Labiaplasty (cosmetic surgery of female genitalia) is plastic surgery of the Labia majora and/or the Labia minora, the external folds of the vulva. The procedure involve changing the shape of the labia. When labia are created where there were none, it is usually part of a vaginoplasty. Read more about Labiaplasty. Some before and after pics of labioplasty:
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Horrible!!!
ReplyDeleteI can´t understand how a healthy woman do this kind of thing...
Until you deal with a large or stretched out labia, you never will understand...
ReplyDeleteyeah, it's not about a woman being healthy or unhealthy.. every girl wud want their vagina to look beautiful and large labia is not due to smoking, drinkin or some unhealthy habit.. when it'll come to you, you'll 'stand it then.
ReplyDeletewow, that is some nasty lookin labia lips
ReplyDeleteI think it is horrible that we, women don´t love ourselves as we are. Big ore small lips. The labia actually have to be pretty big before it is a fyiscal problem. I think if we started reciving and gave ourselves as many compliments as we give to our boyfriends ore whatever, we would all feel pretty happy with what we got.
ReplyDeleteps: I do have very big lips and I´m not getting them done! And yes I do feel unhappy about them, but it is all due to outside influences such as media and former partnes.And I´m not about to let either run my life!
I think it is horrible that we don´t love ourselves with what we got. I think if we spend as much times reciving and giving ourselves as much compliments about our genitalia as most of us probably spend on giving our boyfriends ore what ever, we would love what we got! And the labia actually have to be pretty big to present a problem in everyday life, swimsuit, biking, thongs, sex and all.
ReplyDeleteps I do have LARGE labia minora, and I´m not happy about them. But they were never a problem to me before I got a few stupid coments from x-boyfriends, then I started getting sad about them, but they are mine, and no way I´m getting them fixed because of male stupidity and the influence of the media.
I have large labia also, but my husband likes them large. I thought all womens were like mine until I heard about the surgery. I told my husband I wanted mine trimmed, and said, large labia are a sign that you are a woman not a little girl. Little girls have tiny labia because they have not had children. He also said, I want to make love to a woman not a little girl, I don't want to feel like a pedophile, I love you as you are and no one else is going to see them but me. So now I see it in a different way and no longer want them trimmed. Besides I heard that there can be problems with the surgery and the last place I want a problem is down there. So I am now happy to be a Woman.
ReplyDeleteI have a woman in my life with a large labia. I totally love her labia the way it is. I've been with women with a small labia also. I suppose its just my preference. If I wanted a "young" looking labia I"d date a 19yr old, but even then your not guaranteed of a small labia. I personally like when a "womans" vagina looks plump and juicy. I would also feel pedoish with a girl with small labia. From an oral sex stand point I think its more fun to be down there, because the "sucking/lip smacking sound" turns me on and I know it the same for her also, heheh..like I'm doing a good job orally. If a man is giving you grief about it, you should find another man, because as a man I think all women are prefect the way they are.
ReplyDeletePlease Lady's leave your labia natural. If you have a man who judges your labia appearance then you have the wrong man trust me. He will leave you for something even if you have your labia trimmed. To have your natural vagina medically adjusted is just wrong. You are beautiful just like you are !!!!! Signed "A Man"
ReplyDeletewell said John!! "If you have a man who judges your labia appearance then you have the wrong man ladies"
ReplyDeletei like the way john commented......really mine opinion is same that if a man loves u truely it doesn"t matter wat kind of labia u have or not........if he is too choosy he cud leave u for anything.......so women out thr try to maintain ur dignity....be wat u r.......
ReplyDeleteMmmmmm, Labia.
ReplyDeletePeople describe womans genitals to suposedly looks like bloming flowers... I have large labia, and to me, I believe they look horrible! But that is my oppinion, and I have never, as i believe is the same case for many otheres, have never been educated in what the average vagina looks like! Does the average population have large labia? Or is it only a few of us? My issue is the cost of the opperation. $10 000! My car dosent even cost that much! I am 20 and i have refrained from any sexual intercorse at all simply because i have a massive fear of what a partner may say if he saw it! Unfortunatly it is a fear that i cant get rid of... and i cant afford $10 000 simply to get rid of a fear. It seems ill be a virgin for many years longer! Its just not fair!
ReplyDeleteI have LARGE Labia Lips from Natural childbirth 3 times,,They get in the way when me an my husband have sex an sometimes they get cought in my panties etc,,,, SO my husband an I talked about me trying to get them fixed...So I went for my consult last friday and yes I'm geting them fixed on Feburay 13th, in 2 weeks,,My husband an I have been together for 11yrs now an he said what ever makes me happy he is all for it an YES I have choose to do the LABIA surgery an cant wait....This will be the best Valentine's present to both of us that we hope to enjoy for the rest of our lives an we will never for get it..
ReplyDeleteWhat the heck!!! Every woman is free to do whatever she want with her body and nobody has the right to criticized her. Get a life!!!
ReplyDeleteI am seriously considering this surgery. I am completely anti-plastic surgery in every way, but for me, it is not an elective surgery. I am doing it because sex is often excrutiating. My Baby and I want several more kids, but it hurts so much just to be intimate with him. My labia are often pulled in and it rips my pereneal area, leaving it sore for weeks while it heals. It is hurting our relationship. It also causes more swelling after sex and when sitting on the toilet. I can't even squat to arrange books on the bottom bookshelf at work because the swelling is too painful. Part of it is because I am pregnant, but much of it is because I just have large labia. When you can't have sex with your husband or use the toilet without pain because of the pressure and swelling and when you have a physical problem that interferes with every aspect of your life, then please feel free to criticize, but if you have not experienced this kind of humiliating and painful deformity, then you have no right to judge. Just keep it to yourself and move on.
ReplyDeleteI've read that messing around with the labia can interfere with the blood supply and delicate nerve-endings of the clitoris. If it isn't done correctly (and who knows how to do this correctly? I think plastic surgeons are guessing), it could seriously interfere with sexual pleasure.
ReplyDeleteI too thought I was "normal", because women can't and don't compare genitals like men do. Then I saw the photos of Britney Spears coming out of the car, and she looked like a 4-year-old girl! I thought to myself, is THAT how I am supposed to look? Then I realized that Britney may have had the procedure done herself. If she's going to run around without panties on, the pudendum must look pre-pubescently perfect. No thanks, I think I'll keep my fleshly flowers. I no longer give a rat's butt if I'm "normal" (I'm 54), but I do care about being able to come. As for my husband, I've never once heard him complain.
So I did the surgery I had labia reconstruction and Vaginoplasty about 6 days ago and I can already see a differents...My labia is more stright and even..I feel better about what I did everyday...It was very painful the frist 2 days an now its getting to no pain at all an its only been 6 days...If I had to do it all over again I would have done it 3 or 4 yrs ago when sex was frist starting to hurt from my Large Labias being in the way an taring everytime I had sex....My husband says that my Labias are prettier now then they were 6 days ago.....I will keep all posted as I progress an get to use my new LABIAS.....
ReplyDeleteSome information that might be of interest...
ReplyDeleteaproximatly 1 woman in 20 has large labia, but what do we mean by large. in this case protruding more than 15mm from the outer labia when not engourged.
on the other hand by coincidence only 1 women in 20 has totaly non-visable inner labia when standing face on. in other words just a groove as it were.
I cant help thinking that some women have pain from large inner labia during sex because their partners dont spend enough (or perhaps any) time on forplay, without proper lubrication sex is uncomfortable/painfull what ever your genitals size or shape may be... i've been lucky enough to have a number of partners over the years with large labia, none of them had any difficulties...
Liberator
some of these comments are absolutely beautiful- I want to thank those of you who were thoughtful enough (and intelligent enough) to put them up there.
ReplyDeleteI usually never comment on the internet, but I just have to say to the 20 year old virgin up above that if you are just honest with your partner about how uncomfortable you are with yourself or afraid you are about his reaction, I can gua-ran-tee that, well, if he's a good guy, he absolutely won't care.
it's not always done for cosmetic reasons. I am a cyclist, and I have painful pinching due to one of my labia being much longer than the other. There have been times after a long ride that the skin on my labia was broken and rubbed off. I also have a difficult time wearing tight pants. I think all women should love their bodies, But please don't judge women who choose to do this. If you don't have large labia, you don't really know the difficulties that they can cause. And even if done for aesthetic reasons, if it makes a woman feel more sexually confident, then who are any of us to tell her what she should do with her body? If you judge women for having labioplasty and yet you dye your hair, wear makup, pierce your ears, shave or wax your hair, or alter your body in any other way, you are a hypocrite.
ReplyDeleteReally really want to get this done, i was always so self conscious during sex that i didn't enjoy it, even though my ex was totally nice about it and never said anything negative. Since him i've been celibate for over 2 years - mostly because i'm so embarrassed about how i look down there. I think having the surgery would improve how i feel about myself. it's just a matter of getting money together to do it. If there's something that makes you unhappy every day and you have the power to change it, i think you'd be mad not to.
ReplyDeletewe feel so sorry for for all you large labiad ladies. Glad we had c-sections. hope ops go ok and you r back 2 normal size soon. we still dont understand how you can get it stuck in your panties.
ReplyDeleteOh...so where can we see the pictures of the penis flaccid and erect and then start surgery on it? You know, to correct all that extra flesh, in forms we think look, um, wrong?
ReplyDeleteWe cut off the foreskin, and now we must mutilate the woman too?
Embrace the natural born beauty, people!
Do you look at trees and think, oh no! that leaf is a little to the left?
DO you look at a cloud, and think, oh no! That's way too fluffy on top!?!
We must crop that cloud.
NO YOU DON'T!
BECAUSE IT IS THE SAME THING.
I have never had kids.
ReplyDeleteI I have big huge dangling lips.
and it's fucking awesome.
and if you've ever been wit ha guy who has big droopy balls. well it's the sam fucking thing. are they posting blogs about how woried they are thier patheticlitlte fucking balls are not perfect ?!?!?!? NO
they are commenting on our damn labia.
well fuc kthem
i'm gonna go blog about their pathetic little balls mw hahaha
we shoudl torch these plastic surgeons, not the abortionsits
To all the people who cannot understand this... men do all sorts of crazy things to their Penises to make them bigger, yet even small ones can get you pregnant so why??...Same reason. Beauty and wanting to feel good about themselves. However, I am a guy and I like all shapes and labia. I think the only think is important is that I can feel you when I have sex. I had a friend who had to end a relationship, because the woman was huge inside, and he could not feel a thing. I think this is something that should have been worked on (excercises), but that didn't work for that couple. So there are much more important things when it comes to sex than sinking my teeth into some nice big labia that I can suckle before the deed. Men do not even think about this, and if they do..they usually like it, like me.
