is very brave of these people i look up to them now because it does look like alot of pain.

      and its a shame what some of these people are saying! one person said that theyre going through all of this pain for nothing. i think that braiding your hair really tight is pain for nothing that lasts what 4-5 days this lasts a lifetime

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    109. This is extremely unnatural and these people are really ill (psychologically speaking). They must be treated! It's sad because those who condone these images should also seek treatment.

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    110. Dear Umeharu.
      if u feel disapointed with ur body but are worried about the surgery dont be afraid. i did it. ya itll hurt for a while but the result is that ur happy. u shuldnt have to live with self disgust. so go out and be your true self. god luck. :)

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    111. well... sex is one thing.... but changing your sex is another.

      To the people who say dont speak for god.... we have to. god doesnt speak for himself so firm believers should stand up for what they believe is right. This clearly is NOT right.

      If you dont like the way the lord has made you then your screwed. suck it up at least chose to make you, then you alter his desisions by doin surgery.

      i hope transgenders nnever find happiness.

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    112. I agree with alot the comments of just leaving these people alone we dont know what there going threw but also why does it matter there not hurting anyone. I believe in god and i dont think he hates any body who chooses to be diffrent.

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    113. I noticed that all the people who leave horrible comments wrapped in negativity about transgender surgeries uses HORRIBLE grammar.

      They say immature words like 'faggot' and 'lesbian'.

      And then the pro-transgender people actually have enough intellect and insight to type.

      Hurtful words and nay-sayers should just further strengthen the people who receive surgery... to know that what they're doing is right. That it's right for them.

      God, I hate ignorance.

      PS: karma is a bitch, you holy rollin' assholes.

      Warmly, Sarah :)

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    114. After reading several posts on this site varying in degrees from downright ignorance to those who have exprienced the transition or are questioning themselves or claim that God is the reason we are born the way we are, I realized how sad this world is becoming. Jesus was a man who travled teaching people to love one another and not to cast stones at glass houses. But none the less he was a man. Who really knows if there is a judge after this life...no one. As far as we know this is the only life we have recieved and if you choose to study the Bible and its teachings let that be your conditioning and choice. To those who support choice I commend you as a person for following what YOU think is right for YOU. There are far too many people who judge others for their choices...haven't we all made choices that may have not been morally correct or that follow societies structure on how- we-are-supposed-to-behave guidelines? Look at history and the evidence at hand, not what is suggested or misinterpreted. I believe that this world would be a greater place if we learned to embrace other people rather than put them down. We have the ability to practice the teachings of such great people like Ghandi, like Mother Theresa, like Princess Di, like Jesus...all people who lived and taught what the impact of love can do and what power and coercion and hatred can birth. Maybe I sound like a hippie with all this Love stuff...but i truly believe that the secret to this life and finding God or nirvana or a big black void...is LOVE. Not in a sexual nature which gets misconstrued for love frequently, but love for something greater than yourself...and if you cant define who you are and you CHOOSE to change your sexuality...or hair color...or get a piercing...or a tattoo...or cut off your foot...or have children...or find a life PARTNER, whatever gets you closer to that fullfment of self will help you in the path for finding the purpose of life which is love. Good luck to all people who choose to do this surgery and to those who dont and to those who need to open their minds and horizions and use information that they have gathered from more than one source being the bible...or Wikipedia about what they really belive in. Best Wishes.

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    115. I'm a MtF transsexual who's had the operation a week ago. Lets get one thing straight here how many of us Transsexual's have you seen been on here or your bible bashing sites slagging you off, to be honest none. As much as you are so ignorant and stupid enough to judge us, others and your lack of reading medical research on the subject first doesn't surprise me at the least. The brain is where the the person actually lives and the body is the mechanics for which that person is able to pursue life with. Nature is not perfect like you would so like to falsely preach and genetic mistakes are made quite frequently. Nobody is perfect "full stop" and not even you and i bet you have particular issues in your life others here wouldn't be so surprised in finding out. I'm not going to explain myself for going though the transition, surgery as your not worth my time, breath and effort in any way to be frankly honest. Thankyou so much for all those kind people on here who do have a heart... It's nice to know some people do care out there...

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    116. okay so please tell me for all you chistian people if people can have mental problems such as down syndrome or be born with no legs or arms or a thousand other things pleaseeee tell me why a person cant be born the wrong gender... you have no clue how these people feel or what they deal with. you think your sooo godly and holy please tell me in the bible where it says if born a man dont change to a girl...it doesnt things go wrong the body isnt born perfect all they are doing is fixing themselves same as a person who was born with something wrong... so you all need to shut up and think about it before you run your mouth about people and problems you know nothing about!!!!!

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    117. I looked this up because one of the topics discussed in the radio station I listen to every morning, had their own ideas on how these surgeries are performed. Since I had seen a talk show about it two years ago and because before I give my opinion or comment I like to be able to back it up, I got on my laptop and looked it up, which led me to this site.


      Now looking at these pics, at first I was schocked not by the procedure but by the pictures. It is one thing to hear about it and another to actually see it being done.

      I do not have any negative or derrogatory comments, I do however ask the following question and if anyone here ( preferably a professional) agrees with me or has another point of view please feel free to contradict.

      That being said here is my question: what actually makes us female or male? according to doctors babies are all born male, females are made when the testes don't decend.

      We give babies or rather force babies to be boys and girls by dictating gender enforcing colors, toys, behaviors and so on...

      We give dolls to girls and trucks and building blocks to boys, dresses to girls and pants to boys. We choose pink for girls and blue for boys from everything to the paint and decorations of their rooms, backpacks, lunch boxes, etc...

      So we as children are afraid to speak up and go against what is predisposed for us, for fear of disappointing our parents, friends and loved ones.

      I for one have two daughters, whom I never have put a pink dress on. Both wore dark blue, red or anything but pink as babies. Now as they got older they choose their own clothes and they are very well adjusted, they do both girl things like gossip,make up, pageants, pedi/manis...and "boy" things such as sports, i.e, soccer, basketball,( which by the way in this day and age girls do as well).

      Anyway my point is that 30 years ago everyone that considered themselves different were afraid to speak up, now have a choice.

      They are confronting society and making choices that are normal to them and that is what matters. Most of us don't like change and when it comes around we fear the consecuences. With fear comes ignorance and the result is bruttality and retaliation.

      Everyone of us makes choices that affects us personally and physically but only us, why is everyone here taking this site and the situations here as their own?? it is not, it does not reflect on you. It only benefits the people that make these life changes.

      Live and let live, this is my motto and what I have instilled in my girls. To those who actually go for this surgery in the words of Spock:"Live long and prosper"

      This my humble opinion,
      Ana

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    118. Hi, I had a boy and a girl. They are hetero.

      There was no pink, blue or anything. Son had a doll and so did my girl. There were dolls, trucks, ponies, chickens and turtles.

      I also was a teacher and always had kids around. It was interesting because most the boys will gravitate to "boy" toys and girls, "girl" toys.

      My kids were raised to be who they are and not be afraid to speak up.

      If they needed to change something, it is up to them. I would love and support them.

      These humans who are fortunate to afford these surgeries are as scared as you would be if you were to change your appearance.

      It is not just our genitals that tell us we are attracted to males or females.Men are attracted to a woman and find out she has male genitals and visa versa!

      If a person "feels" they are one gender or another, of course they may want to "look" as "normal" as they can and enjoy the femininity of being female. visa versa again.

      They need to feel whole. There are burn victums etc. who would LOVE to look like who and what they are and cannot. I am so thankful our creator made us have the knowledge to help these people! Hopefully soon we will be able to help with many different medical procedures we need.

      I know from experience, that when we truly love ourselves, we are not critical of others. When we read the negative and hurtful posts here, feel compassion for those people as they have no self love.Don't allow them to make you mad as it shows they control you.

      Nothing, nothing is more precious to not be loved for ourselves but to be loved in spite of ourselves!

      There are more people who support medical break throughs than not. Educated people,true loving people, nonjudgmental people. I choose to be one of those.

      Life has enough hard stuff, and it is only love that can help us to be serene through it all.

      Debilyn

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    119. These are normal people. They are not sick. It has been recorded that a person wanting to be the oposite sex has the oposite sex brain.... eg: male w/ female brain wants to become female. Think how horrible this would be. It's nothing they do against their family or friends, it's something they do for themselves. They feel like they are living a lie by being in their bodies. They are NOT homosexuals! The choice to go through the surgery is draining and very emotional. People in this situation have lived for many years being what they are uncomfortable being for others in their lives or because others feel it's wrong.