ReplyDeletePower to the larger labias! xx
ReplyDeleteThe funny thing is that in many parts of central africa, since girls are 8 or 10, they start pulling and binding on their labia and clitoris to make them bigger. Of course women in these areas do not wear tight jeans etc, but they certainly make sex more enjoyable and make birthing very significantly less painful. So, for most women large labia is a great advantage. Of course the biking lady (or horseriding jock etc) excepted. Some of the comments that the large labia makes sex more painful are attributing some other problem to this.
ReplyDeleteI am just 4 days out from having Labioplasty. I have been very pleased so far. The pain was minimal. I am so excited to see how it will look when it is healed completely, and i have a stronger desire to begin a regular exercise program. I am very happy with MY choice.
ReplyDeleteI am 20 years of age, I didn't know that i was any different to any other woman until i saw a girlfriend naked in the shower. i felt so embarrassed.
ReplyDeleteI had my first real boyfriend at the age of 17, it took me a couple of months to have sex with him, and probably about a year before i let him actually look at me.
3 or so years later i am with a new man and have been for nearly 2 years, it took me 3 weeks to feel comfortable with him, and i will marry this man, he knows i am conscious of my 'labia'. I went to a clinic in Malvern to have a consultation to have liposuction to the mons pubs and have the labia trimmed, it was going to cost me $7500 for both. while i was there i had a consultation for a breast enlargement and decided to get my boobs done first. there isnt a day when i look at my self naked or have a shower that i dont want to get it done. and i will get it done one day.
One of the ladies stated that they got the " long labia bits" after they gave birth, i certainly have had them since i can remember! My mother suffers from this too, and my sister didn’t get it! lucky thing. I hate it!! No woman should be afraid to fix something that makes them so uncomfortable with there bodies.
I will do the minor operation, just when i am still yet to decide!
I can't help but think that all these women writing in to say that it's stupid and we should embrace our "natural beauty" haven't been reading about the PHYSICAL pain and discomfort it causes.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the not-getting-enough-foreplay thing... it sounds like a probable cause, but when your labia are large, the lubrication does not even make it to the outside. The inside of the labia remain dry, while the very inside is the only part that is wet. And whether it is wet or not, when your labia are swollen and being rubbed raw, it won't matter how much lube you have.. it still hurts like heck :(
I wish this surgery wasn't so darn expensive. I'd give anything to be able to enjoy just one night of intimacy with my Baby.
I also have large labia...I was never self-conscience of it until the media brought it to my attention with television plastic surgery reality shows such as Dr.90210. A man never has mentioned the size of my labia...in fact I have always been told by men that I am very sexy including my vagina. Although, I would like to hear from the men out there,and find out what they think. Do men really notice the size of women’s labia, and what exactly determines acceptable or non-acceptable labia? Can a man really be turned off if the labia are large? Don’t men realize that labia come in all different shapes and sizes? Hmm…this is all quite interesting. I did mention to one of my ex boyfriends that I was thinking of having the surgery, and he “freaked out” saying that it would be a crazy thing to do because he thinks it is very “hot” for a woman to have a large labia just as someone mentioned in a earlier post.
ReplyDeleteoh ladies, leave it your labia as much bigger u can.. we, most of the men (i check with few my friends), like bigger labias. it turns us on.. We like to eat it when it looks like a flower.. dont trim it.. keep it as it is.. it is natural, and it is horny.
ReplyDeleteI just want to say I appreciate that people are able to discuss this.I am 27 and have never discussed the issues i am having with my larger labia. I am successful and have had many boyfriends in my time. I currently am in a 2 relationship and we own a house together. I have subconsiously had embarassement about my labia, and it does bother me at times with clothing or working out and can affect my sex life. however about 6 months ago my boyfriend commented that it is not normal and I should get something done about it.No one has ever made that comment and it has really affected the way I am able to be around him intimately and my openess in our sex life. I am embarassed to even walk in front of him naked now with out feeling ashamed. I have been considering the surgery for me, but it is unaffordable right now and scary with some of the outcomes I have read. I am glad to know that I am not alone and that not all men find a large labia unattractive. thank you all again for your open discussion.
ReplyDeleteI too have large labia and felt shame.. but after reading all the comments i feel i am not alone in this that we as women do not have to look like a pron stars to be sexy. My husbin tells me everyday how beautiful and sexy i am. He does not want me to change a thing
ReplyDeleteI am 27 years old and after years of shying away from many intimate acts and feeling totally self-conscious (due to my large labia) I finally had a labioplasty. This was one year ago and I do not for one second regret this decision. Now, I feel sexy when I walk around naked in front of my partner and oral sex has taken on a whole meaning. I am so happy to see that this is no longer a tabou subject. I wish this type of discussion forum had existed when I was much younger ( and unable to afford the surgery) so that I at least would have known I was not abnormal and not alone !
ReplyDeleteA tip for anyone thinking of going through with the surgey; consider Canada , much cheaper !
True, it is a personal preference. However, ladies, from one woman to another. You have no idea yet, what is going to happen in that area of your body as you age. Your breasts are not the only thing that droops down and thins out. Menapause causes much, much less moisture. The thongs of today would be torture of tomorrow. Trust me, the old lady panties become the support of your goodies to hold everything in place so walking is possible. I bet you will cringe the next time you see an older woman walking slow and gently, now you have some insight. Yes it is true. Ask your doctor.
ReplyDeletewomen do this kinda thing because men make us feel like are not as normal as the porno stars, they seem to have perfect body, and thats why we feel inadequate about ourselves and feel the need to become more like the picture perfect porno stars, infact its a good job us women dont make the men feel this way, by adding inches to there manhood, my god the queue would be long.....
ReplyDeleteI had labiaplasty a year ago, check the procedures, they differ in USA to UK,from surgeon to surgeon etc, it was very painful after and I have high pain threshold, I would say a good 12 weeks of discomfort, but.. no regrets, I had large but thinner labia, I hated them, my procedure left me with long incisions with stitches each side, it was my decision, a personal thing for me, I wanted tiny labia, and thats what I got, I am 40 so it has given me alot more confidence, so girls, if you are unhappy and this plays on your mind, seek advice, change your life forever, but.. seek a good surgeon, remember they deal with this daily, dont be embarrassed, they are there to help, its just a difficult subject to talk about isnt it, other than to a surgeon.
ReplyDeletemy girl friend had large labia lips and i liked them i never said anything but she chose of her own accord to get labiaplasty and she and i loved it it looks better and feels better during sex
ReplyDeleteI'm 26 years old and I have done labiaplasty to reduce my inner labia but luckily in Italy I paid everything 1,500 euro
ReplyDeleteI am 38 years old with 2 children. I had both labia majora and minora reductions about 6 weeks ago from a very reputable plastic surgeon. I am currently sitting on a pillow, still in pain and quite swollen. I am trying to be patient and stay positive. The pain and discomfort during for the first week post surgery is like nothing I've ever experienced. Hopefully, I will be pleased in the long run.
ReplyDeletei totally want this, my labia has one side bigger than the other, like that one girl. like even if i had a big labia but both sides matched it wouldn't be an issue. my husband doesn't care at all, it's me i am very self conscious.
ReplyDeleteLarger labia are a most beautiful thing in my opinion. While I can see the possibilities of reduction *IF* there is significant irritation involved in daily activities, or if there is a significant deformity that interferes with bodily functions, I do not feel there is reason for this type of surgery.
ReplyDeletePain during sex is 90% lack of lubrication. I have been with women who had very minimal labia majoris and minoris and if the lubrication is insufficient those labia can be "dragged" into the vaginal opening as well. It is also somewhat painful for the male, but most men won't admit to this.
Most men that I have talked to regarding labia sizes have concurred that larger is definitely much more of a turn on. I have actually sculpted many women's labia in wax and larger labia minoris are far more beautiful to sculpt and more pleasing aesthetically.
If there is significant medical or physical reasons to do so, then by all means have it done however, just having the surgery done for 'cosmetic reasons' is a real waste of money compared to how often they are actually seen.
I am now 28 years old I had large labia since i can remember, it had nothing to do with child birth or sex i was just born that way. I do now have 2 children my 5 year old before i had the surgery and my 5 month old after the surgery. I had told my GYN about my insecurity and how it iterfeared with having sex with my husband and just plain made me feel like crap about myself sexualy. Everything eles aside im really sexy. but that 1thing gave me sooo much insecurity. Amazingly enough my gyn did the surgery and i DID NOT even have to pay for anything. My medicaid paid for it all!!! Let me tell everyone out there who is thinking about the surgery..IT IS VERY PAINFUL for a LONG time 2-3 months before sex might even cross your mind, weeks before you could even sit normally OUCH!!! Would i do it again HELL YES!!! Without a dought. I can have sex with my husband and feel good about myself...And that is worth every bit of pain i went threw...YEAAAAA
ReplyDeleteI'm only 18 and have never had kids... I have a large labia naturally. It's been like that since I was like 14. It's not a big deal as long as you shave and take care of yourself. Every guy I have been with loves it! It really turns on my boyfriend! It is SO not worth 10 grand for the surgery. If you're hot anyway, it doesn't matter how big your pussy lips are. The only logical reason to get it is if you're in pain.
ReplyDeletei'm pretty young, in HS and i have them. it is a problem sometimes, physically and mentally. for all the men who have said they like them when women are older, thats great but when your younger, you can still have them and it is embarassing. they dont just appear after you give birth. i'm planing on having the surgery as soon as i'm 18.
ReplyDeleteHave to be honest. I am a fan of the quarter blossom. I love girls with cute vaginas.
ReplyDeleteI never heard of a guy leaving a women because of her labia. As a few males have already posted... guy's actually enjoy a women with a nice labia... especially during oral sex... if a women has little to no labia then there isn't much a partner can do orally...
ReplyDeletePersonally, after looking through most of the images posted on this, and other sites... I feel most of the ladies never did need the surgery preformed, and yes... if a guy doesn't love you for your labia, then it is a much larger picture... people don't leave a partner because of their labia or the size of their penis... in the end... it all comes down to.. knowing how to use with what you have... and loving one another.
I had a large stretched out labia resulting from having children. After I had this procedure, my life was changed. My husband loves the way it looks and feels. The sex is a million times better!! I would resommend this to any woman who wanted to better her appearence.
ReplyDeleteIs strange....
ReplyDeleteI actually find the before labias perfect!
where not supposed to look like oisters?
I agree that if they are sort of elephant size
then...
but the ones featured here look pretty normal
to me...
i actually have more or less
a similare large or big or whatever labia
i just look here by curioisity
as just the idea seemed odd...
and imegined i was going to see
real freack pussy!
but not!
the ones After look so weird!
sorry...
I think the pre-op labia look more scrumptious than the post-op ones.
ReplyDeleteAlso, the post-op ones just look too small and plain. No personality!
I have larger than average Labia, my husband is crazy about it. He has said to me that if I ever try and change it, that he would be very disappointed. Oral sex with him is out of this world. I don't understand the comments about painful sex, surely this cannot be due to larger than average Labia? I have never used a lubricant, my hubby does the trick there as by the time we are ready for the full deed, I am soaking. I think it's all about finding the right partner. After all, some guys like heavier set women, some like skinny ones, some like big boobs some small. Some tall, some short, some blonde some brunette. The choices are ours. Make the right one and this includes a partner that loves your healthy Labia the way it is.
ReplyDelete'Trust me, the old lady panties become the support of your goodies to hold everything in place so walking is possible. I bet you will cringe the next time you see an older woman walking slow and gently, now you have some insight. Yes it is true. Ask your doctor.'
ReplyDeleteI would just like to bring to everyones attention that this is not at all true. I've been working with old people in a 'old peoples hospital' and consequently seen many old vulvas when helping them to the toilet, shower etc, and they're just as diverse as young peoples vulvas. For all you women considering doing surgery on your vulva please visit some of these web pages first and you may want to reconsider your longed for surgery.
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/fr_index.htm
http://www.sexylabia.com/index.html
There is a lot of interesting information on these pages that changed my attitude to my large labia which I was ashamed of and thought was ugly and disgusting. But now I feel like walking down the beach with a tight bikini showing every guy the profile of my very secuctive pussy.
I have one labia larger than the other so large that it hangs down elow the vagina. I am seriously considering surgery not just because of the way it looks but because it can cause alot of uncomfort wearing certain things, during intercourse etc. and often gets very itchy as it rubs on certain clothing. I do not think its a bad choice to go for surgery as if can help your confidence then thats not bad?? My bf has no problem whatsoever regarding this and says its a natural part of me but I dont feel the same way.
ReplyDeleteWhat does anyone think?
Id like to hear from men or women please?
I am 25 and have one labia much larger than the other, which causes discomfort in certain clothes, sex etc. It can become very itchy due to rubbing on certain clothes. I am seriously considering having surgery not just to make the apperance better but to stop the discomfort aswell. I first noticed this when I was 14 and have hated it since. My b/f says it is part of me that he likes but if it bothers me that much Iv to do what is best for me and noone else.
ReplyDeleteWhat does anyone think??
d like to hear from bothe men and woman??
I got labiaplasty done yesterday actually, and im only 17.
ReplyDeleteim not sexual active.. the reason i got this surgery is because my labia causes lots of discomfort.. i cant cross my legs for ten minutes without have to constantly move to another position cause it hurts, They were also so big they trapped moisture so i was always self conscious that i was giving off a bad odor everyday. trust me guys ! Bigger ones are harder to keep clean, and wearing thongs and tight panties is so painful. my surgery was around 7000 and my surgeon was WONDERFUL! i feel pretty much NO pain at all.
The surgery was a breeze and i came home as soon as i was done.
No girls should feel ashamed of how they look down their, Theres ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH MAKING YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSElF(:
Its so easy for some people to say, Wow, why cant you just love your body? and be happy with you Body?
Well some people are just not happy with their labia appearance, and whether they want or dont want the surgery is their decision, NOT YOURS. Dont judge people guys. Labiaplasty is amazing.
I got labiaplasty done yesterday actually, and im only 17.
ReplyDeleteim not sexual active.. the reason i got this surgery is because my labia causes lots of discomfort.. i cant cross my legs for ten minutes without have to constantly move to another position cause it hurts, They were also so big they trapped moisture so i was always self conscious that i was giving off a bad odor everyday. trust me guys ! Bigger ones are harder to keep clean, and wearing thongs and tight panties is so painful. my surgery was around 7000 and my surgeon was WONDERFUL! i feel pretty much NO pain at all.
The surgery was a breeze and i came home as soon as i was done.
No girls should feel ashamed of how they look down their, Theres ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH MAKING YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSElF(:
Its so easy for some people to say, Wow, why cant you just love your body? and be happy with you Body?
Well some people are just not happy with their labia appearance, and whether they want or dont want the surgery is their decision, NOT YOURS. Dont judge people guys. Labiaplasty is amazing.
I did mine about 6 months ago, my labia was not huge, it was normal but it used to bother me somethimes depending on the clothes i was using and also wanted it to look better. I also injected PMMA in th outside to make it look puffy. It feels great and i payd about 2.000 dolars with all included in Brazil. Plastic surgery in the US is far too expensive, if you really wanna do it, go on only we know whats inside our hearts, besides it made me so much more sensitive, sex is better for both me and my fiancee, when i first told him i wanted to do it he was very much against, but i wanted and now he say it feels better indeed, like im holding him when we do it. It hurts very much in the first days used to cry of pain under the shower but it was so much worth it, im so happy and feel so confident about my sexuality Girls, if u wanna do it, go on, choose a good surgeon and go on
ReplyDeleteI am still figuring it out if I find them worst before or after surgery
ReplyDeleteBtw when I read "labia surgery" I thought of the kinda lips u have in the face so I am still a bit shocked :|
I can see both sides of the argument. What I don't understand is where the hell you all learned english? Stay in school people. Education builds intelligence, intelligence builds self esteem, self esteem removes the desire to chop up your beautiful, natural vaginas!
ReplyDeleteIt doesnt matter whether this is right or wrong or whether people find it attractive or not. If people are uncomfortable with their bodies and there is a way to fix it, why not let them? They shouldnt have to deal with embarassment other people making them feel bad about it when the alternative is a personal embarassment that's brought on by their own minds. It's no one's business but their own because its not about pleasing the world, its about them feeling like they are how they want to be. Do what you want with your body. Let others do what they want with theirs.
ReplyDeleteThose trimmed labia, looks nothing but horrible, total genital mutilation.I totally love my woman with beautifull developed inner lips, love to play with them, suck them, and watch them grow when she gets aroused. girls be proud with what u have, is a blessing and terribly sexy.
ReplyDeleteI am a man man with a very large scrotum. To the point that I cannot wear boxers. My testicles are 3 times that of a normal male and I guess the scrotum just came with the package. I am not unhappy at all with my penis size and the girth is twice that of most. That being said,I would not alter my body in any way. I have been told that my genitals are unattractive and also that they are great so it does go both ways. I enjoy women of all types and unless it is a health issue, leave them glorious and large!
ReplyDeleteIm a 26 year old with this problem and its traumatizing! This shouldnt even be termed as a cosmetic problem considering how uncomfortable hypertrophied labia are. Obviously there are different views as to what is normal and if you can accept and live with them good for you. As for the rest of us, its impossible to feel 'clean'.There is constant irritation from underwear, tight pants/jeans are torture and so are sanitary napkins.Ever since I found out about the procedure its all I can think about.
ReplyDeleteIt's not about looks or if someone else likes them. If they are large and you have a large hood it gets uncomfortable doing certain activities even sitting for long times. I have a job I sit 10-14 hours a day and it seems like every other week I have a pressure sore that needs to be treated.I try to wear loose underwear and buy pants 1 size too big so they are more comfortable but it doesn't help much .So please consider this aspect before you judge a woman that has this done.
ReplyDeleteif a person is getting it done, because they are having medical issues, there is nothing wrong... However, if a lady is having it only done because she thinks her "thing" is ugly, unsightly... or does it for no reason... then it is a unnecessary.
ReplyDeleteone post here says 10,000 to get the labia reduction. This must be wrong. I had a doctor clean it up for me and i only paid around $500 but i tell you what it hurts like hell after make sure you have enough panadeine forte for like 3 weeks just in case. No probs when your on the pain killers but as soon as they wear off it's as if someone is stabbing you down there then putting lemon juice on it. Absolutely kills without pain killers.
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine being insecure about this, even if you're single. My labia, without going into detail, don't look like a porn star's, but so what? I don't flash my vagina to everyone I meet. If I'm going to be intimate with someone, it's going to be someone I love and trust; someone who wouldn't give two sh*ts if I looked like an elephant down there. Being in pain is the only legitimate reason to have this surgery.
ReplyDeleteI *love* big labia!
ReplyDeletefor those of you youngsters out there that doesnt understand what child birth can do to a womans body, you have no reason to judge a person for correcting what nature has done, and for those who speculate, YOUR TIME WILL COME.
ReplyDeletePlease don't tell me 'youngsters' don't understand. I'm only 17 and coinscidently haven't had any children and mine are probably bigger than alot of mothers.
ReplyDeleteThey suck.
And those pictures, which I thought were of normal vaginas has just worked me into a body image shaming frenzy because mine are worse than that.
I could never afford surgery though. Not sure what to do.
i'm 18 and i never really realised anything was wrong with me until i found out about this surgery. Im still not really sure what constitutes 'large labia" could anyone tell me? Ive always been pretty confident but im not now and i feel really self conscious. theres no way i could afford this operation though
ReplyDeletedid it ever occur to anyone of you ladies here complaining about pain (and there are so many it can't be 'abnormal' that maybe a little pain *is* normal? what, you think men never get uncomfortable in jeans, sitting down, hangin to the left or right or getting caught in zippers? they can scritch and scratch and re-adjust all they want and no one calls them out for 'deformity'. it's because we're erroneously taught that we're supposed to be well-tucked little flowers that we think there's something wrong if our bits bob or flaps flip us out. come on, ladies: 'man up.'
ReplyDeletefinally, someone with the smarts... Well said Miss Z, and guys have much more then just a little flower in the pants... If someone doesn't like someone re-adjusting, don't fuking look!!!!
ReplyDeleteI've had large labia since I can remember, and have always felt
ReplyDeleteawful about it But I can't help but wonder why the only three men
that I have ever had oral sex with
seemed to absolutely love it.
I've been married for 22 years and
the main sexual activity my husband wants to do is perform oral sex on me We might hate it but there seem to be alot of men who get a real turn on from it.
Great post from above... men like it the way it is. So if you prefer having your partner stop enjoying oral sex with you and would rather not turn them on in a heated way, by showing them that special area,.. By all means go ahead and shrink that labia into the size of a green pea... And watch your sex life disapear!!!!