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    120. people dont have a right to say whats right or wrong?
      thats true, though you must admit that when chaz bono says gender is "between the head" she's reactionary and enforcing age-old stereotypes about gender. As everyone knows, God did indeed establish the color of light red (pink) as the color of females and blue as that of men. Such idiotic beliefs are actually much more the norm among gays then among hetersexual community. I'm not saying there is no gender, just that its a sensory physical context. Trannies may be able to experience gender switch from surgeries such as the above, I dont deny that; however, it doesnt come from wearing pink or wearing tighter pants or wearing a thong underneath that or working in a beauty shop. If I ask immediately in a new town for directions, then I guess I must be a woman...even though men have made most of the maps, and written most of the poetry, and even most of the cookbooks out there.
      Ok, so the accomplishments in the prior sentence deal with repression of women's educational needs but you get the point.

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    121. Its your life, its your body. YOU MAKE IT WHAT YOU WANT!- CARMEN

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    122. My eyes are tired, my mind is overwhelmed, I cannot believe that we as a race (human) can be so infantile to the core as to judge prejudge, persecute and or condemn anyone. It seems to me that life in its purist form has been altered to fit each individual by each individual....how convienient. For any life force to say that a sex change operation is good, bad, wrong or right is rather egotistical to me. I for one don't know if there is a god or not, I would like to think that there is, but by reading some of these comments gives reason for pause. For those of you who so strongly believe that there is a God, and that he is a just, fair and forgiving God remember this one very important fact... EVERYTHING THAT GOD CREATES...DIES. Not exactly what the average human being would consider a to be a great track record, I would tend to think and draw the conclusion that no matter what anyone thinks or believes about what is right and wrong....no....lets use "normal" you are all betting on a great battng average of 1,000% unfortunately it is an absoutely amazing losing average. "Be true to yourself and others will be true unto you".....bullshit. Do what you need to do to make things right in the world that you live in. If that means a sex change...go for it. As for the nay sayers out there....opinions are like assholes, everybody has one. You know; as a child my parents continually used a comment that back then pissed me off, but as an adult makes perfect sense, you know, fighting and arguing with siblings et al. That comment was that "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" heed these words of wisdom, when you least expect it, the hurtful words you utter will be the words you choke on. To those of you out there that have a real need and necessity to have the procedure, do what is right for you and you alone, not your partner your friends or family and escpecially not for society. Your right to be is the only right that has bearing.

      DGM Ontario, Canada

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    123. some men love to play castration games with there girlfriends they love it and the girls love it too. just put a pair of scissors around your guy' penis and pretend to cut it off for him .

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    124. Judge ye not :::: Ring a bell seems like someone is leaving something out of there reading plan. And the Dumb A** who said its about being homosexal is someone who hasn't the common sence to wipe there own A**
      The only ones that are saying its wrong is the ones that are on so many drugs that they cant think str8. Why would it matter to anyone beside the ones that go though it in some way or the other. But To The ones that think that they know it all try doing some research and learnning what you are talking about before getting on line and showing the world that yes there are peeps that live without a brain and BTW that guy who gave out his number to call, Sorry they don't have brain transplants yet but keep trying to be as normal as thet little thing you use will allow..

      Kendra

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    125. OOOO BTW There was sonone that said that no other thing besides these people do it, its a fact that some fish , frogs , ect change sex but though there homones for them thats all that is needed .... and they don't have other fish , frogs , ect. telling them that they shouldnt do it, as far as I have seen so far, but as soon as it happens I will let you know, but one clue .... Don't hold your breath

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    126. here we go again . most that this has happenend to don't tell there b/f or g/f ?????? how do you know what they do ? fromm all that i have read and the peeps that I have talked to some tell some don't like im sure that there are things that you haven't told your b/f or g/f and if you think you have that your hidding something from your self its called a life shit happens and letting your b/f or g/f know every little thing that has been messed up in life is not nessary if they dont need to know for any real reason the person is still the same person no matter what birth defect they were born with and yes i used the right word why don't some of you do something called RESEARCH
      And Smile and stoping hating its not good for you.
      Kendra :o)

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    127. This is extremely unnatural and these people are really ill (psychologically speaking). They must be treated! It's sad because those who condone these images should also seek treatment.

      October 15, 2009 8:23 PM


      Ok To This AHOLE
      DO SOME RESEARCH THE ONLY REAL MED TREATMENT IS CALLED SRS ALSO CALLED A SEX CHANGE.
      COME ON PEEPS RESEARCH - RESEARCH - RESEARCH GEZZZZZ IT ISN'T HARD JUST TRY IT LEARN ABOUT WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT !!!
      AND THAT AHOLE YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS ILL (psychologically speaking).

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    128. Just wanted to say thanks to the people who have allowed there stories and pictures to be placed on show for the world to see and read. It must be extremely difficult knowing that you will be judged and ridiculed by all walks of people. But now thanks to you there is one more person a little less ignorant to the facts of sex change surgery. I'm still not 100% on all the workings but most of those nagging questions are answered. Thanks again!
      And as myself and my husband say "what ever floats your boat and no one get's hurt"!

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    129. People are so amusing...why cant we all just get along? Everyone is different,you need to understand that. Is it really that hard? A individual who wants or is getting a sex change is not hurting you in any shape or form! Do the world a favor and get over yourselves. Its time for a change

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    130. wow. Reading through these comments amaze me. All the people saying god this god that. I'm sure he is very proud of you talking down to your neighbors. Yay for you, you are successful in life. Way to be the hypocritical christian. :) I'm sure you are all perfect. I'm sure all of you have been in their position, and I'm sure you understand completely. No they aren't gay. If they were gay, they wouldn't be getting a sex change... Being homosexual means you are happy with the same sex, not feeling like you are the opposite sex. You can not help they way you were born. I didn't choose to have green eyes, I just got them. These people don't choose to be they way they are. Who would honestly choose to be put down, to be pushed aside, to be talked to like a piece of dirt? Learn about something before you get all into saying stuff. All the hateful comments, may have killed someone. So have that blood on your hands when you go to heaven. try to explain to god why you wanted such hate. Think before you type. Be educated, and don't be so hateful. I'm still wondering why you are even here... seems like you are looking to give out hate. awesome.

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    131. Can all of you self described "queer haters" and "good" Christians tell me why you would be "Googling" and then browsing through a website with graphic photos of male and female genitals? I am struck by the "intellectual" capacity, the idiocy of these self righteous people. Your rantings are full of misspelled words, non existent punctuation, horrendous grammar, and an obvious and glaring lack of education, empathy, or common sense. Before you folks decide to leave your oh so "clever" but illiterate comments on these various blogs and websites, PLEASE finish grade school first, graduate from high school, attend college and take a few classes in biology, human development, genetics, psychology and medicine. Perhaps then you will have something intelligent and useful to say.
      To all of the transgendered folks who are reading these comments, God bless you all, and I pray that you will finally find peace, love and wholeness in your lives.
      This diatribe was written by a 45 year old Christian, female, married, heterosexual physician and mother of three children. Colleen, RN, MS, MD

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    132. stop your bitching everybody and worry about yourselfs!!!!!

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    133. For the homosexual and transsexual haters: DONT LOOK UP THESE KINDS OF WEBSITES. What the fuck are you doing here? No one asked you to look this up. For the Bible quoters: Shut the hell up. Judge no one for YOU ARE NOT WORTH MORE than the people who change their sex. For the uneducated aggressors aka terrorists: Are YOU here because you want a sex change? It's ok... Come out of the closet! LMAO. There's plenty of info here for you! For the air-headed bimbos: LIKE OMG! No one cares if you think it's gross. They aren't doing it to please you, you self-centered attention whores. Don't go looking for things that dont concern you. For those that claim 'it is my business!': PLEASE just get your info and run along to your SRS appointment. For the ones who speak for God: You aren't fucking ventriloquists. Shove it up your ass and rotate it. For the hicks: Ya'll iz reely smart if u new how 2 tipe "Sex Change Surgery". For all the others I dont care to mention: Do yourself a favor and DONT LOOK THESE THINGS UP. No one needs your bullshit. You need to stop your obsession with these types of websites. PLEASE get some help cause you need a new hobby than to threaten transsexuals. PLEASE OH PLEASE GET HELP! LOL FOR THE TRANSSEXUALS: JUST DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. IF OTHERS DONT LIKE IT, TELL THEM THAT I, MICHELLE, SAID FOR THEM TO GO FUCK THEMSELVES. THEY DONT KNOW OR OWN YOU SO WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT THEY SAY. YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND NEVERMIND WHAT STUPID HATERS SAY. GO ON BE HAPPY LET THE HATERS FUME FOR ALL THEIR LIVES: THEY'LL BE THE ONES TO DIE UNHAPPY.