ReplyDeleteHonestly, just because a person has a little discomfort doesn't mean they should have surgery. Do you ladies have any idea how comfortable it us to have testicals? Two big things the size of a fist down in your pants for the rest of your life? We don't complain about it, they are just a part of the biology of a mans makeup. Sometimes we have to fix ourselfs in public, some people might look at us funny, but we don't care. Unless your in such pain you cannot do normal functions, no sex, cannot use the bathroom, cannot ride a bike, sit in a car.. Don't fix it, after all you may make matters worse... You are the way you were created, less just deal with it... Unless, it truly does affect our daily life.
ReplyDeleteOkay...all those "before" pictures look normal to me and I would be happier if I looked like that...but mine are absolutely revolting - almost an inch long, and (I don't know how else to put it) tubular. Ugh. I'm 21 and a virgin and I feel like such a freak, and I'm worried I won't be able to get them fixed until I'm 25 or 26 (and I DON'T want to still be a virgin then...)
ReplyDeleteHelp.
an inch? I don't see no reason to get it fixed, unless your having a medical problem there. If your a virgin or not, that shouldn't make a difference. Really, what is normal? Everyones body is different than the next. For all you know the guy who takes your virginity might love the way you are, he should anyhow... Guys love a pair of sexy full lips anyways!
ReplyDeletethankyou to the kind people who said ' what is normal?' i never looked at it that way. for 2 years ive been depressed about my labia lips, and i thought i was the only one! i dont believe in changing your bodies, but if its making you miserable, then go for it!!
ReplyDeletehaving labiaplasty isn't all about looks to some people. large/stretched labia can be very uncomfortable/painful @ times not 2 mention hazardous if they get pulled or caught and personally i don't appreciate my labia showing through clothing for anyone to notice including perverts and sexual criminals but im not about to wear extremely large loose thick clothing especially not during the summer on a beach or at a pool. i am opting for the surgery not because of looks but for comfortableness and a little more reassurance of my safety w/ having my private area less noticeable.
ReplyDeletejust wanted to say that i am 20 yrs of age and have been in and out of surgery all my life due to kidney and bladder problems, because of these procedures i have been left with large labia as they have cut from my ribs right through o back of my bum, so its been left a bit of a mess. it can be painful during sex as it feels like its tearing, and I'm thinking of having them tidied up
ReplyDeleteI'm from Finland where we go to sauna naked with people all the time, and most of the 'before' labias look just normal to me. What are you comparing your labias to? Porn? Are girls/women in US and UK now having labia comparing parties?
ReplyDeleteI don't get the controversy about this procedure. unless it's for medical reasons such as reconstructive surgery after masectomy, or the aforementioned physical discomfort of large labia, ALL plastic surgery is vain. so if you scrutinize labiaplasty, you might as well scrutinize all plastic surgery. doesn't matter to me whether you get your nose, boobs or vagina done. the goal is always the same: wanting to look beautiful (by whatever standards) and feel more confident. and I don't think anyone except the person concerned has a right to climb on a soapbox and tell others that it's wrong, disgusting or whatever. least of all men. it's not your body! I personally do NOT like looking like a 50-year-old down there at the age of 22 and without even having had babies, and I will have mine done.
ReplyDeleteif your 22 and look like a 50 year old lady, you may want to consider having less partners... That's actually pretty gross.. And how would you know what a 50 year old lady looks like.... People need to stop comparing their bodies to pornstars!!!
ReplyDeleteI have had a total of 3 partners in my life, so don't make assumptions about other people when you don't know the facts. I haven't done any excessive labia stretching in my pasttime either. they are the way they are for no apparent reason, and I don't like them. period. and I go to the sauna 2-3 times a week, that's how I know.
ReplyDeleteI'm tired of the media trying to tell me what my body should look like. I'll keep my labia to myself, thank you very much
ReplyDeleteOK. I thought I'd share with you guys my experience as a stripper/exotic dancer & of asian background.
ReplyDeleteI too want to get my labia done BUT for myself and a bonus for work so I feel better about myself. I don't do table dances because I hate it down there, I only do private dances one on one.
For everyones information, I make a ridiculous amount of money and have guys who love my lips down there. The say it gives them something to play with and YES turns them on. I guess because they can actually see something and not just a closed peach.
Well, I am still thinking of whether or not to go ahead with it but if I do I am going to asia where it costs only $1000-$1500 US.
I'd love to hear more stories on others procedures.
Just say you lose sensation? I don't think it's worth that risk. My labia are bigger than the before pictures on this page and I don't think I have big labia. They are my labia and are exactly right for me. I have a great sex life and have never had pain from my labia. In fact it's a turn on when my partner pulls on the skin with his hand or mouth. Even more, I like to pull on it gently myself when I masturbate and the skin is so fine and soft. I like people being more open these days but to compare your genitals to others or some "perfect" ideal is stupid. Frankly, if you want to hide the shape a little just let your pubic hair grow. (Radical idea these days!!) I guess if you really think your labia is the cause of pain in your day to day life go for it but the risks for me are too great. If you think your labia causes you mental anguish fixing it is unlikely to help you - you need to rather change how you view yourself. PS No man has ever said anything about my labia.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with the last poster. Guys love a nice labia, it gives them something to play with, suck and lick during oral sex, why the he'll would you want to stop that gilty pleasure...... If people accepted their genitals 50 years ago, why can't they accept their genitals now?
ReplyDeleteHonestly, having a vaginal lips like that is not only disconcerting, it's also very unhealthy. I want to get this surgery because due to my large labia, I have problems with UTI's and such because thanks to my larger lower parts, I'm not able to keep everything as clean as I would like.
ReplyDeleteThis surgery should not exist unless medically necessary, not for cosmetic reasons.
ReplyDeleteI LOVE large labia. I greatly prefer the before pictures. The small labia are a turn off for me.
I LOVE large labia!
ReplyDeleteI am a male, 42, married. and I love my girlfriends HUGE labia!
I also love my go to girls HUGE labia!.
I will not be with a woman who is not:
1.Skinny
2.Big labia, and OR nice feet.
She has to have nice, soft, slender, pretty feet and or a nice labia.
How do I get around bad feet to find out about the labia? Well, I have to be with her at least once! Then I know.
But I have been with women who will sooner show me her huge labia before I see her feet.
Bonus: Big, NATURAL, tits. Drooping is fine...please, no FAKE tits!
Facial procedures a okay! (women age faster then men because they always know what men are up to!).
Feet,
labias,
tits
skinny,
please, no brain power, if god wanted you to think he would have made you ugly!
The 42 year old boy who posted the last comment, is completely ignorant. He's married, and has girlfriends? I'm half his age and have more intelligence than him. Why would any guy want a wife with no brain power? What a fool... It's amazing how immature a person can be in their forties... Compared to a guy in his twenties...
ReplyDeleteI find my lady, who has a beautiful body and good sized labia very sexy, it's fun to suck on and a real turn on... People should just except their bodies the way they are, unless it effects daily chores and makes living difficult. Otherwise leave the body parts alone. :)
I wish women wouldn't do this. These labia are beautiful, and unique. They come out looking packaged. I believe their lovers would enjoy such a unique flower. I think they're deliciously beautiful in their original form, and to change them seems sacrilegious.
ReplyDeleteI am a man and a physician and a husband - I have seen a lot of labia and feel that every women is made the way they were suppose to be. I cherish my wife's large labia for the beauty of her womenhood. I enjoy her large labia and it adds to our sex life. She loves to have them stretch and sucked. It adds to our intimate time to appreciate each others body. Why any women would think of undergoing the risk of surgery for something only their partner sees is beyond me. Girls if you have big ones pull them, play with them, share them and enjoy the pleasure it gives you and your partner. Please do not destroy them with surgery!
ReplyDeletevery well said sir, girls should enjoy their large labia.. the way they are. surgery means gettin into trouble most of the times. you should think deep and consider many things before havin a labiaplasty done.
ReplyDeleteI am considering the operation because it is uncomfortable and looks and feels disgusting. Simple daily routines like sitting down and walking are constant reminders and uncomfortable chores. I think if plastic surgery can make that go away then i say why not do it and be happy after.
ReplyDeleteI am a female and I think all genitalia looks absolutely fugly. I don't find female or male genitalia attractive at all. I'm not saying I'm asexual, because I am attracted to people, but down there its just.. ew.
ReplyDeleteAnd weither you have big or small lips, I don't think it makes it any more or less attractive unless you actually have some sort of deformity down there.
I've just had the surgery. It hurts and is swollen and bruised, but I'm sure in time I will remember why I did it.
ReplyDeleteI am 40 years old, and have made fitness a part of my life. Try cycling or running, or taking part in circuit training classes when you have large labia. it is always uncomfortable, often painful and results in the embarressment of constantly having to adjust the underwear. Men get off your high horses and realise that it isn't always about how us women look.
wow, okay well i have had a HUGE labia problem since i first noticed it in elementary school...i didnt know it would get worse if i had children.. but just for the record, i hate it and i think it is disgusting and until u are there u will not understand... imagine not being able to freely have sex without worring about the way you look, and i dont mean hair or makeup i mean the way your body looks. i am 19 years old and have a 19 year old's body..in a VERY non-conceited way, i do get cat calls all the time and i just think to myself, yea, sure, if u only knew...i guess some people may like it but i know that i look worse than any of thos picture u see there...larger even...and i have a right to hate it...and i cant afford surgery...guess i get to be miserable forever...
ReplyDeleteim 19 and considering this, i never reallised i had this problem until i saw a tv program about the surgery, but it is soexpensive in the uk
ReplyDeleteI'm an older bloke and I've had a good time with many many women. Women who want to cut off their labia, shave their pubes, stuff silicon in their bras, just don't get it!! Why follow fashion or what you may think is sexy?? Ask us hot-blooded males. Give me a woman who has ample lips to engorge, who tastes sexy and smells sexy and generally speaking, I've found that such a woman is top of the list when it comes to her getting high and enjoying the encounter. And of course, that gets me even more excited !!
ReplyDeleteso many of you are saying that its natural and a sign of being a mature woman, but i have large lips and i'm only 17 and never had sex.
ReplyDeleteim so self-conscious of how it looks and they are uncomfortable when exercising or if im not wearing undies.
i really hope to get the procedure done within the next 5yrs. you shouldn't judge it and most of you who are saying you're proud of your large lips, well you have come onto this site so clearly you've been looking into the procedure yourself.
EACH TO THEIR OWN!
Ok, this is for the 17 yr. old girl who feels embarrassed. I am 18 almost 19 years old. I have darn well cried oer my large labia, but i was in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend, and he loved them, we're not together now, but we still hook up and he STILL loves them. I know what it feels like to be embarassed and to feel ashamed and alone, but you don't have to be, you're defiantely not alone in this. I have already spoken to my ob-gyn, and she said as many vaginas as she sees a day, im definately not abnormal, even though i feel lie it and am scared to move on an have another serious relationship outside of my ex, I don't have to worry, and neither do you. I know all aout discomfort when you aint got no panties on, and thats ok. But know your not alone and never will be, and no ones perfect down there, and no one looks the same. Everyones different. But our differences are beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI'm 15 and have large labia and i hate wearing swimmers and i'm scared of having a bf or going to parties because of what guys might say.