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    134. I am transexual. I am ftm. I love myself and I think what I am doing is right. IF you are unhappy with it, then don't do it...but I have to say that the "BIBLE THUMPER" opinions have little impact on me. As a matter of fact they just make me want to do it more. I will be who I am and I will be happy.

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    135. i'm a gay guy who is happy the way i am. i know a few people who have had the surgery and are happier with the change. there are many clasifications of gender identities within the gay community as well as in the straight community. i have no right to judge anyone on what choices one makes or how i say that should feel. sure, they will still be a man or woman inside, but changing their outside gives people a better identity of themselves. just as having regular cosmetic surgery. i could thrash all those who left negative comments in here, but why should i step down to their level? i know who i am and have no hate for no one. if only they could take all that negative energy and put it to positive use; they might be able to have happier lives too.

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    136. well... assman who bashes on gays and what-nots the Holy Bible also says that youre supposed to love and accept everyone as youre own brother or sister ... soooo go suck youre own dick

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    137. ok for one i am a trans gender f2m and all you bible thumpers who say that god is against this and the bible this and the bible that. no offense but my family is very religious and they love me for the way i am and god himself loves everyone no matter what. all the bible thumpers just don't know what it is like to grow up not feeling like yourself feeling like you should be someone else. i have grow up as a boy but when i was born i came out a female. i am not a female. it i way more than anyone who is not a trans gender to understand and for you to judge me and anyone else like me is wrong. in fact you could call it a sin. because only god can judge me and when he does he will be proud of me for me. and to the ones that are homosexual you need to be more open minded about the lgtb community and if you are truly homosexual you will no what lgtb stands for. you are clearly being a hypocrite. it makes me so mad that even in the new generation we have people like this who decide to shelter them selves from the vast growing of opportunities in life. i think all you people that dis agree with this decision that us trans gender people make can go read more about it and see how we really feel. ok i am done with my ranting about this it just really pisses me off that these people would say the things they say about me.

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    138. The 3rd commandment:
      You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.

      As far as I realize, reading through this, most of you are taking our Lord's name in vain.

      I was raised as a Catholic, and always tried as much as I could to follow the 10 commandments and still do.

      I am a male to female transgender, I've stopped going to church not because I lost my faith, but because so many people that attend church are saints only on Sundays, most will sin even if through small white lies or using the Lord's name in vain thinking it doesn't matter if it's a "small lie" or husbands who cheat on their wives thinking only once won't matter, or people who worship their false idols in TV shows and movies.

      Neither I, nor anyone here knows what any of us are supposed to be doing, it's not for me or anyone else in the world to judge what happens to anyone's life.

      There are things I learned from church, and that is to respect others, love the Lord, ask Him in prayer never for a solution to your problems, but instead for the strength to deal with your problems, and most of all His son thaught us to "love thy neighbors unconditionally"

      keep that in mind.

      May His love be upon every single one of you.

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    139. Oh my goodness. This again? What is up with this? People obviously have nothing better to do? Half of these "Bible Thumpers" were more than likely searching child porn when they came across this site and got angry because we're not fulfilling their Peter Pan Syndrome Michael Jackson shit. Seriously, guys, get a life. I believe in God, and you know, I think he'd be ashamed of you so-called "Christians". The Bible says a lot of things...."Christians" pick out the verses that work best for whatever they don't like and that's all they pay attention to. As well as taking them all out of context. Sure, 2000 years ago, homosexuality may have been condemned. That's because the reason we were here was for procreation. Now that we're overrun with Mexicans and Chinese, I think it's gonna be okay if a couple of dudes wanna fuck. If I want to change my body, that's what I'm gonna do. Fuck my soul. We're all fucked anyway, so what's the fucking point? I mean seriously? The Bible also says to sell your kids, don't wear two different fibers together (so, you, Mrs. Mom, with your %50 cotton, %50 polyester sweater, staring at the computer screen in shock....you're fucked)

      NO ONE is perfect. You can sit on your high-and-mighty horses all fucking day if you want to...you can do whatever you want and judge whoever you want....go right ahead. My parents did the same damn thing. My father beat my mother nearly to death every day of my life. He beat me nearly to death almost every day of my life. He drank until he passed out. And yet, he has the gall to tell ME that I'm not natural and that I'm going against God.

      All of you so-called "Christians"...you know what? Just for posting your stupid fucking comments on this site about how you feel and oh-em-gee guys, you're like, totally going to Hell...well, just for that... YOU'RE GOING TO HELL. How does it feel? To be so fucking egotistical that you make others vomit just looking at you? You think anyone gives a FUCK that you go to Church on Sunday and Wednesday and Youth Revival on Saturdays? NO. No one cares. God could give a fuck less if you just stayed at home and read the Bible and did what it asked. Resist temptation and all that. But you decided that all YOU have to do is do whatever you want all week, as long as you go to Church on Sunday, you're good. Well, you're wrong. And when I see you in Hell, and you're unhappy and I have my sex change... I'm gonna give you the finger and jump in the hot tub.


      Toodles! :D

      oh, and btw, being anonymous doesn't work "In God's eyes" lol. So, have fun with being scared to put your name on here. It really shows us you care. *tear*

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    140. why scrutinize these people for doing what they feel makes them themselves. If you so disagree with it dont go looking up pictures of transgender lifestyle and surgery...maybe you should jump off of a cliff.

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    141. After looking at those pictures...><*cries inside* my own vigina is crying. WHY!!? would you want to do that to yourslef for starters?! Secondly, I read a comment where some said we can never understand what these people are going through, and no matter how messed up or angry it makes up we have to take a step back, take a deep breath, and say "they're right". We will not understand. I myself am a straight woman who does look at this and go "Why?", but not in a disgusted sense. You are all people who are just like me, with emotions and smiles and tears. I have always believed that you should learn to love yourself for who you are and no matter how hard it may be, keep yourself strong with your own self confidence. I know its hard when you probably have people all around saying nothing but negative things, and sometimes it really cant be helped. But you should never look at yourself and think what you see is disgusting, find things positive about yourself, on the inside. What makes you who you are is in your head and in your heart. But then again the outside shouldnt matter right? So then why am i preaching? O.o lols oh well, good luck to all with this decision:P Always show who you are on the inside and let it shine out, even if you use to be a woman or man.I may not agree with your decision, but only because I have a strong belief in loving yourself for who you are inside and out. And god will always love you for who you are, always. He knows how you feel and will show in the people who care about you the most.^^

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    142. I am and MTF transsexual raised in a Christian environment and wisened up when I realized all of the hypocrisies in the bible. It contradicts itself so much, and when you think about it it has been rewritten so many times over the past 2000 years that the original meaning is no longer exists. Mankind changes things to their will. We build, destroy and REWRITE! So what's to say those passages were ever in there? And isn't there a couple of GAY Cardinals in the Catholic Church. And isn't that the supposed church that was founded by Jesus himself with the appointing of St. Peter the first pope? Well to all of you I say shame on hating others based off a book. I mean go quote Harry Potter or Twilight or something and it would make just as much of a point as quoting a book from 2000 years ago. But, I do not hate any of you I just wish you could all open you mind and hearts and learn that hating another for being different is wrong. I actually pitty you for your ignorance. And to all my brothers and sisters that have been before me I sy thank you for giving me the ability to be the person I truly am.


      P.S. Wasn't Hitler a Christian who didn't like people?

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    143. To you bible bashing hyprocrites with the churches full of child molestors & that cant even show me a GOD but i can show you in real life a lot of people that are different that want to just be what they are

      And i believe ET put me here ha ha ha

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    144. I'm sorry for the people that think this is going to be better for them, you will never be accepted in life, GOD made me the way that I'm to be and that's how I'm leaving it. If people reject me that's fine I'm unique one of a kind. You want a sex change go a head get one, go live in Thialand it's more common over there.

      look at the picture's do you really want to do that to your self. you know whats its like to get kicked in the nut sack it hurts, can you imagin getting it cut off and haveing a hole instead of a pole. it would hurt like HELL......

      but hey it's your body do what ever you want to it, just rember wheb you have kids, your really going to fuck there minds up when they have to femals as mom's and no dad. that i think is sending mixed message's it's sick you are going to miss that kid or kids up for life.


      but what ever i'm happy with my pole i get laid. and dont have to worry about infection.............

      I'M NOT HERE TO MAKE PEOPLE UPSET I'M JUST VOICEING WHAT I THINK ON THIS SUBJECT....

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    145. After having read all that is available here, I am forced to write. And this better be without profanity. If I use it I will feel like one of these insensitive people and I would be rather dead than a human with a stone in heart.

      Imagine, for all those who can't, you being a guy who doesn't know why he feels too sensitive for a guy, always crosses legs while sitting, has subtle actions and likes to dress like a woman, has choices of a woman, likes colours like pink and sky blue and brighter shades, finds it impossible to understand maps,and lot of things that go with women. You are a woman ever since you knew what that meant, but painfully,you have a penis. You are aroused by a hunk without a shirt and you are definitely submissive in your sexual fantasies, but you are not allowed the dignity that other people enjoy in society. your insecurity drives you mad but, you dont want to jump down the cliff because you want to fight. I am scared to even think of this.

      Those who still clueless, think wat about waking up one morning only to find yourself in a woman's body. Wat r u gonna do. Wait for God to send another chapter to bble to decide what you should do. Or you decide to kill your identity and live as a woman.

      It is painful that apart from the treachery that nature bestows on some of us, it is us who make it a real hell for them. Just imagine, if this is the opposition you get on a trans supporting site, real life,our streets, schools and society as a whole are definitely plagued by monsters in human disguise.

      It is indeed an epitome of bravery and courage to see people fight the world, the society, their destiny, the forced identity and if need be God, to establish an identity of their own. If your dad forces you to be a doc when you want to be a dancer, you will call it a forced identity and if you impose social gender identity on someone, it is the word of god, conformity of nature?

      What a shame.


      Remember you never saw God but, you can see these people, feel their pain, hear them cry. So much passion for a hypothetical idea and oblivion for what is evident. Just because it never happenned to you. You have a reason to be happy today.

      God Bless.

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    146. I'm just curious...
      For all those that are posting comments that a sex change is an abomination and contrary to God and the Bible...
      What are you doing here looking at this site, these pictures and bothering to take the time to post your scathing comments. Shouldn't you be in church praying that your son or daughter isn't someone in this situation? Shouldn't you be praying for these troubled souls to find the path to enlightenment rather than deriding them?
      You're all just lookie-loos seeking some place to plant your venom.
      Go bake some cookies for the homeless and stop being so high and mighty.

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    147. I think if thats what make them happy let them be.Before others judge they need to educate themselves and mind there own business.

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    148. I LOVE A MAN ANY WERE ON MY BODY
      BUT I REALLY LOVE TO HAVE A SEX CHANGE AND HAVE HIM INSIDE ME
      I SOO TIRED OF THE SAME THING I WANT A MAN IN 3 HOLES

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    149. I TRULEY BELIEVE that people who go throught the emotions of believing that are a woman inside instead of a man or vice versa are deffinetly going through MASSIVE struggle that no one can understand other than those who have been through it, but i also KNOW that GOD deffinely gave people FREE CHOICE to turn to him in their time of cufusion, not run and chop off your penis because it makes you feel emotionally uncomfortable. Again I stresssss that the people going through these operations are going through some shit indeed, but they should be running to GOD not an operating table. Comments should be allowed but not blasphomy.

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    150. These people are CRAZY! If you are born a man or women then that is what you are! DEAL WITH IT!!!!!!!!! Yall are GROSS!!!!!!!!! The doctors that do this are CRAZY as well. They need to find something else to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    151. Well then! After reading this blog for about an hour, the answer is 42. Really I found the pictures quite educating and I was quite surprised. Hmmm. I would like to ask all those Bible thumpers something. Have you ever met God? How sure are you that your religion is IT. What religion is God. As far as people who transition, they go through extensive psycholical evaluation,here in the states before any kind of serious surgery like this. As a race, Dont you thing that that it about time to accept, and not judge other people / beings on how they look? All those bible junkies just don't get it they are all ready playing the part of John 10:12 nice.
      Any who I would like to thank the author of this site for a very informed view of the surgical proceedures, I was very enlightened. Just think to you all maybe just maybe one of these days when humans start taking down all the fences (treating people for who they are) we might get an open visit from the intergalactic community.
      Steve

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    152. To all the "Bible Thumpers": Your
      bigoted, hateful god can kiss my very hetero ass. Your god needs to be "done away with". Good luck and best wishes to those for whom being true to oneself is everything.

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    153. My god that looks painful...

      Fuc* that, I mean good for you for doing it but I don't think I could ever do something like that weather I wanted to or not....

      I'm sorry just looks really painful, but I know it makes a big difference in the end

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    154. and to the one who made the comment about dishonesty... I can introduce you to at least 3 people who are in committed relationships in which their partners know and support their choices... quit projecting your personal opinions onto an entire catergory of people. What happened? Pick up a "working woman" and she turn out to have something extra?

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    155. Ok, two things. First is, I am a male and I am a bisexual so I have often wanted to know about making the transition. So I have seriously thought of undergoing this procedure many times. And second, for all of you @#*^&% bible %^*$&$ out there, let me tell you what our God thinks of us, 'I love you no matter what'. I do believe that our savior Jesus said "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." He said this when the people of a town found a whore in the act of her 'trade' and brought her out and they asked Him if they could stone her.
      As a bisexual I find females with male parts to be attractive. And I am a Christian. So 'Do not pass judgment lest ye be judged'. You aren't God so shut up. I know God. He is in my heart and I was created by Him. I pray for those who have undergone, will undergo, or are thinking of undergoing, this kind of procedure. God has made us into who we are.
      I believe He actually made individuals into homosexuals, bisexuals and heterosexuals. He has a plan for all of us. And for those of you who believe I am flat out incorrect can do as suggested above, jump off a cliff. Because in this world of individuality, you're screwed.

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    156. William here again. I forgot to say how funny this debate is between the bible thumpers and the sympathizers. Y'all have made me laugh harder than anything else has for a long time. And since I am a sympathizer and one who is thinking of undergoing this procedure I am against my fellow followers in Christ who want nothing more than to beat everyone else over the head with a bible. For those Christians who are sympathizers, ROCK ON.! And I also love how this simple procedure became a religious dispute. It goes from 'hey, I don't feel like ME' to 'Y'all are going to Hell when you die'. ROTFLOLPMP!

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    157. Intresting article, don't ask me how bible thumpers and anti-LGBT people end up on something like this, considering you would pretty much have to be looking for this in the first place.

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    158. In response to, and in anticipation of, any faith-based comments, I would ask that you first prove the existence of god before posting. I didn't read all of the comments, so I apologize if my sentiments have already been expressed.

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    159. Rene (hopefully to soon be William) says:

      I am a girl and have been my whole life, and I hate it. It really feels like having female body parts instead of male is getting in the way of me being happy. And, by the way, I just so happen to be bi and if I did get my gender change (fingers crossed) I still would be, so no I'm not doing this so I'll be what is considered "straight".

      To people who dislike this procedure: I understand that people are entitled to their different opinions but, sorry to burst your bubble, posting on this blog isn't going to change anybody's mind on whether or not they want to go through with it.

      That's just my thoughts on the matter. I wish everyone the best of luck in all of their endeavours. Have a great day :)

      P.S. Happy New Years from Michigan!