ReplyDeleteI feel a bit better after reading all the comments and seeing i'm not the only one, I'd like it fixed but i'm too young now. I've "been with" a few guys and none of them have said anything... and these are teenage guys.. very judging guys and although they didn't comment or judge I'd feel much better if i was comfortable with how i look down there.
It is sickening to know that there are children the age of 15 years old now thinking their is a problem with their genitalia and that they need to get "fixed" because of the ignorance of our stupid society. The people who are complaining about their labia, have a much deeper issue than just the labia its self... it goes well beyond that.
ReplyDeleteWhy are women worried about this? Women hate sex, and men don't even care anyway.
ReplyDeleteI have sort of the opposite problem. I am one of those 1 in 20 with very small labia. I am 25 but and I have one child but according to this, my labia are "pre-pubescent." Does that make me abnormal? Should I be having labia augmentation surgery? Jeez. I thought we women had enough to worry about keeping up with proper breast sizes and waist sizes. Now we need to worry about the proper labia size? I mean, if it's painful and causes problems in everyday life it isn't really cosmetic is it? It's necessary. But if it's just for the look of it. Damn. Where does this whole body image thing stop?
ReplyDeleteto be perfectly honest as a pre-med student about to choose a study. i don't honestly think any one else has the right to judge some one else s body because every single one of us has some thing on or about us that we are insecure about and if you think you don't your lying to your self. i personally feel that if some one wants to have an elective surgery be cause they think that it will help with their insecurities and they have a way to pay for it i say go for it. but to do some thing just because that's what the "in crowd" says you should be doing then please please be smart. DONT DO IT! but thats just a pre- med mans take on it.
ReplyDelete~just a man
Ladies,
ReplyDeleteYou are beautiful the way you are. Please don't have your labia trimmed. You have more to love than others and be proud of it. Trimming your labia is just like a guy complaining his penis is too long and wants it trimmed back.
Large labia is genetic and has nothing to do with your age. That's the uniqueness of you. Be proud about it. Personally, I love large labia and I am sure most guys are like me. All men should compliment his woman's body features and should make her feel good. Not the other way around.
I can not emphasize enough. Please don't do it. Large lips are sexy. You have more to offer.
Remember the old saying: The more the merrier?
You are well endowed and that's a bless.
We all love large lips.
Keep them pleeeeease...
I've read a a fair number of these comments and haven't really seen anyone mention the reason why I had a labiaplasty. I'm a 20 yearold intelligent college student that does not have body image issues. However, I had intense pain issues. My enlarged labia minor would rub against anything and everything when walking, running, playing sportings, shifting in class. The amount of discomfort was unbareable. Also wearing any sort of bathingsuit was out of the question. I really could care less if they hung out for the world to see, but I have a feeling the people at the gym would have felt differently. After finally discussing it with a OBGYN I was happy to find my insurance would cover the operation because it was not for comestic reasons but for pain and discomfort relief. I would have been happy with what I was born with if it didn't hurt so damn much.
ReplyDeleteiam 22 have a 3 year old daughter and have been unhappy with my labia since i was about 14ish. i can understand all points of veiw on this subject like why should we worry and care about what other people mite think of big labias be proud of wot u got, but on the other hand some people like myself do worry and care.i really wish i didnt but i do. my partner has never complained about my big labia but i am un happy with it. i honestly think about it everyday and have really seriously been considering having surgry. the only thing thats holding me back is cost. im going to my gp to see if i can get it on the nhs as it really is affecting my life. it doesnt matter how attractive i look on the outside my labias always holding me back.i also would like to have my vagina tightened as it has streched since giving birth. some people just dont realise how much this subject affects some women i am embaressed of my bits. your sincrelly a woman in need.
ReplyDeleteYou know.....I realize some people have this surgery so they can feel better about their phsical appearance down below....HOWEVER there are those of us who do have a physical abnormality, that causes pain when you walk, have sex or do anything active. I was born with abnormally large labia and they get ripped and they bleed, and it HURTS!! I've been married for 15 years and my husband loves me and everthing about me, and he also hates seeing me cry, because of the pain sometimes.
ReplyDeleteHELLO!!!! HAVE YOU HEARD OF LUBE??? THAT WILL TAKE CARE OF PROBLEMS WITH PENATRATION. LEAVE THAT FAT KAT ALONE! ENJOY IT!
ReplyDeleteHELLO....HAVE YOU HEARD OF LUBE??? LEAVE THAT FAT KAT ALONE IN ENJOY IT!
ReplyDeleteif a person is bleeding because of their large labia, then by God, have the operation, but for those who have it done for vain reasons, that is another issue. Either way, people are going to do what they want to do anyways. Just don't complain if something goes wrong, and it was done for an vanity issue, rather than a health issue.
ReplyDeleteEver since I was about 9 years old my right labia has been extremely long. After that happened, I thought there was something completely wrong with me. I thought my vagina tore or something terrible. Finally, I went to a gynocologist and was mortified by what they would say. I thought they would say there is something completely wrong with you and it cannot be fixed.I would really like the surgery but both gynocologists i have went to said that they would NOT recommend the procedure because it can be very painful. They said that when it usually does not heal right, which also causes pain. Not a day goes by when it doesn't bother me because it can be very painful. I am now 18 and am really not ok with it. Outwordly, I am very outgoing, but inwardly I am very embarrased and it brings me down when I think about it. How can I not think about it because it is just so big? I hated it. Not just because of the way it looks, but mostly because it is painful at some point everyday. I feel like I just have been dealt a lowsy card when it comes to vaginas and everything is wrong with it. This may sound pathetic but it is just how I feel.
ReplyDeleteLISTEN UP!
ReplyDeleteMost men DO NOT like long, ugly labia. They are just not on here telling you that. But, I'll say it, because it's true.
Long labia is gross.
I have large labia. Between the ages of 17 and 19 I was very self concious about them. And then I grew up. I realized that most men love the "camel toe" as it's been so affectionately called. Maybe it is different for black men but most of the men I have been with eyes lit up when they saw my labia. I love my large labia, and any man that doesn't obviously does't want what's in between them. Fine by me. If they get in the way during sex(which is rare) I simply reach down and spread them apart to get them out of the way. Sufficient lubrication prevents any discomfort related to friction. What's the big deal? I don't want my poontang to look like everybody else's. I think women should put more effort into accepting themselves instead of embracing this notion that plastic surgery has eliminated the need to do so.
ReplyDeleteI actually think the before pictures are more beautiful on most photos. There is nothing womanly about an augmented labia- it's kind of girlish to me.
ReplyDeleteI'm 17 and have large labia minora. I never really thought about it much because all my previous sexual partners just wanted intercourse and nothing else and I knew they wouldn't see them. Now, I'm in a steady relationship with a boy that I love. When I asked him if he'd ever go down on me, he said he wouldn't. It upset me and I wondered if it was because he knows (from fingering) that I'm "larger" down there. My confidence has been knocked. I know it's normal to have large labia minora, but I can't help but feel he doesn't want to give me oral because I'm "ugly" down there. What should I do?
ReplyDeleteThey're gross, you can spend all night trying to make yourself feel better about your mutant labia's, men hate them, we lie remember, we even say your bum don't look big!!! Disgusting! Thank god my partner's is perfect ;-)
ReplyDeleteMutant labia's 'are' a serious problem!!! The only reason 'anyone' would say otherwise is because they dont know what it's like having your inner vagina lips pinched all damn day when you wear a pair of jeans... who cares how they 'look' i too believe people should learn to love themselves, etc, etc.. but when you have to run to the bathroom every five minutes to put your labia's back in your pannies because they're pinched inthe elastic leg band... Life really sucks!!!!
ReplyDeletei love when my large labia flaps in the wind. i am a nudist and the feeling of the wind in my labia is indescriable. sometimes it gets caught when i wear thongs which is very painfull. And i have almost cut one of my labia off when shaving my cooter. My boyfriend loves to suck on my left labia while tugging on my right labia. Sometimes i wrap my labia around my mans nose and he breathes in my smell and moisture. Hmmm. Please leave ur labia' alone. The bigger the better, the longer the hotter, the weirder the more i like. Post more piccs please
ReplyDeleteive seen a pic of Christina Aguilera with one side of her bits stuck out the side of her panties, on one of the oops photos that you get in mags ( we need more insperation from mags to feel good about our individual bodies), everyone is different, and she must be ok with what she has otherwise she would of fixed it, because she sure can afford it. Im not particularly happy with mine but have a lot more important things to be worrying about in my life.
ReplyDeleteHere is a comment from "A man". I really like women with large labia. Its sexy and feels so much better than the thin, small labia. If I had a preference, I would always opt for a large labia. It just hugs the penis during penetration in a way that small labia can never do. Labia bulging out of panties...very sexy. Stay the way you are. Large labia is like large penis. Men will always prefer you this way. You are surgically short changing yourselves.
ReplyDeletePersonally, I am a woman with large labia -- my doctor found no abnormality and I am perfectly healthy, they are just large, that's all. Beauty does not only appear in one form!! I actually cried when I saw what other women had done to themselves in those pictures -- they were much more beautiful before. It's horribly sad that women buy into the idea that beauty must look one way.
ReplyDeleteAs for me, I would never, NEVER get surgery on myself to please the world or anyone. I am made this way for a reason. In fact, I happen to think that the extra surface area provides much more stimulation (I have never failed to have an orgasm and often have multiple ones -- why the hell would I want to change that just to fit in with what the world thinks is more 'petite'??). Ridiculous!
I have large labia -- larger than any of the women in any of those "before" pictures, actually. The doctor says that I'm healthy and I'm SURE AS HELL not getting them sewn up like that!! Why? Because this is who I am! I may not be perfect in the eyes of some other people but I am one of a kind and I would rather be an "imperfect" one of a kind than a perfect copy of anyone else!!!
ReplyDeleteI have larger labia, also, but fortunately my outer lips are large enough to cover most of them. I must admit I, too, used to feel insecure about the way they looked... until my husband told me he thought they looked "provocative". I had never thought of it this way. After this, I realized it was silly to think. That's when I started working out everyday and feel so wonderful, now, about myself. sometimes, as you get older, you grow into your body and realize those little things that you want to change is what make you who you are...
ReplyDeleteHowever, I must admit that if my labia were much larger and were rubbing on my pants, causing extreme discomfort, or I absolutely HATED the way they looked... I would definitely consider surgery. I mean, we ARE the ones that have to look at them every day!!
When I was about 15, I had surgery on my ears because they were largely protrusive. Before this, other kids used to call me "dumbo" and tell me that I had big ears. As I got older, I started to hate them more. I could not wear my hair up without them being ridiculously obvious. I would not, even now, take the surgery back for anything. I now feel more feminine and better about myself. Anyone who speaks differently about these types of surgeries is just outwardly expressing their insecurities about themselves... trying to justify not altering themselves so they can be happier. I agree that it is no different than coloring your hair, piercing your ears, or shaving... except the fact that it IS permanant!!
So, in summary, I think that anyone who decides to have this surgery done by a reputable surgeon, is aware of all the risks and, even so, is still willing to go through with the surgery... I say go for it!!
It shows a confidence and decisiveness within yourself that you are willing to go through with the surgery. It is not something very easy to decide, so that means it is something you really need to do for yourself. As long as you're sure.
I think that everyone has the right to live a fulfilling life and be happy with their bodies!! You should do whatever you need to do to be truly happy with yourself, partner or not.
"Do what you want and let the people talk"
ReplyDeleteI just turned 30 and I have a 10 year old child. I have always had huge lips down there and I have always been a bit self concious about them. If a man is not carefull, then sometimes they get pintched durring sex and some times they get pinched in the elastic of my underwear or if I'm wearing tight pants.
All and all, I have a very active sex life and never had a complaint about my large lips, in fact every man I have been with has loved my sex and my body.
So, even though they are huge and oftin uncomfortable, I would never allow a doctor to cut them off. I can't say that I love them, but they are part of me. I accept them as I accept myself, whole, happy and complete.
i have really small vagina i general. My clit is little, i have tiny lips, and i'm like abnormally tight but i guess that's just the frame of my vagina :) I sometimes wish i had a little bit bigger labia and clit cause mine is really small. I don't know.. i just would prefer a little more somethin. hehehe. i guess it could be because i'm young and a virgin, i always thought that our vaginas stayed the same but i guess not... but anyways, i personally think that we should just appreciate what we have and love ourselves even if we arent exactly happy with what we have. vaginas are beautiful! :D haha
ReplyDeleteFor a first, I'm a guy.. These people that say that this is wrong, are stupid and close minded. If it causes pain, or emotional distress to where a woman wants to hide her body or feel ashamed of it, LET HER DO IT IT'S HER BODY, AND YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS TO TELL ANYONE ANYTHING ELSE. Whether it's based on your religion (which you shouldn't be forcing on anybody else anyways) or your own beleifs, they are your own and it isn't your body.
ReplyDeleteHowever, as a male I DEFINATELY do not have a problem with big labias, and most guys like them. Really.
Leave well enough alone, as has been said. And when will women stop altering their bodiies? When men make women feel equal to men. In the interim 'to each their owm'.
ReplyDeletei've just read all the posts and feel sooo much better! i've got large labia too and was self conscious about them. when having sex, i'd pretend i was guiding the penis inside me while really i was parting my lips as i'd be wet inside them and dry outside so nothing was going anywhere!! it took a while to realise my lips were the reason it sometimes took ages for me to be penetrated. but reading that men like them and like to play with them and suck them and how they feel when having sex......well that's fantastic and i'm definitely going to be totally confident about them now! so thank you very much!!!
ReplyDeleteI am doing my research on the surgery and came across these posts. It seems that a lot of people are doing the surgery for looks. I agree that if that is the case then to hell with anyone that judges you. But if you are doing it because it causes you pain or discomfort, then do your homework on the surgery, recovery, risks and you doctor, then it is your life and your decission! Sincerly, Susan
ReplyDeleteI have been researching labiaplasty now for a while as one of my labia is much much larger than the other. It causes me pain and discomfort if I exercise and sometimes when I walk. However I do worry that I may be considering surgery for the wrong reasons. I do think it looks horrible being so muhc larger and protruding from my labia majora. Does anyone honestly think any man could find that attractive? Has anyone undergone the surgery and can tell me a bit more abotu the risks involved.
ReplyDeleteTo all the young girls out there with large labia:
ReplyDeleteI am 20 years old and in a committed, happy, very open-minded relationship. My fiancé and I place our sex life in very high esteem, as sexuality (and a positive attitude about it) is an important and essential component to a healthy relationship.
I have very large labia. Until fairly recently, I have been very self-conscious about my nether region, just like many of you. After meeting and conversing with all sorts of good-hearted and sexually open-minded guys, I have come to learn that many men have a preference for large labia; those men who don't prefer large labia just enjoy women in general. So, if you aren't experiencing any significant discomfort physically (and there will always be some with tight jeans etc.), there is absolutely no need to put a scapel near your private bits.
If you are with a man and he has the gall and the audacity to make a negative remark about your labia (as if men's genitals are beautiful as ocean sunsets) tell him one of two things:
"You clearly haven't seen any real women before!"
Or
"Maybe you should spend more time learning to please a real woman and less time staring at airbrushed va-jay-jays while pleasing yourself!
How many of you women have sons whom you've had circumcised? If any of you have said yes, but are against this labia procedure, kindly shut the hell up. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteMy name is sabrina..... I have a 1 natural child birth...and my labia is not big or streatch out...I think that you should love your self for who you are and if you want to get the surgery done..then so be it...but what I don't like is how some people on here are saying that since I don't have big labia's then my stuff looks like a 4 year olds and it doesn't.. you should be able to up lift people with out putting other people down... I love the way I look down there and who ever doesn't like it can go to hell..... we are all different and where made different for a reason... and if they are painfull, witch some of them look, then get the surgery done... but get it done because you want to, not because of a man......bottom line love your self
ReplyDeleteI am amazed at what I'm reading!!!! I think it is ridiculous that people are getting plastic surgery to make their labia smaller (unless for medical reasons/pain reasons.) I have inner labia (labia minora) that are larger than "average" all of my life - never had children. I've been with enough partners to know that the size of my labia does not negatively affect my sex life - in fact, I've been told that it's nice to have a pussy that actually has some "substance" to it!
ReplyDeleteAnd by looking at these before and after photos, I honestly think the before pictures are more attractive! You would never go into a flower shop and choose a rose with a few tiny petals on it!!! Ladies --- empower yourself and be proud of whatever you have!!! That's the ultimate attractive feature :)
I Googled labiaplasty because I couldn't quite believe this is something that lots of women would actually do. The girl who said "i'm 18 and i never really realised anything was wrong with me until i found out about this surgery" was saying more than she knew. Having a large labia was never considered unattractive by anyone until Internet porn broadcast surgically altered women all over the world.
ReplyDeleteI think just about the only good reason for labiaplasty is if your labia are truly causing you physical pain. Shut up with all the "OMG, don't judge." People are allowed to have opinions, and mine is that there's something really creepy about a guy who only likes tiny labia. Either he knows nothing about real-life women because he just watches porn all the time, or he's a pedophile and therefore only attracted to women with little-girl genitalia. At least guys who want bigger penises (though I think that's stupid too) want to look more like adult men. Women who want smaller labia for purely cosmetic reasons want to look like porn stars or girls that haven't gone through puberty. Ick.
I am 32 and would like to hear from men the same age of what they really think about large labia....
ReplyDeleteif yhu want it snipping - snip it
ReplyDeleteit mingin.....
plus it MUST rubb on ur pants..i mean come on (y)
The procedure is not $10,000 for whatever dumbass previously stated!!
ReplyDeleteEven doing research on Google, which a 4th grader is perfectly capable of, will show you the surgery runs about $5,000 (Yes, year 2009, in metropolitan cities).. Probably more in like Beverly Hills, but doubt you're there.
I'm 16 and all my friends are sexually active; and i'm too embarassed to even get close to anyone. I don't want to meet boys, and If ever I get asked out I always say no; because i'm so scared that they'll see my labia and then laugh and tell everyone. It's like a barrier between me and everyone else. I want surgery more than anything else in the world, but it's just so expensive; and my family are struggling just to pay the food bills. I don't know what to do. :(
ReplyDeleteYou are sixteen years old and your peers do have influence, but please do not let that effect you. After all, your 16, you have the pressure of school, what college your attend, your grades, your parents having enough food... Please do not worry about your labia, that's the very last thing that should be on your mind. Unless your in so much pain down there that you cannot sit down and it's a serious medical emergence, do not worry about it. Boys should not be seeing your labia, only your future husband... And at 16 do not let any of these "boys" to make you falsely to believe they are the one... Because they will not.
ReplyDeleteFocus on your future, not body parts. You were made the way you are and that's fine, your special and unique. Enjoy your youth....
My girl friend has massive flaps we are talking bowing 747. But i love them and wouldnt change them for the world. When she lies on her back and opens her leg they flap back onto her thighs like labradors ears.
ReplyDeletefor a moment I thought it was some one's mouth.
ReplyDeletethat is one nasty thing.
Oh my god im 15 and my labia is really large, it has been for as long as i can remember. It makes me wonder if it will get any bigger when i get older? Can anyone who has this problem please answer my question because im so insecure especially in the future, ive been considering this op for ages, in a few years but wouldnt really like to have it as ive heard some bad things about it.
ReplyDeleteI'm a 27 year old male and I think I speak for most men when I say the female form is truly amazing! I can honestly understand if changes are necessary due to discomfort or if its affecting self esteem. If you would like an objective male opinion send photos to willkennedy@gmail.com and I'll give my honest opinion
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ReplyDeletePLEASE PLEASE PLEASE LEAVE YOUR LABIA ALONE!!!!! I love everyone of the ones on the left hand side and would hate to feel a vagina that looks like those on the right!
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ReplyDeleteEveryone is entitled to their own opinion about how they both feel about and react to their bodies. And as liberated women of the 21st century we are able to exercise that right. With the freedom to choose what happens or does not happen to our body it's also our right and responsibility to be informed. Taking the opinions offered on a TV show or promotional website of a plastic surgeon or the examples of porn stars? Are those the places that informed, liberated, free women CHOOSE to take and base their opinions on? And worst of all considering a biased outside opinion of the most beautiful, personal and unique part of your body? Would any woman or man do this about their brain? Their opinions? I really don't think so. There are always going to be cases of deformity, discomfort or insecurity with any part of the human body. I think that this "issue" has been skewed by the media, the porn industry and the monetary interests of plastic surgeons. By now it should be common knowledge that all body parts come in different shapes, sizes and colours just like people, plants and animals. There are lots of websites devoted to accurately portraying the female and male form if you look for them. I don’t blame women for feeling unhappy with their vulvas, specifically their labia it’s natural to want to feel normal and beautiful and no woman wants to feel there’s a risk of being criticised about their intimate parts by the person they want making love to them. Men of all people should understand this with the parallel “issue” of penis size. Men and women alike should respect each other’s bodies and if they can’t then shouldn’t have sex with each other. If you are worried the person you will/do have sex with will judge you or be offended by your natural body parts then you shouldn’t sleep with them because they are being ignorant of likely no fault of their own. The size of a woman’s labia is equally as genetic as every other part of her body. Being a virgin and then having sex does not change the size, neither, does the amount of sex you have, childbirth can sometimes tear or change the colour. But there are no reasons the size colour or shape of a woman’s labia has anything to do with her sexual history. Women and men need to educate themselves about the reality and diversity or the human sex organs and not be afraid of the differences and then we can all begin to love ourselves, our bodies and each other. When women love themselves and their bodies regardless of insecurities that’s when they are the most confident, content and able to enjoy sex.