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    160. to the anonymous fuck face that posted on april/18/08 ill tell you people right now people like that should, need, with out a dought ,with no hesitation!!! be shot, killed because of there fucking criticizim dont fucking preech to us about god cause god loves us all equally but we have that choice why can do these things cause we choose to and thats wat god intended in my opion anyway now ill let you fucktards know aslo that i dont give a shit wats you say about this post or about any my descission on you was final when i read your dam post your fucking pricks that dont understand what people like them are going threw, u may think or try to but you dont you dont, so dont try to act like it, these so called biblethumpers or watever are the discrace to god and everone of there fucking bible buddies they do not i repeat do not have no right to past judgement once so ever im not trying to hipnotize you in anyway to the people who say this im not fucking gay at all nor bi so u have nothing on me with no evidence and yes you do piss me off thats why i bring bak wat i said in the begining u should be shot quote me on it to these people are deffinetly brave they found there way to become wat they want so lay off i kno all these pricks that dont understand will only get worse and say the same shit oh "that is disgusting and wrong" pleaze PLEAZE answer me this where how wat is so fucking wrong wat is it that disgusts you so much that you think you have the right to say that? and for the people that think they are just going to comment something bad and not get something back your mistaken back to the subject if any of you bibble thumpers or pricks have any dignity or watever do not do not reply after me you do not have that right to judge i kno i might be contredicting myself but i dont care i said wat i wanted and thats how it is

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    161. May God bless all who go through with this or who believe in this. I personally believe that gays,lesbians,and sex changes need God more than anyone else. It is wrong,immoral, and highly sinful. and to all the evolutionist or nonbelievers i pray he will have mercy on your souls.

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    162. I'm a male-to-female transexual, and I had my surgery about a month ago, and it's gone great. I had a wonderful surgeon, and everything looks fine. Finally, I'm in the body I was meant to be in. I felt wrong and disgusting as a man. Anyone who doesn't understand that, think about how you'd cope in the body of the opposite gender. I'm a woman, and now my body is too. I can quite easily pass as a woman too, so that's great.

      Anyone who's got a problem with me is a moronic bigot. We are who we are. If my gender identity offends you in some why, fuck right off and keep it to yourself.

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    163. On Venus we discovered quite by accident, that these creatures were susceptible to electric shock, and controlled voltage would paralyze them. Now, if we can get two heliocopters and a bunch of paratroopers, we can drop an electrically charged wire net, on the beast.

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    164. People, you should accept transexual for who they are, they do this for multiple reasons, the most common one is that the body they are in doesn't show what the person is like on the inside. By going through this process they show the world who they really are. Honestly, if God really wanted people not to change their sex, He would do something about it, but He doesn't so just take a chill pill and let the transexuals go through their procedure. VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE.

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    165. how can anyone not post a comment after reading all of that?! hilarious!! i looked at this site out of a random, twisted curiousity. why are hard core christians looking at this sort of thing anyway?!! haha! YALL sound like southern states kkk activists! on the one hand these comments are outrageously funny but on the other hand completely alarming that so many people are still using christianity as a weapon of judgement and hate. we are all in this together and we are all responsible for eachother. so to my brothers and sisters who read this- be you homo, hetero, trans, racist, atheist - jesus loves us all so party on!

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    166. learn to spell. idiont. i say god bless to the people who suffer from being trapped in the wrong body. god bless you all. and btw. god has the right to judge. not YOU...or anyone. WWJD.

      discusting! Brave you call it? i'd call it mental illness. That is not brave to go throgh the operation. They inflicted that pain on themselves. This is discusting in other countrys you get beaten or killed for homosexuality. This is so agianst what bible says, i just wish God has mercy on them and for all the other people who agree with this, being brain washed by this sin!!

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    167. Now listen to what i have to say. Everyone in this world has done,act,tried,and even thought of something that its againts god's way of life. We are not here to judge those who sin in the eyes of god. If your gay,strait,by-sexual, trisexual,male,female,postop,or preop, it dosent matter because what we do have in common is we are humans. A sin is a sin no matter if you do something or think about something that is not right in god's eyes its still a sin. And to address those who talk about god what did jesus say to those who were about to stone the prostitute. He said he who is without sin cast the first stone. Also said many time that these sinners would enter the kingdom of heaven before others. Now what does this mean well it means that dont judge others its not your right to do so lets leave that job to god who has all right to judge his creation. Also is it not the same if a man has a sex change or a strait man thinks perverted about a women in his thoughts, a sin is a sin no matter what you do we all sin everyday. So lets not judge anyone for we all sin the same in god's eyes. But do not forget one thing god put us here for a reason and gave us rules to follow. Imagine this we get mad at each other so fast and for stupid things. Now think about this what if god was like us and thought like us..... he would have killed us all and all the planets,humans,and life as we know it would be gone in a blink of his eye."Love one and another as you love yourself" quotes from Jesus Christ. We all know the time will come when we all will face death, for death comes to us all and when we face those times.... Fear god and be ready to face him for once your dead there is no second chance to prove yourself to god. The book of life will be open and God will judge you from all the good and bad thing you did while you were alive so one thing we could understand is lets not judge and love one another as we love ourself. And fear God. It dosent matter if you know there is a god or not. Fear the thought of what many since creation have talk about god and until this day even scientist cant explain many picture,stigmata's, and events uncluding jesus who rose after the third day. If those who dont think god is real then lets take this to a scientific mind. What has been proven more than the other. That god is real or evolution is real. Think about it is a true fact that even when your facing a death experience everyone has said Oh God, Please no God, God save me, Or my favorite Oh my god. Its funny that even those who dont think god is real had said these words when facing death experience or fear. Now i dont know about everyone But i rather be safe than sorry in the end. Lets leave with this thought and please think about this its important, Jesus Christ Died a terrible death on the cross if those who have seen the movie the passion of Christ can just imagine what Jesus Christ did for us and that just a small percent to how he really suffered on that day for us....:( and here we are fighting and insulting each other for stupid reasons. Now lets leave this job to god. And anyone who speaks of god in a bad way or gets a sex operation, or even thinks perverted about someone in their mind, and so on. All will be written in the book of life. Please remember this love on and another as you love yourself and Fear God for when the time comes And no one knows when your time comes to face death,, be ready to face god and explain the sins you did in this world for eternity is for ever and where are you going to spend eternity,, Heaven Or Hell.

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    168. Why can't I feel anything when I look at dead body's and these pictures, other people seem to not feel good when they see them?

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    169. wow, with all these posts you would think congress would put up a bill for trans awareness and health benefits.
      Im 21 yr old male, im straight, i have a girlfriend, i go to a private music college, i have dreams and aspirations to be a person with a huge influence on our world. I stand up to pee, i enjoy having sex and jerkin off, i enjoy time with my boys and alone time wit my girl. I wake up, brush my teeth and put my pants on the same way as all of you. I have a fuller beard than most of my male friends, and it makes them jealous. I'm just as smart (well, smarter than most of these extremely narrow minded fools posting on this form :) ) as any other individual of my age or older.

      oh, but one thing i DIDN't tell you...
      I was born a biological female.

      but what does that really mean? well, it means that for the first 18 years of my life I spent not able to find out who I really was, because I couldnt express what I was feeling inside. I did NOT feel comfortable associating myself with lesbians, nor identifying as one and i knew that for DAMN sure. My hormone levels have been off whack since puberty. Many different doctors and specialists could only identify my broad shoulders, big muscles, THICK hair on my face and extremely irregular cycles as PCOS (for most of u ppl who have not a fucking clue about this subject whatsoever, its polycystic ovary syndrome... google it kids.) After getting DNA tests, a sound graph and a brain scan, i seemed to be completely healthy with NO cysts on said ovaries.

      see, what most of you say is "idk how those ppl feel but...."
      no, just stop right there.

      no, you DONT know how 'we people' feel, since we clearly are from another world. were fucking human! let me explain from experience. how does a 13 yr old boy or girl feel? how about an 18 yr boy or girl? ill tell you, when boys hit puberty, this amazing little hormone called testosterone makes ur voice drop, ur face hair and pubes thicker, makes ur balls drop and makes u want to hump everything that walks on 2 legs. females get breasts, and menstruation begins. For any (for lack of a better word while dealing with idiots) "normal" boy, growing breasts instead of hearing your voice drop, and getting your period instead of getting ur beard would be a horrendous, hellish nightmare which you would soon wake up and realize was a dream.

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    170. now pretend your that one special boy who doesnt wake up from the nightmare, but lives it everyday.

      I personally cant speak for how MtF's feel, but for me, since i could remember I noticed how gender-happy our society is. I always asked in PRESCHOOL why I couldnt play with the boys. I had crushes on cute girls. all my friends were boys. yet i couldnt stand up to pee.

      Honestly, as you grow up, there really are only 2 options: live free or die. and that, my friends, is the ONLY option a 'trans' person EVER has. you must understand that.
      I personally believe that trans ppl are mostly born with a genetic fluke, caused by too much of one hormone being introduced to the fetus in the womb(this is ONLY a theory, their are many having to do with actual genetic crosses, but this one makes the most sense to me... hormones are POWERFUL.)
      OR
      I do believe IN SOME EXTREME cases of abuse, torture, rape or other tramatic experiences, that a person of one gender could grow to feel so unsafe with who they are because of their past that the only option (again, besides death) is to change who they are via sex change.

      I really could go more in depth about these two types, because they are very different- ones genetic(sorta) and ones totally emotional, but that is no the point of my post.

      here IS my point:
      alot of you people who "shun" this practice of "mutilating "ur body with this amazing surgery, just dont get it. your just not educated enough on the subject, you havent heard both sides of the story, or you dont care to, which is your own damn fault. You say "i want to be taller, i want to be asian, i want to be thinner... but theres nothing I can do about it so I have to deal with it!"
      well... you cant get taller w/o high heels, and you cant be asian if you drive well (come on ppl, its funny. laugh a lil y dont you.) but you CAN go to the gym and get urself on a schedule that will help you live healthier!!! there, thats dealing with it... isnt it?
      and i mean, gosh it seems easy enough to change my weight...but what about my sex? wanna know how to change that? try seeing a therapist for a minimum of 6 months before they can write you a letter that says you have Gender Identity Disorder (for the record, this label is terribly misleading and will be changed in the near future as soon as congress gets the stick out of its ass) in order for your endocrinologist (yet another specialized doc that wont take insurance) to prescribe u hormones. For me, i take a shot every 2 weeks that keeps my beard full and the mojo constantly goin. after about 4 months on hormones small changes begin... but nt so fast, you have to wait till you have been on hormones for 12 months before any surgeon will even give u an estimate.
      how about your license? your insurance? your bank records? credit cards? all with the wrong name on them... how do you change that? from state to state the process differs, but either way, if you dont have to know... you dont want to.

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    171. so, how do I deal with it? thats easy... the will to live. hey, if shooting myself with T every so often will encourage my natural boyish good looks to charm the ladies.... then why the hell not? that option is much more appealing to me over pretending i am something that i am not and hate myself .

      you all say "you will never be a real man/woman" well, you got me there. biologically, as of this moment i cannot be a natural male. i cannot produce sperm. buttttt thats about the extent that i cant do lol. and in this day and age, there are enough of my brosky's trying to pay their xbox live subscription with the money the donation center gave em for wanking off into a can... so im not too worried about "never having children" lol. also... idk if u ignorant ppl have every heard of adoption, but its a pretty big to-do here in the 21st century. ALSO invetro (spelling?) is always an option, but its too much for me at this moment.

      i also would like to add that I believe once you are on hormones, any trans person should identify themselves as male or female (the sex they are switching to) because if you say "yo im transgendered hear me roar" people are going to shit on you, call you crazy, an abolishment to society and look at you funny. Personally, I dont think of myself as "TRANS", no. I'm just a dude who likes me some buns! i dont feel in between anything, which is what i feel the title 'transgender' implies.

      I have not had one surgery EVER and I can:
      pee standing up, i can fuck and feel it just fine, i can climax at the same time as my girl, i can fart on cue (now, couldnt before), I can sing bass, i can have a family, i can be successful, i can (and have) passed 100% as male for a number of years (remember i am only 21), i am 5'9", 250, 27% bmi, and I can kick any of your hatin' asses faster than u can scream for your mama.
      here are a few other things i can do:

      I can talk, I can think, I can reason, I can do good, I can spread love, I can encourage unity through communities, I can make you think a different way by the facts that I lay in front of you. I can help the enlightenment of our time pursue its path with my story. I can change the world by not listening to anyone else but what my heart is telling me to say. and I can tell you this in certainty, one day all who have been persecuted throughout time will be given justice. One day all religious buffs will TRUELY realize that all God ever wanted from his creations was pure love, pure light. I Am wants his children to shine with the light that allows for the people who have been kept in the shadows (uninformed individuals) to see and be seen. I believe I am a light for us, and it is my mission to make my piece known to our society. its unbelievably ignorant to say "ew that surgery is gross" and then turn around and gawk at the pornstars fake tits you watch on the nightly. obviously its fucking gross, its surgery for Christ sake. have you ever seen a breast implant surgery being done? didnt think so. sometimes its better to keep ur mouth shut and give the illusion of being smart, rather than open your mouth and remove all hope.

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    172. I really could go on for hours about this, but ill stop here with one last point:
      A lot of you say "im sorry, but it doesnt even look that good", this is true, i would never have my wang hacked together by some surgeon who doesnt know didly about why I am on his operating table. HOWEVER!!!! Scientists are working day and night trying to come up with new cures, and new technology to help people "DEAL WITH THEIR PROBLEMS" (see, its more than just us trans ppl who get a kick out of spending stupid amounts of money to make ourselves feel better about living with ourselves) and as most of you brighter ones know, stem cell research is really a breakthrough in the health field. Recently, body parts like ears, fingers and... PENISES have been grown on mice using stem cells. it allows the limb to grow NATURALLY because it is from the hosts DNA and muscle tissue. what does this mean? honestly i dont know yet, ive been doing tons of research to see if their are more developments and recently they discovered that stem cells can be used to regrow reproductive tissue and organs as well as being used to harvest spare hearts, livers and kidneys. I'm waiting for a bit more research to be done on this specific issue because I think it will actually be the only way to completely and naturally change a bio female to a bio male and vice versa.
      sooo... whats that mean?
      well, you hokey pokey northwestern boys better watch out, cuz before you know it, you'll be sleeping with a woman who pleases you better than any girlfriend you ever had before..... then think about why... well, at least I'll be laughing :)

      I hope first and for most my input was informative to those seeking it. Just as you all say how brave trans ppl are for going through this... its people LIKE YOU that allow people LIKE ME feel a bit safer in the community. I personally dont feel threatened by any community, but at one point I did... and many young people still do. and that isnt right. Though you may not agree completely with the reasoning behind this whole trans thing, its ever so important for everyone to try and support the people who are forced to live that lifestyle because THEY WERE BORN THAT WAY. you may be too short, too fat, too tall, not blonde, not athletic, but you were born that way.... and I can understand that as long as you are the one who has to deal with it : )

      any questions? wanna talk?
      nanasworld341@yahoo.com

      thanks for reading,
      -A.Zak

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    173. A Zak....I think i love you!!! lol. I have read through every single one of the 551 comments here, and have to say yours is the greatest. Give em hell

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    174. kyle --- hoping to be tamsinJanuary 13, 2010 at 5:42 PM

      im a boy but since i was 13 have felt disgusted by the fact that im a boy, so sometime in the future i long to be what im ment to be ... a girl. im now 16 and have told most people in my family and are helping me through it. my mum and nan are very helpful ... x

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    175. WTF! just sick. Wrong! They will never look real! We will always know the difference, you can't change the way you were born! If you were born with a penis, leave it there. Sick fags.

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    176. people NEED legs to WALK, just because some poor kid was beat up too much by his drunk, overbearing father, or molested by a drunk queer uncle doesn't mean he NEEDS to have his penis cut off and a "vagina" in it's place. You blind ignorant, radical left wing scumbags are ruining our nation and the future of our children!

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    177. Fools, first of all, don't compare your cause with that of the blacks that went thru true struggles and were BORN WITH BLACK SKIN. How many blacks say they were born white and try to bleach their skin? Same thing. A black man wanting to bleach himself white is like a man wanting to be turned into a woman. yeah, in 100 years our society will be so perverse that it probably would be socially acceptable to be a TVS and people will probably be pushing for "race change" operations, or what have you. People here are so spoilled that they have no concept of contentment, it's more "whah, waah, what about me? waaah, I want to stick foreign objects up my anus, whah, whah, I'm goimg to spend my time whinning and thing about what else I can bitch about. Do what you want behind closed doors, just quit imposing your will on the rest of us, with special restrooms, men wanting to go into women's dressing rooms, gay marriage, etc. Your like nazi's.

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    178. For all of you who thinks this is a sin...

      People should be allowed to do whatever makes them happier. If you knew anything about this topip you would know that people who are transgenders are physically in the wrong bodies and they should be able to fix that. I'm sure that God made these people for a reason.
      Maybe he did it to educate everyone who judges people like this that there is nothing wrong with people who are different.