ReplyDelete(I understand and in no way wish to judge the women who have torn labia or actual discomfort, there are exceptions to all situations.)
~Pro Everyone is different and it's great.
I've always had "thick labia" and a very tight va-ja-ja. When my first boyfriend was satisfying me orally, he couldn't get enough and I didn't understand the connection. Of course, I quickly learned.
ReplyDeleteAfter looking at "other" pics do determine if I too had "hanging" lips, I determined I did not, but mind was meatery than the "average", WHATEVER THAT IT.
When I wear "stretch pants", I have to be aware they don't rise up so my "lips" are not protuding thru. When I wear padded cycling shorts, the front is WELL padded so I can ride without pain. Well, I think, (from the look on some men faces), they think I have an over abudance of Labia waiting to be grabbed. LOL.
In conclusion, everyone has to do what they think works best for them. However, no.. I wouldn't have surgery even if it was "free".
I just wanted to say that reading all of these comments has been very interesting, eye-opening, and liberating.
ReplyDeleteI've wanted this surgery ever since I found out it existed years ago. I have labia minora that are both long (hanging) and uneven...one is longer than the other.
I'm nearing 30, and I think over the last 10 years it's gotten worse (droopier). I want this surgery, but I'm not sure if I'll ever be able to justify spending the money on it.
I really appreciate all the women who have weighed in about their own bodies, and men who have said how they feel about it.
I do feel that any woman should be free to choose what to do with her own body, just like someone else pointed out---wearing makeup, dying hair...it's not as extreme as surgery, but it's all personal decisions that women should not be criticized for.
I have had this (Labiaplasty) surgery. Please know that it's been one of the best decision(s) I've made... cosmetically speaking!! If you have any doubts, do your homework; take time to find your Doctor....then do it!! It's SO worth your happiness!
ReplyDeleteOkay, for all you people that say: love your body bla bla bla, guess what: having an "oversized" labia is not only uncomfortable, it's PAINFUL. Sex is PAINFUL because your labia goes inside you! Wearing close-to-tight fitting pants is PAINFUL because your labia is constantly being pinched. Wearing a bathing suit can not only be PAINFUL, but psychology traumatising if something goes wrong. Don't label this operation a "shallow, superficial, thing for insecure people". Until you've experienced the PAIN that an extended labia can cause, shut up.
ReplyDeleteLadies Please!! Leave your labias alone! I am a man that adores vaginas. Everything about them. Their look, smell, taste, feel AND their natural built labias. Find a man like me that appreciates their special build as a part of you and lay back and enjoy the rewards!
ReplyDeletehow long before we ask for our little girls to be clamped and sliced nice and flat and symmetrical at birth "so they look prettier later on". we have done it to our little boys for decades. I bet it wont be seen as socially unacceptable if its done in hospitals by paying customers, and unlike an unmistakable male circumcision, girls will grow up never knowing their inner labia were taken from them. The world will only get crazier as, like the roman empire, we become more selfish, debauched and spiral into collapse.
ReplyDeleteI prefer the "before" pics. I love the beautiful petals
ReplyDeletepeople need to seriously consider the risks when going for this surgery or any surgery, i totally understand why u would do it if its causin you physical painful problems.
ReplyDeleteIf its for vanity reasons may i suggest you see a psychologist,its insane to put your life and sex life at risk because of a media influence.
some people really need to get a grip and if your biggest problem is what your labia look like then your very lucky women.
Ok so i'm a 17 year old girl and i have larger labia. Although in all honesty not absolutely massive but certainly enough to get me down, as it sticks out past my vagina. There is not a day go by i don't think about it and wish i didn't have it. I had my first "sexual" relationship when i was 16 and the guy i was with didn't understand you could get varied in size. So i didn't think about it then. But just recently the media and that stupidly irratating programme "embarrasing bodies" has a lot to speak for!! Since that, everyone looks down on it and think it is freak-ish to be bigger. No one ever got taught in school apart from how a baby is made, so obviously people are going to look at porn and such, stupid media!!
ReplyDeleteAnd yes i understand all the "love your body" stuff as i can't think of anything worse than surgery down there, but when it gets to you so much it depresses you emotionally and are frightened of oral sex, what am i to do?
And it's all very with the people that love it, but i've actually been taunted about it. (not by the guy, but his friend.) And yes obviously that proves hes a total jerk but how was i to know. It makes me feel in-adequate.
I'm now in a relationship with the most lovely guy i could ask for, and i am pretrified!!! There is no way in hell i'm going to have a convo about my labia lips to him, i do have SOME dignity. But seriously how am i going to enjoy oral sex when all i'm going to so is freak about it, the thought of it and what he's going to think. :S
And it saddens me because i love sex, and oral :( and just want to be closer to him.
I was sitting with him and another couple out the other day and my friend turned around and said this joke... (a girl was sitting in a bath with her grandma, looked down and said "hey granny whats that," she replied "my vagina." A week later the girl was in the bath with her mum and said "whats that," she replied my "vagina", so the girl said "no it's not wheres it's tongue.") Everyone laughed, rather awkwardly i guess, except me, i actually had a panick attack, it affected me so much :\.
Now being a teenager all i hear is sex sex sex. And honestly even in the last few months everyone is talking about it and how it looks horrific. I so wish i could change it :\. And lets be honest what teenage girl wants pertruding labia!!! I wish there was some answer...
I began developing large labia around puberty. I was always very self-conscious about them and did not feel comfortable being intimate with anyone. I had the surgery done a few years ago when I was 19, and have been extremely happy with the results ever since. I am much more comfortable with my body and with my sexually. I am very adamant about accepting myself the way that I am, and have learned to embrace my other "imperfections." I have never been one to be quick to jump on plastic surgery, but I do believe that it is something that truly makes you feel uncomfortable about yourself, then why not take advantage of the fact that you have the choice and the ability to be able to fix it? If you feel uncomfortable about something to the point that it hinders you from living your life the way you want to live it, then change it. Either way, it’s your decision, so don’t let other people’s judgmental narrow-minded attitudes make you feel bad for doing what you personally feel is right for you. I will say that the only unfortunate part about the surgery is that the recovery period is very painful. It takes about two weeks to fully recover and see the results, but for me, they were well worth it.
ReplyDeleteI began developing large labia around puberty. I was always very self-conscious about them and did not feel comfortable being intimate with anyone. I had the surgery done a few years ago when I was 19, and have been extremely happy with the results ever since. I am much more comfortable with my body and with my sexuality. I am very adamant about accepting myself the way that I am, and have learned to embrace my other "imperfections." I have never been one to be quick to jump on plastic surgery, but I do believe that it is something that truly makes you feel uncomfortable about yourself, then why not take advantage of the fact that you have the choice and the ability to be able to fix it? If you feel uncomfortable about something to the point that it hinders you from living your life the way you want to live it, then change it. Either way, it’s your decision, so don’t let other people’s judgmental narrow-minded attitudes make you feel bad for doing what you personally feel is right for you. I will say that the only unfortunate part about the surgery is that the recovery period is very painful. It takes about two weeks to fully recover and see the results, but for me, they were well worth it.
ReplyDeleteI am also a virgin, 21 years old, and I have been terrified to have sex. I was almost raped when I was 13, and I like to attribute his stopping to the fact that my labia are... well let us say, strange. One of the labia minora is a centimeter and a half longer, and great deal darker, than the other, and the labia majora are slightly flat, dark, and even a little bit wrinkled near the vaginal opening. But a couple of years ago I met a guy at college, and he's so sweet (a sub like me), and he understands my fear of men, but doesn't know what I know about my vagina. I'm terrified that when we finally do build my courage enough to have sex he will be repulsed by it.
ReplyDeleteAlso I am a skater: roller skates and blades, skate board, and actually a snow boarder and swimmer as well as biking for recreation. I often find my large labia become pinched as I move, and it leads to discomfort as well as hygienic issues. I want to get this done, but as a college student I just can't afford it. Are there any tips anyone can give me regarding health in this delicate area? Signed, Tiri.
i have one side of my labia which is about 2 cm longer than the other side. Its frustrating!!! Not only do i feel uncomforatable with people looking at me 'down there' as one side sticks out but it also gets caught while having sex. And if thats not enough to top it it constatntly rubs against underwear when i walk and is noticeable when wearing tight underwear. Im all for 'girl power' and 'love yourselves' but when it comes to being in so much pain maybe a bit of vanity isnt so vain afterall...x
ReplyDeleteI LOVE LABIA!
ReplyDeleteI thought that I was alone and that my labia's "both minor and majors' were the only ones that looked like dropped roast beef.I am 62 years young and my husband Carl likes my Labia's. He calls them "meat curtains" Thanks alot Carl!! He is an ass whole. What about his scrotum? It hangs down to his mid thigh. He needs a nut bra. Plus he has no ass anymore.His ass is extra white and skinny and just plain gross. He is also sort of crazy in bed. He loves oral sex and he pulls my meat curtains with his teath and pulls them out so far and jokes and says he wants to make a roast beef sandwich. He would kill me if I cut off his roast beef. I really love Carl. I just wish he would get an ass implant.
ReplyDeleteman they are some funky looking labia's.
ReplyDeletethere is nothing wrong with a large labia. many men are aroused by large labias.
ReplyDeleteWith the exception of those afflicted with some a dysfunctional abnormality, women should leave their labia as they were designed to be. Some of these alterations have transformed perfectly delightful labia into some skinny, wretched and unattractive version. The third one down on this page for example:
ReplyDeletehttp://plasticsurgeryphotos.blogspot.com/2007/08/labiaplsty-pictures.html
That third one was perfect before the operation and ruined afterwards in my opinion. I think people have these operations, not because they have something wrong with their body, but because they are having psychological issues. These will not be cured with a scalpel I'm afraid. I'm a man by the way.