      People need to think before they say such negative things and God is not an excuse to have hate towards people. God wants peace and i'm pretty sure you are not doing God's will by creating contraversy.

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    179. This has been an interesting chain of posts.
      To the one who asked if men will have a rib removed and women have a rib added, when going through gender reassignment surgery, I'd like to point out that men and women have exactly the same number of ribs. Take an osteology course.
      To those who simply don't understand and because of that take a stance against it, get an education. Take a course about gender and sexuality. Take a course in humanities to work up some tolerance and some sensitivity to other humans.
      To those who seem to know exactly what their version of god thinks and wants everybody else to do, study some other religions. And remember, a myth is a myth everywhere but at home.

      Thank you to all who have shown compassion to others and have shown some education. To all the others ones, get one.

      And don't forget, the things you are so against can hit close to home. You don't know if your son, daughter, mother, dad, uncle, sister or other relative may one day confide that he or she is gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transsexual, or even intersexed. Ask yourself if it makes them less human, less of your relative, less worthy of love, respect and compassion?
      Try to imagine yourself in their shoes. How would you want to be treated?

      Sean

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    180. well what a lot of nasty people there are on here eh?
      Judge not lest ye be judged... pretty sure Jesus said that you know.....
      Just to point out tothe idiots who have graced our screen, We change our bodies to match ourselves, I for example am a gay man, so no I am not changing to "become straight", what a laugh. Get it through your neaderthol sculls, sexuality and gender recognition are 2 very very sererate things.
      You want to call me unnatural, up to you, but only God and Jesus will judge me not you. all my friends are great and I thank everyone on here who is supportive, thanks you really do not know what it means to us.

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    181. Minds are like parachutes.... they only work when fully open.

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    182. Benji, I am very close to OUR creator.

      It is clear that men who lie with men is condemned in the Bible. BUT I don't believe we have the right to judge anyone as you said.

      I KNOW people are born with all kinds of anomalies or differences. To me this is why it is clear that humans cannot judge.

      Being born gay, or being born a woman who knows she is a man or visa versa, how can we judge that? ONLY the creator knows our hearts.

      Now if someone is doing it for a thrill or to be evil etc. Makes me wonder if that is what was meant in the Bible. When someone practices something they KNOW is wrong. I hope I am making sense.ONLY the creator knows if someone is sinning, or if they were born with something others judge and deem wrong!

      All I know for sure is love and not being critical, are both so important to me.

      I hope the people who are loving and supportive are being heard more than the ones who want to hurt others.

      I wanted to say some of you who are so gross, ignorant, rude, hurtful... you may be in an accident someday and get your privates badly wounded. You may then appreciate that these surgeries have been done. You may need the skills these doctors have and the experience they have to sew your penis back on!

      hugs to you guys who these turkeys try to hurt. Ignore them, they don't love themselves so they have NO idea how not to be so critical and ignorant.

      Much love,debilyn

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    183. chop chop chop, who needs that dirty penis anyway?

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    184. I will still like the person who had a sex change surgery no matter what its not there bits that count its them i will rather be friends with people like this they need friends who like them no matter what ... so to you haters go fuck your self and look in the mirror and think why people like you see if that makes a difference

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    185. To everyone who's spouting hate about these operations: you're fucking idiots.
      Anyone who says it's left wing crap look what fucking right wing governments got us : slavery, dictators, the holocaust, civil uprisings, political attacks and some of the deepest rooted problems in society you could imagine. Right wing parties have a hell of a lot more to answer for the left wing ones. If you think of the prime ministers/presidents who had the worst effect on the society as a whole, I bet a lot more right wing ones will be on there.

      Anyone who says God will be pissed doesn't know their fucking religion. On the one hand, God is supposed to be benevolent and all loving, so if the word of the bible is so unquestionable, you're all going straight to hell if you don't. On the other hand, Christianity is founded on murder and contradictions; hookers are bad, Jesus married one, God is benevolent, he causes natural disasters, millions were tortured and killed in the crusades in the name of Christ, thousands of innocent women tried as witches and killed in the process because 'it was the word of God.' Sorry to anyone who is a true good Christian and would never harm anyone and takes Christianity for what it was intended to be: a set of GOOD, LOVING principles to live your life by.

      Anyone who says that transgendered people have just had too much of a privileged life to want anything else can FUCK OFF. I've always wanted SRS and I was born into poverty, I got into crime and tackled intense drug addictions but pulled myself up from that. Just because you're all too fucking stupid to do it for yourselves don't go slagging everyone else off. In fact, if it's so goddamn awful to have a sex change, why are you looking at it on a website?

      There is nothing to object to with this surgery. It doesn't hurt anyone, you can actually put sperm away to have children (look it up), I don't know anyone who's been smited after having it and it makes people happy. Accept that. I only came on to look into it further but after seeing some of the posts from small minded losers with nothing better to do with their time than bitch at people trying to be themselves I got a bit angry. If you read this and thinking of replying and saying I'm going to hell or whatever, just go watch T.V or something, nobody wants you here.

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    186. To Brandon and Scott....The biggest queers in the northwest.

      Get a life.

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    187. Thanks for putting up these pics and explanations. I was very curious to know what the surg. looked likke. i'm very proud to have my Transgender friends. I want to support them anyway i can :)

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    188. I just wanted to set the record straight on a few issues here, though largely, I see that many people have already done so. To those who have approached this subject with an educated mind, I thank you.

      First, in the subject of true debate, I think it is interesting how many people bring up personal bias and prejudice into this argument. Debate is not an emotional subject. I am pro-trans gender operations, but if I were to say, 'it is because I am dating a man who has just begun his transistion from biological female, after we have been involved for a literal seven years', to many of you who are against, this would automatically nullify my opinion as instead of being presented as a rational thinker, I could be interpreted by someone narrow-minded as an individual 'corrupt with sin', or something of the likes.

      Before I even touch the subject of God, who I have always strongly believed in (but who does not bear argument over matters such as these in a purely scientific sense), I want to present medical evidence to those who are merely 'stumbling' upon this article and are blowing up that which they do not understand.

      The human body before puberty is hormone free. Hormones dictate sexual gender, as children neither have estrogen or testosterone, which are pivotal to puberty and make a child an adult, either male or female. Simillarily, when a male begins taking estrogen on his way to becoming a woman (or vice versa), thier body goes through puberty a second time. You can't say thier genetics solely make them a man or a woman because hormones make you a functioning adult. It is in your gentics to dictate hormones, but it is science to regulate them, or alter them to what you want them to be. This goes the same for other medical procedures to alter the body (in the case of a transplant) as well.

      To those who argue that a man cannot be a man unless he can procreate, and a woman for the same reasons, then by that logic, children are not boys are girls. They are 'its' because they are sexually defunct. The same goes for a grown 'man' who has a zero sperm count, or a woman who has gone menopausal (or who was never fertile to begin with).

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    189. Now, by that logic, the idea seems just a little ridiculous, does it not? Clearly a child can be a boy or a girl before they are sexually active. Clearly an eldery woman can gain respect in her community not based on her sexual prowess, or her ability to have children. You can not add or remove value from a person because they can't bear children. And you can't change that rule just because you do not morally agree with how a person has come to thier sexuality or how they have come to sexually function. Therefore, the same rule should apply to transgendered people.

      By making the validity of a human based only on being able to reproduce, you demean life. What happens in a lifetime -- growing up, connecting and bonding with others, education, work, even hardship and pain -- now means nothing because it does not all end in the birth of a child. This is a cold way to look upon the earth. Though possibly, this is what 'nature' at its heart really is. In nature, there are homosexual creatures. But wether or not they leave meaningful lives is determined by the fact that they will probably not reproduce, or that a high population of homosexuality in animals (such as the swan) can drive the race to extinction. So be it, let nature run its course.

      But if you MUST adhere to the rules of nature, then notice, then, that God is not present in that. Nature does not care about God. It goes on with or without someone speculating the existance of a higher being. Nature is also highly defunct in moral. In nature, incest and rape are common, as is murder, and low life expectancies.

      That is why we are humans. We are seprate from nature, even if there is a place for 'nature' and yes, 'God', in our lives. But that doesn't mean that us, our planet, and our spiritual beleifs can not coexist. And that does not mean that they cannot morally coincide with transgendered people.

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    190. Transgendered people are men and women have been born into the wrong bodies. Often, they feel at odds with themselves for thier entire lives. No matter what they do, or how they 'deal with it', they are not comfortable in thier own skin. And if they beleive in God, no amount of prayer, no amount of love for Him will change that either. Instead, they are more likely to beg him for release, or ask of him some meaning in thier otherwise bleak lives. Or, they can ask him for a sign. A sign that directs them to make the choice to become the gender they truly are.

      True 'God' loves all people. He does not care if they are male or female. He does not care if they are saints or sinners, and he does not care if they are youn or old. Religion, which features god, is man's interpretation of his goodness. Each religion varies from one to the next, each claiming that 'this one religion' is the true religion. They can't all be, but one god can be the real god. And He is the god in our souls, in our hearts, in our bodies, in our earth, in eachother. He is the greater good of all things, that makes us do right by all others, to turn the other cheek in hard times of judgement by those who do not know or who are fearful and lash out in thier fear. He tells us to love thy neighbor. Love the sinner, not the sin. Because at the end of the day, it is not your job, as a christian, as a Muslim, or Buddhist, to look down on others. It is your job to further yourself spiritually to become closer to God. To be more comfortable with yourself.

      And that is what transgendered people do when they begin the process of changing. Many of them are the same person, personality-wise, when they finish as when they started. It is a common misconception that if you know someone who is going to change thier gender, that they will change. I cannot stress how much this is untrue. The only difference in them, emotionally, psychologically, will be that they are more comfortable with themselves, more confident, happier.

      (IF they are truly meant to get the surgery. There are those who have other issues in life and get it mistakenly, and thier lots do not improve because no surgery can fix thier actual problems. However, those going through transistion seek counsel and therapy for years before undergoing the process to make sure this does not happen. To make sure that changing thier gender is what's right for them.)

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    191. It is natural as someone who can not possibly understand the inner workings nor feelings of another to fear and then consequently reject (and berate) that which they do not understand. This is why we have homophobia, racism, as, though both of these can be incited in a more intelligent caste, is much more frequent in the uneducated. After seeing this blog post, these pictures, and if you have never seen them before and are disgusted or afraid, it is a natural reaction.

      But, going back to God, even God wants you to accept others even if you see them as wrong. Hence, again, 'turn the other cheek'. Even if you do not support what you've seen here, you can not possibly walk in these people's shoes, you do not understand thier experience. Simply agree to disagree, stay strong to your beleif if you have to. Or, even better, open up and accept those different from yourselves.

      Do not be so narrowminded that you miss out on the opportunity for something positive. Wether it is an interaction with your peers, or even something as simple as the iquisistion of new knowledge.

      At the end of the day, this article was not written to create an abscess of what you consider immoral or not. It was made to inform.

      Leave it at that.

      (And, for the record, to those undergoing this lengthy and painful proccess, you have my complete support and i wish you only the best. Though you can not hope for tolerance from all, know that your struggles do make you stronger, who you are, and that ultimately, you will prevail over this time of difficulty. And after you are done this trial of your life, and wake up 'on the other side of the fence', I promise that if you have carefully thought about this decision, you will be all you ever wanted, and more. Take care.)

      -Madame C.

      (and that is all I wrote)

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    192. I read a lot of the comments and I have to say being transgendered myself it is very difficult living like this, I wish there was a easy solution but there is not, it ruins my life, and all my relationships. I never feel totally right in social situations, and my mind has been telling me that I am a girl since I can remember, and recently I saw something on the net that said that transgendered people have a brain abnormality that has been recently discovered. so maybe in the future that will be dealt with by an operation. For all the bible people out there when I was divorced largely due to this condition or problem whatever you call it, I read the bible extensively and it said that you should not quote the bible because if you get one thing wrong you will go to hell, so you are supposed to live it and not preach it, listen all you Jehovah witnesses and priests and rabbis, and righteous Hippocrates. And by the way, we all live by the King James 15th century version which was translated by scholars, who probably got many things wrong, and they are in hell now with King James. But back to this transsexualism thing it is a scary thing for sure and makes zero sense to me I have been trying to deal with it all my life and it doesn't go away, so am I supposed to take hormones, and mutilate myself in order to feel right. I guess I don't really know, it's a nightmare that you never wake up from, and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

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    193. First of all, who made you God so that you can judge us? My next question is exactly what testament are you bible thumpers quoting from? You all seem to call us Transgenders sinners. If that be true the maybe you should read the book of John in the NEW TESTAMENT. Once there look up chapter 3, and finally in that chapter look up section 16 (John 3:16 for all the tards out there) it says that God gave his only Son to die on the cross for the sins of the world. I also believe in the very same TESTAMENT it says that as long as you believe in this act of sacrifice the Kingdom of Heaven is your/ours. Unless it states in the Bible that God is an indian (sorry for the term) giver we "sinners" are all saved. I was raised in a very loving yet strict catholic environment. I was taught that although God is almighty he is a loving God. To those that support us I thank God that there are people that are educated and open minded/hearted enough to love us for our true selves. To those that are hateful, critical, and judgemental...Remember that while you point a finger at us as you judge there are three other fingers pointing right back at you. I don't know the saying exactly but doesn't it go something like "Karma comes back to you in three folds"? Well, keep pointing that judging finger at us, because Karma (your other fingers) will come back to haunt you.

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    194. All your words are wasted. Your opinions are trash. The only thing that matters is what I think.

      P.S. Don't conform to the views and beliefs of the rest of the world. Stupid Sheep who make the opinions of someone else their own are not worth my time to listen!

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    195. I originally came to this website as a favor to a friend. He is going to get a sex change operation to be the person he was meant to be. He wanted me to see what the before and after would be. I ended up reading some of the coments. Some disgusted me and were absolutely horrid, others were beautiful and inspiring.

      I'm not here to say it's wrong or to say its right. But if a person feels trapped and unhappy in a body they were not meant to be in, what kind of life would that be. It would be a living hell. How many of you dye your hair, cut or shave your hair, or wear make-up? And how many of you have tattoos, brandings, scaring, and piercings? Are these not a body modification? These are all things that people do to make them more comfortable in thier own bodies. Wheather its for asthetic value, vanity, sexual enhancement, shock value or spirituality. This is a broad spectrum we all exist on. Its something that changes your life, or becomes an intricate part of it.

      These are people who are fixing thigs they weren't born with. There will always be discrimination, no doubt. But when you take a step back and realize that we are all brothers and sisters on this earth, wheather you are a man, woman, child; white, black, middle eastern; Christian, Muslim, or jewish: Are we not all feeling, thinking, breathing humans?

      The world has room to be a compassionate place. Full of people who are understanding and not blind to accepting people the way they are. Many people say God finds this an abomination and unnatural. Who are we to judge? Who are we to say what God wants or thinks. By saying these rude and hateful comments and discriminating you're doing the one thing God never wanted to happen.You're disrespecting God, and inturn showing hate. Love is a powerful object that should be shared between us. Worship God by loving one another.

      If you look in the mirror and you're happy, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

      I'm 17 and I have enough sense to accept people for who they truely are, why can't some of you?

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    196. For all of you people saying "oh it's just not natural" , honestly, WTF is being "natural" these days...all you religious judgemental people are always saying how all the natural things are bad anyway like sex, and things like MARIJUANNA which is a plant that grows in the ground, and you sit on your high horse thinking you're living a proper life, well you're all ignorant and just rediculously horrible people. Like Eric said way up in the thread, GO STUDY some OTHER religions other than your own and stop living in your little lame ass bubble.
      WHO cares if someone wants to get a sex change, that's their business, it's most CERTAINLY not ANYONE's right to tell them they're wrong.

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    197. wow. there is so much ignorance in these posts. please, if you think this is unnatural, go READ A BOOK. learn a little. its simple neurology and biology,,, of course its real, do you think people would put themselves through so much with no reason? come on... its very dependent on the levels of hormones you are present to in the womb, and this is not something that anyone can help, so please don't judge others. and before putting something down, you would be doing yourselves a favor to actually research a little, so as not to come off so ignorant.

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    198. For all u Bible hating or Bible loving people it is said sin is sin and NO one sin is greater than an other and it IS a sin to judge so don't. If their is a God then lets let him do the judging and us all treat each other with human kindness and respect

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