For Years i had a massive phobia about my labia that it wasn't "slit" like, to the extent where my lack of confidence and feelings of not being good enough or perfect has really affected my whole life. I am 30 and only just starting to realize that it is really not that bad. every partner i have ever had has always loved giving me oral sex, so a big fuck you to the previous posts that say that larger flaps are "mutated" men dont like larger labia, granted it is subjective and personal choice but generally men are fucken grateful to have a vage at there disposal. I only know one guy ever who has said he doesnt like them and believe me i have been researching this for a bloody long time. my current partner now actually genuinely prefers "meater" labia and has showed my a lot of porn with gorgeous women young and old that have them. In conclusion although i think people should have choice and if it makes them feel better then its up to them. It's just a massive shame that we cant change peoples perception of body image and that we cant openly talk about these things so people can realise that there is no such thing as "normal".
ReplyDeletegirls please stop worrying, all pussies are unique and beautiful. i should know i'm a 30 yr old man. all men love meatie pussies just as much as small lipped pussies.oral sex is much more fun with bigger lipped pussies. you are all beautiful and if this is all you have to worry about in your lives than you are all very lucky.
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ReplyDeleteleave your labia alone! unless its for a medical or health reason there should be no reason to go under the knife.
to all you girls under 20 that are thinking of getting surgery because you are worried what a teenage boy might think of you vagina, hold off and wait. teenage boys are the last people on earth who should be able to pass judgement on anyone. until they can refrain from premature ejaculating, get and maintain an erection or even have the skill to make a female orgasm than their ill informed opinions and comments should be brushed off and given the same consideration you would give to an annoying mess on the sole of your shoe.
ladies men love natural vaginas, i am a 32 year old man and love a full bodied natural looking vagina. there is no better feeling than making love to a woman with a full sized labia. it fits and wraps round the penis to be such a nice wet warm feeling.
love yourselves ladies, we men love you the way your are! and i'd love to be able to tell you all how perfect in your own way you are :)
HAH. That's what ya get for fucking anything that moves... you get a stretched-out hole...
ReplyDeleteWhy do women care how big or small their labia are. "I just want it to be pretty!" Maybe it's already pretty! I can guarantee you that in the history of conscious human beings no man ever said "You are beautiful and smart and I love your amazing cooking but your vagina's ugly so I gotta leave." Men think all vaginas are pretty why can't we women believe that. We always tend to think we're less than: less pretty, less talented, less thin, less smart. Now we fixate on what our vaginas look like. I have a question. What if labia are supposed to look like that and the small ones are freaks of nature?
ReplyDeleteI believe the ladies who had labia reductions will sorry sooner or later. My girlfriend had it done as she feared men will not like her large inner lips. Then she befriended lovely man who was quite disapointed when she told him about her surgery. Later she admitted her mistake as her lower loves to perform cunnilingus on her for a long time each time they are together, as she confided to me he wants a woman with large labia. He said it makes him happy to satisfy his lover, to give her orgasm with his mouth many times then to finish the session to enter her for the great finale!
ReplyDeleteGirls don`t do it, keep your labias until you really need the surgery, if at all. My labia is very long I have to roll it in between my large labias when "not in use" but not only I but my two long time lovers of both sexes love it too. We have great loving relationship respecting each other. Today we are mature people with no regrets.
Find yourself the lover who loves you as you are, s/he will respect you and love you for that.
i would like to know what younger guys think about this?
ReplyDeleteThe thing is not being preety or whatsoever.. My case is that it hurts the wqay it feels against my jeans.. I'd let my labia the way it is if it wasn't uncomfortable.
ReplyDeleteAnd you guys: take a look at your own genitalia and see they are not perfect at all!!
Check out some of these pics of sexy women with sexy long labia:
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I have had long inner labia my whole life and spent many years feeling ashamed, until I googled "long labia" and found all kinds of very sexy pictures of women showing off their huge labia and read many accounts of men who are very turned on by this. I became convinced, actually, that more men are turned on by large labia than not.
As for cycling, I use a cutout women's seat, quality padded biking shorts, and rub Eucerin cream all over the area before long rides and it's not a problem.
As for sex, a good amount of foreplay will engorge the labia and make them more puffy so that they don't get caught in your vagina.
I respect the decision of many women to have this surgery when it has become a painful problem for various reasons, but if I was getting the surgery I would tell them to leave some length so that they still at least protrude a bit because it's beautiful and a huge turn-on to men. I think the "after" pictures look unnatural and unattractive.
Just my two cents
Most of the people here base their decisions on how something looks without researching the benefits of our natural development. Did you know that the labia was created to keep bacteria on the outside so we're less likely to have infection? And many women with smaller labia get frequent infection and also pain and discomfort as well? Did you know that most women who have orgasms from penetration do so because the labia is being pulled which stimulates the clitoris causing orgasm? Did you know inner labia can be as long as 2.5 inches from its visible point? Everybody's different, but do you really think there are no other women, out of the billions on Earth, that don't have a vagina that looks similar to yours? I'm betting there is, and I'm betting some of them really like the way they look. You should too!
ReplyDeleteI love large labia...i find it very erotic & exciting to see as I am making love to my wife who does have a large labia....leave them alone ladies unless for a health reason
ReplyDeleteim 16 and feel it has held me back from doin alot of things its in my mind all day everyday and ive only ever had sex once i feel so embaressed that ill be the talked bout and laughed at.. im strongly considering saving up 4 it not just for looks but its unhygenic aswell i hate it!!!
ReplyDeleteI think its great that they offer this surgery, maybe it isn't a necessary procedure but women suffering like this should have the option to feel better about themselves. I'm honestly on the line, I dont have very large labia like some of these girls but not very small either. My boyfriend loves me the way I am and all the guys Ive dated have never said anything but good things but some how Im not exactly comfortable with the way I look so Im not quite sure what to do. I feel like I may want to save up the money...Im glad I am able to read all these comments and find out how other people feel about the procedure.
ReplyDeleteIm a 15 year old girl and I have the same problem.. Ive always been extremely self concious about how big mine are. Ive had long labia since I was 10. They used to be very painful, especially when i walk but ive gotten used to them. Im only uncomfortable in thongs and tight pants. I was so upset with how "ugly" they were I even had days when i would want to trim them myself. But since Ive read all of these comments I am not as upset about them. I used to think i was the only one and that it was my fault with how big they were. I want to thank all you men and women who commented positive things about them. Although I personally dont find it attractive, It sets my mind at ease that a lot guys find it attractive. I am unsure whether i still want the surgery or not, but when im 18, I'll decide then..
ReplyDeleteThank you all :)
Seriously, so much discussion about the labia - what a bunch of self-idulgent B.S. Do women spend all their free time with a mirror between their legs to see how big their "meat curtain" looks like? Most guys are not obessing about your "lower lips". If they are, you are dating and/or married to a freak, okay? If you think God is cruel to your bits, look at the practical joke he/she played on men. Our junk is on the outside.
ReplyDeleteI am seventeen and also have a large labia. As I was growing up, I didn't see any problem with it because to me it was "normal." As I got to be about thirteen, one of my friends made a comment saying, "Wow, you look large enough to be a boy!" That was when I began to be self-conscious about my labia. I started to want to look smaller, so I shaved that area, but when I did, it only made the skin look larger. After a while, I began to get used to my labia, and even enjoy playing with it. There is nothing wrong with having a large labia. The only thing that currently bothers me is that my clitoral hood is very large and completely hides my clit. Also, it extends farther on one side than the other, so the slit is to the side. Also, because my clit is not exposed ever, it is very hypersensitive. Other than discoloration on the labia, there is nothing else that I dislike. Sure it gets annoying to be wearing the wrong underwear and have it shift to the side or rub you in an obnoxious way, but it really isn't always a day to day issue. Enjoy your labia. There are plenty men out there who also do. As stated before, it simply means that there is much more to play with.
ReplyDeleteI'm only 15 years old and my labia isn't as big as some of the before photos but it's still quite large in my opinion. Sex isn't something I want to think about for awhile but all my friends have 'fooled' around with guys while I'm still the in expirienced one. In the locker room I change my shorts in the restroom because I look weird down there and I dread summer when I have to wear a bikini. I've seen a doctor and I'm considering the surgery..but I'm still not sure what to do. Some people are saying oh men don't care while some say men are repulsed. So I want to get this problem fixes before i've wasted so much time being uncomfortable.
ReplyDeleteThese are not repulsed men, these are boys. Your only 15 years old, do not worry about what others think of your body, everyone else is busy being occupied with their own self. Study hard in school, get good grades and worry about your future not what is between your legs... When you turn 21 years old, your be glad you did not focus about what is down there... Everyone is unique...
ReplyDeleteLet people make their own choices!!
ReplyDeleteI had a labiaplasty 4 wks ago and I am so happy.
ReplyDeleteI could not ride a bike, or even enjoy long walks. i had switched to wearing mens boxers because my enlarged labia would feel like they had a rug burn. it was no fun constantly trying to tuck them in to avoid being so sore. my insurance covered the surgery because it was medically needed. My husband wanted what made me feel comfortable, not constantly in pain, so hold your judgements of woman who opt for surgery.
After taking a look at the before and after photographs posted here, I was mortified at how insignificant these 'abnormally large' labia were.
ReplyDeleteI'm 20 years old, with an even larger set. I'm still self conscious in certain instances, but have been told numerous times that I'm 'the best they've ever had'. Sure, some guys can be awful and rude, but majority are sincere people who are lucky to even be with you. My advice? Do a small trim to deal with the uncomfort, but be true to yourself and only take off as much as needed to keep you comfortable while biking or wearing jeans. Damn commercialism for making you feel anything but beautiful.
I don't know about all ladies, but I'm sure that my large lips allow me to have the ultimate orgasms - and guys love it :P
I am a man and I LOVE large labias, they are GREAT!!! If you have them enjoy them, "or let me!". every vagina is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI'm a swim coach, and some little girl I taught swam around my vag and PINCHED my labia bulge. LOL. horrible. I want to have this done!
ReplyDeletei am 16 and i have large labia im really embarressed about it and ive just strted dateing this lad but im too ashamed to have sex with him because of the size of my labia, all of my friends say their labia is not big and we were watching embarrassing bodies one time and they all laughed at this womand enlarged labia, i felt so down and i wished the ground would swallow me up... i have been bullied all my life for differetn reasons so i have no confidence any ways, im slowly trying to accept that everyone is different but its very hard as there are always porn starts and models on tv and in magazines whi have the perfect everything and it puts me down again... i would love to have sex without caring about ehat my vagina looks like but i feel too ashamed :(
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